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BUNDLE 1
Best- Seller
Intimacy & Connection Mastery
For women done tiptoeing around an avoidant partner.
You’ll get the self-assurance to stop asking "do you still like me?", the radar to know which flavour of avoidant he is and the intimacy skills to actually get through to him.
WHAT YOU'LL GET:
Effortless Intimacy Formula + Self-Assurance Accelerator + The Availability Radar + 270 Secure Women Communication Scripts
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
Inside you get 4 Clean Steps:
💡 Step 1: End the Pull-Away Cycle for Good: Your avoidant starts to stay present and actually leans into the connection. [Value $197]
💫Step 2: He Becomes More Consistent: He starts showing up the same way every day. Things feel steady for the first time in a long time. [Value $197]
🗣️Step 3: : He Starts to Open Up & Becomes More Available: He becomes more open about his feelings without you having to drag feelings out of him. [Value $197]
🎯 Step 4: Become His Priority With Him Chasing: He reaches out first, he plans more, and he leads because being close to you actually feels good! [Value $297]
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SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method To Stop The Re-assurance Seeking Loop : Stop the "he's upset!" before it hijacks you & get the first real moment of choice you’ve had in years [Value $179]
✨ Stop Auditioning For His Approval: Start deciding how you want to relate (which is a whole personality upgrade by itself!) [Value $229]
🎯 Stay Steady Even If Your Partner Disappears - or distances [Value $229]
🥬Feel Permission To Bring Your Actual Desires: bring them into the room instead of pre-filtering them to avoid scaring him off[Value $179]
😍Discover The Playful Way To Seek Reassurance that inspires love and connection [Value $229]
&
THE AVAILABLITY RADAR👀
Inside you get
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles : Get clear on six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the three types women always mistake for avoidants, so you stop turning every pause, slowdown, or shutdown into “he’s ghosting me.”.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion. [Value $99]
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270 SECURE WOMAN COOMUNICATION SCRIPTS
Plug-and-play" script library is your secret weapon for what should you say when he needs space, how do state a boundary without him shutting down and how to ask for what you want without him pushing you away?
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PLUSSSS BONUSES:
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 — The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
📕BONUS #4 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #5 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
👖BONUS #6 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #7 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $3278
NORMALLY $198 NOW $128.70
SAVE 35%
VIEW INTIMACY FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW SELF_ASSURANCE FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW AVAILABLITY RADAR FULL COURSE DEETS
**USE CODE VIPSECRET35 AT CHECKOUT**
BUNDLE 2
Singletons: Attraction to Commitment Bundle
The Attraction to Commitment Bundle contains 2 courses into one system for choosing, attracting, and keeping the right partner. You’ll stop falling for mixed-signal men, stop spiralling over texting gaps, and know who’s truly available. You'll discover how to date with a secure attachment style.
WHAT YOU'LL GET:
Secure Attraction Skills & The Availability Radar
SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT
The attachment-style method to attract your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull
✔️Step 1: Attraction Decoded Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People Get the breakdown of why unreliable partners feel familiar whether its your first rodeo or thrice divorced [Value $299]
✔️ Step 2: Your Attachment Patterns in Love And What To Do Instead: Discover the exact anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant reactions that influence your dating life and what secure responses look like [Value $247]
✔️ Step 3: Secure Attraction Skills: Date the secure way to attract available partners who align with your values, desires and milestones. [Value $299]
✔️ Step 4: Secure Commitment Skills: Move from that messy “are we or aren’t we?” stage into real commitment the healthy way without clinging or sabotaging it the moment it feels too real. [Value $299]
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THE AVAILABLITY RADAR👀
Inside you get
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles : Get clear on six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the three types women always mistake for avoidants, so you stop turning every pause, slowdown, or shutdown into “he’s ghosting me.”.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion. [Value $99]
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EPIC BONUSES:
💍Bonus #1 Commitment 101 — The Basics Made Clear One simple checklist that takes 2 minutes to scan before moving from “dating” to “we’re actually doing this [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #2: A short grounding routine (under 3 minutes) to stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #3: A 6-step path you can skim in under 5 minutes to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
👖BONUS #4 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #5 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Their Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $2247
NORMALLY $134 NOW $87.10 SAVE 35%
This is why Angel went from "My relationships have never progressed past the 4 month mark" to meeting her fellow yogi, falling in love and getting hitched within 6 months.
VIEW COURSE DEETS/SECURE ATTRACTION
VIEW SELF_ASSURANCE FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW COURSE DEETS/AVAILABLE RADAR
**USE CODE VIPSECRET35 AT CHECKOUT**
NEW ARRIVAL
Healing Anxious Attachment Intensive PRE-SALE
TOTAL VALUE : $4323
OFFICIAL $397 PRESALE $297.00
Get first dibs to the exciting NEWEST addition of the Secure Attachment Series. Rewire your anxious attachment at the body level so you stop being hijacked by panic, overthinking, shame, and emotional whiplash… and start living from a calm, steady and secure baseline that feels like exhaling for the first time in years.
Anxious Attachment Intensive
Heal Your Anxious Attachment & Rewire Your Subconscious Programming At The Root
**PRE-SALE *** AVAILABLE IN MID JANUARY
If every tiny shift still feels like danger, this is where that finally ends.
This is for you if
You overthink every interaction, replay conversations, and obsess about tone, timing, and tiny details other people don’t even notice.
Worry about abandonment by people who are literally just living their lives, not plotting to get away from you
You struggle to relax into closeness because you’re bracing for it to disappear
You want real calm, real confidence, real connection
Why this works
Because it heals the imprint underneath the behaviours. You’re rewiring the subconscious coding that creates the havoc so your emotions are no longer as intense
What's Inside
🌶MODULE 1: The Anxious Nervous System: Understanding Your Body’s Survival Code Value $497]
🛠MODULE 2: The Shame + Self-Blame Complex Dismantling the “It’s My Fault” Reflex That Keeps You Going In Circles [Value $497]
😻MODULE 3 & 4: The Two Core Wounds Healing the Two Core Wounds That Heal EVERY Adult Relationship Whether That's Your Partner, Parent, Friend or Boss. [Value $997]
MODULE 5: Rewiring the Threat-Detection System: Positive Regulation Practices for Anxious Nervous Systems To Rewire to Secure[Value $697]
MODULE 6: Reclaiming Who You Are in Connection: Becoming the One Who Now Helps Others Stay Steady [Value $697]
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HUGE BONUSES:
🧘🏼Regulation Toolkit Audio Library
Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown. Designed specifically for anxious nervous systems so you can regulate on the go instead of drowning in spirals. [Value $297]
🌄The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals
A 7-day morning ritual sequence that rewires your baseline for the day before your brain even wakes up enough to self-sabotage. Breath anchors, emotional priming, and confidence activators that strengthen your inner stability. [Value $297]
🆘The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker
A guided system that maps your patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress instead of hoping for it. Track your emotional shifts, triggers, and wins so the work becomes tangible and self-reinforcing. [Value $147]
🦺Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates [Value $197]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $4323
OFFICIAL $397 PRE-SALE $297.00
SAVE $100
VIEW FULL COURSE DEETS/HEALING ANXIOUS_ATTACHMENT-INTENSIVE
**USE CODE BFSALE100 AT CHECKOUT**
MINI-BUNDLE 3
MIX & MATCH
*Complete Your Secure Love Kit* 30% OFF
Don't want the whole bundle and just want one course?
Or want to round up the bundle & missing a piece? Add individual courses to round out your journey(or snag just what you need to get started!) ⬇️
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
WAS $47 NOW $32.90 SAVE 30%
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
Get your avoidant partner to lean in, stay close and become more available...effortlessly
Inside you get:
💡 Step 1: End the Pull-Away Cycle for Good: He starts to stay present & leans into the connection. [Value $197]
💫Step 2: He Becomes More Consistent: He starts showing up the same way every day instead of swinging between effort and disappearance. [Value $197]
🗣️Step 3: : He Starts to Open Up & Becomes More Available: He becomes genuinely more open and available without you dragging feelings out of him. [Value $197]
🎯 Step 4: Become His Priority With Him Chasing: He reaches out first, he plans more, and he leads because being close to you actually feels good.[Value $297]
&
BONUSES
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast & Increase His Commitment [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA]
WAS $97 NOW $67.90 SAVE 30%
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, that create chaos in your dating life
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method To Stop The Re-assurance Seeking Loop : Stop the "he's upset!" before it hijacks you & get the first real moment of choice you’ve had in years [Value $179]
✨ Stop Auditioning For His Approval: Start deciding how you want to relate (which is a whole personality upgrade by itself!) [Value $229]
🎯 Stay Steady Even If Your Partner Disappears - or distances [Value $229]
🥬Feel Permission To Bring Your Actual Desires: bring them into the room instead of pre-filtering them to avoid scaring him off[Value $179]
😍Discover The Playful Way To Seek Reassurance that inspires love and connection [Value $229]
&
BONUSES
📕BONUS #1 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #2 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR]
WAS $37 NOW $25.90 SAVE 30%
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
Take back control of your love life & decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so there's no more confusion about his availability.
Inside you get:
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles : Get clear on six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the three types women always mistake for avoidants, so you stop turning every pause, slowdown, or shutdown into “he’s ghosting me.”.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion. [Value $99]
&
BONUSES
👖BONUS #1 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #2 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB]
WAS $97 NOW $67.90 SAVE 30%
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
The attachment-style method to attract your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull.
Inside you get:
1️⃣Attraction Decoded Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People [Value $299]
2️⃣Your Attachment Patterns in Love And What To Do Instead: Anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant reactions that influence your dating life [Value $247]
3️⃣ Secure Attraction Skills: Date the secure way & attract available partners who align with your values.[Value $299]
4️⃣ Secure Commitment Skills: How to pace commitment the healthy way. Value $299]
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BONUSES
💍Bonus #1 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #2: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #3: 3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
🏃🏼♂️➡️BONUS #4: 90 second ritual when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. (perfect for FA)[Value $199]
**USE CODE VIPSECRET30 AT CHECKOUT**
VIP1:1 Coaching Package
(ONLY 03 Spots for 2026)| $3997 (Value $9997) SAVE$1000
USE COUPON VIP1000
Let me be your secret weapon for achieving bigger, faster breakthroughs in your secure love & attachment journey.
What you get
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🤩Six 60-minute 1:1 Coaching Sessions to be used over 12 months-anytime.
🤫Personalised and completely tailored to tackle avoidant, fearful, or anxious patterns head-on, while creating a clear path with actionable steps to the connection and stability you’re craving.
😍Customised Intimacy Plan
We’ll deep-dive & map out the exact steps to create deeper intimacy and a stronger connection with your partner—or attract an emotionally available partner who meets your needs (this works for avoidants, too!)
BONUSES INCLUDED:
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💡 Pre-Session Prep
Submit screenshots, text messages, and any extra details before each session so I can do my homework and come fully prepared to maximize our time together.🎯 Follow-Up Resources
Get tailored tools, exercises, and action plans after every session to support your growth and ensure your transformation continues between calls.📂 Session Recordings
Revisit every single insight, strategy, and action step with access to full session recordings whenever you need a refresh or extra inspiration.🌟 Priority Access to Q&A Events
Continue your journey with VIP access to my exclusive Q&A events for ongoing support and guidance.
BUNDLE 4
$The Best Value $
The Ultimate Secure Bundle: Get every bundle, and rewrite your love story for 2025 & step into the most secure, self-assured & confident version of you.
Ready to step into stable, consistent, secure love? This ultimate bundle gives you EVERYTHING you need to end the anxious-avoidance dance, heal attachment wounds, AND attract (and keep) the love you deserve.
WHAT YOU'LL GET
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA [EIF]
Get your avoidant partner to lean in, stay close and become oh-so available...effortlessly [Value $1331]
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THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR]
Decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so you know exactly who you're dating or in a relationship. Goodbye confusion, hello clarity. [Value $508]
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SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB]
The proven attachment-style method to attract and commit to your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull drama [value $1938
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA]
Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, and create peace not chaos in your love life [Value $1439]
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*NEW HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT INTENSIVE
Heal Your Anxious Attachment & Rewire Your Subconscious Programming At The Root *
*PRE-SALE *** AVAILABLE IN MID JANUARY* GET FIRST DIBS [Value $4323]
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HUUUGE BONUSES...
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 — The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
📕BONUS #4 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #5 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
👖BONUS #6 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #7 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
💍Bonus #8 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #9: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #10: 3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
🏃🏼♂️➡️BONUS #11: 90 second ritual when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. (perfect for FA)[Value $199]
🧘🏼BONUS #12 Regulation Toolkit Audio Library Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown [Value $297]
🌄BONUS #13 The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals A 7-day morning ritual sequence that rewires your baseline for the day before your brain even wakes up enough to self-sabotage [Value $297]
🆘BONUS #14 The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker A tracker that maps your patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress instead of hoping for it. [Value $147]
🦺BONUS #15 Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates [Value $497]
📈 AND so much more...
Total Value: $9539
Normally $675 SALE $371.25 SAVE 45%
**USE CODE VIPSECRET45 AT CHECKOUT**
Hi, I'm Shabana.
YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.
I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.
I've been navigating the complex world of attachment styles since 2016 and today I've helped 500+women transform their relationships and find secure love.
But it wasn't always like that:
I was avoidant into my 40s and then flipped to anxious-fearful in my marriage. We were stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap for 3 loooong years, walking on eggshells, and pushing down our needs (or demanding them so hard) we could barely breathe.
If I didn't have the tools, I'd be divorced 3 times already (true story).
Now, I can't wait to share my 7-Step Secure Way Method, powerful intimacy skills, and proven relationship insights and tools with you.
So that you get the love you deserve: the secure and safe love that makes you weak in the knees.
You ready?
Let's go. xx
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