Ready to understand why he pulls away, how he connects, and what’s really driving his behavior? The Availability Radar breaks down the six emotional types of men so nothing confuses you again.
Introducing
The Availability Radar 👀
The deep-dive partner-reading system that gives you total clarity into your date or partner’s emotional patterns, strengths, and traits so you can finally break-free from overthinking, self-blame, and chasing confusing mixed signals.
Truthbomb 💣: Far too many women waste years trying to fix relationships, heal their attachment styles, or figure out whether it's a her or him problem only to give up on love altogether,
The reality? It’s not always about working on yourself. It’s about understanding whether your partner or date is even capable of a deep connection or commitment.
It is time to decode their behaviour ⬇️
Let's be honest: mastering this one skill will save you from countless bad dates, or endless "is it me?" questions...
Clarity is the new closure. Until you can clearly see who you’re dealing with his capacity, his patterns, his limits you’ll keep trying to build intimacy on quicksand.
And if that wasn’t reason enough to pay attention…
❤️ You’ll finally know if his distance is disinterest or just emotional fear whether it's your first coffee date or your long-term partner.
❤️ You’ll stop personalising his behaviour and start seeing it through truth, not insecurity.
❤️ You’ll understand his strengths and weaknesses so you can trust your intuition and decide whether to lean in or let go.
❤️ You’ll stop mistaking chaos for chemistry and peace for boredom and break that annoying habit (and heartbreak) of falling for people
❤️ Stop blaming yourself for every little hiccup and know when it's a them problem, or a you problem.
❤️ And most importantly take charge of your love life by learning the six levels of emotional capacity of your date or partner, and start investing your time and intimacy on the right person.
Whether you're swiping through dating apps or wondering about your current partner, understanding the six levels of emotional availability is your superpower.
Aannnddd..the real pain: you’ve never been shown how to actually read emotional availability...
🤷🏽♀️ You might be stuck in a relationship that keeps you over functioning while he stays emotionally passive: he leaves your messages unread for hours, then acts like nothing happened
🤷🏽♀️You might be experiencing the constant frustration of thinking you’re the problem when he’s being confusing: last weekend they introduced you to their family, now they're saying they "have lots of work on!"
🤦🏽♀️ And you’re probably wanting to finally know where you stand: to love without fear but you’re trapped by uncertainty: They talked about moving in together but go quiet when you try to make concrete plans
🤷🏽♀️After a deeply intimate conversation where they opened up completely, they suddenly become distant and unreachable for days...
It's no wonder you are feeling drained and unsure how to trust your instincts anymore, wondering, "What happened?" "Is it me?"
Or even worse? You start shrinking your needs, doubting your self and your worth, and calling the whole debacle “patience”.
No, you haven't done anything wrong. It's not you.
The missing piece?
Knowing the hidden range of signs of emotional availability so that you stop taking things personally, KNOW when it's them or you problem and know EXACTLY what to do next.
What if you could finally stop wondering where you stand and actually see who your partner is plus feel peaceful and confident about what to do next?
I’m Shabana, and I deeply understand what it’s like to feel uncertain: replaying conversations, questioning your worth, and wondering if you’re the problem.
That’s why I created The Availability Radar - a research-based clarity tool built from years of studying attachment, emotional patterns, and real relationship dynamics. It helps you identify the six emotional availability types of men so you can finally see who you’re dealing with and what he’s truly ready for.
It takes you beneath the surface: decoding behaviours, tone, and emotional patterns most people miss: so start reading people & relationships with inner confidence and certainty.
And it’s the key to ending self-blame (a lot of us anxious & fearful attacher struggle with) choosing wisely, and experiencing the peace that comes when you finally understand the emotional truth of your connection.
P.S. I’m so confident in what this reveals that if it doesn’t bring you instant clarity on where you stand and his traits that you’re fully covered by my 7-day clarity satisfaction guarantee.
❤️ No longer spending months (years?) trying to decode what “I just need space” really means because now you can tell whether it’s a genuine emotional reset or the start of an exit strategy.
❤️ Feeling chill because you can recognise when a man’s pulling away because he’s overwhelmed (and will return), versus when he’s creating distance because he never planned to stay.
❤️ You know which avoidant behaviours come from fear that can be worked through and which are red flags that will drain years of your life
Feeling secure in your relationship because you know why your partner/date is act the way they are before it becomes a big issue
❤️ Trusting your gut about someone's interest & capacity for intimacy, right from the first date or even if you've been together for years
❤️Choosing partners who are ready for deep connection, or bringing out the best in your current partner (and repelling the two unsafe partner types)
You can tell within days, not even weeks or years, or when you've already invested your heart whether you’re dealing with:
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The Slow Burn: thoughtful and cautious, worth your patience.
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The Serial Breadcrumber: hooked on attention, not connection.
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The Regulator: grounded but needs emotional space to stay balanced.
You stop personalising every silence.
You know when to give space, when to speak up, and when to walk away with your self-respect intact.
You finally see patterns where confusion used to be and that make relationships so much easier to navigate
➡️No more sending texts to your mates at 1am asking them to decode what it 'actually means'
➡️No more chasing closure.
➡️Just calm confidence, emotional fluency, and the quiet power of knowing exactly who you’re dealing with and what to do next.
🎯You're loving smarter, not harder.
Here’s what changes when you have clarity...
GO FROM THIS:
❌Overthinking every text, silence, and mixed signal, wondering what you did wrong.
😕Feeling like you’re the only one trying to make it work, while he stays distant or inconsistent.
❌Blaming yourself for the emotional gap between you, unsure whether to stay hopeful, keep trying or knowing it's time to move on.
TO THIS:
⚡️ Finally seeing why he behaves the way he does and knowing it’s got nothing to do with you.
😍 Feeling peaceful, clear, and in control because you can now see how he is showing up and see his patterns with confidence.
⚡️ Walking through your relationship (or dating life) knowing how to respond to the six types of emotional availability- true safety!
The Availability Radar: because not all avoidants are created the same and knowing the difference can save you yeeeears of heartache
Tell the difference between a man who needs space and a man who’s already halfway to disappearing 👀
👉 Decoding the Signals: From Avoidant to Available (and Everything In Between): whether it's your partner's sudden cold shoulder or a date's subtle dodge of personal questions, or emotional consistency
👉Understanding Someone Who Needs Lots of Space (and How Much Space is Too Much) so you can decide if it's your thing
👉Is It a Break or a Breakdown? Figuring out if they're just recharging their social batteries or actually disconnecting from your relationship
👉Choosing a Partner Who's Right for You: Find someone who's on the same page about commitment, communication, and emotional intimacy
👉Navigating Your Love Life Like A Pro -free from the constant "They're so into this!" to "Have I been ghosted" mind-games
WHAT YOU'LL GET INSIDE ⬇️
Say goodbye to confusion and emotional guesswork.
The Availability Radar is here to support you with six in-depth profiles (plus real-life examples and reflection prompts), allowing you to instantly recognise your partner’s emotional wiring and respond with grounded confidence.
Inside, you’re getting:
1️⃣Six complete emotional availability profiles: their traits, their strengths, their icks so you can clearly see what drives each type [value $199]
2️⃣20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available [value $76].
3️⃣20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability but aren't! & what they are instead [value $76]
4️⃣The Emotional Pattern Decoder reveals the “why” behind his behaviour, so you respond with calm instead of confusion [value $76]
5️⃣Pattern comparison chart so you instantly know the difference between avoidant, acting avoidant, secure, and other behaviours.[value $99]
6️⃣Editable reflection pages so you can helps you connect the dots between your responses and and his patterns fast. [value $76]
You'll also get these juicy bonuses...
A back-pocket checklist of Avoidant Or Not Behaviours(Spot It In Seconds)
If the idea of instantly spotting true avoidant behaviour and never mistaking fear for disinterest again makes you breathe a little easier, this bonus is for you.
By grabbing The Availability Radar today, you’ll receive this laminated-worthy checklist that helps you decode avoidant versus emotionally healthy patterns in seconds so you stop guessing and start knowing.
(Valued at $77)
18 Sneaky Questions To Recognise Emotionally Availability (They'll Never Suspect!)
When you know the right questions to ask, you stop guessing and start observing.
In this juicy bonus, you’ll learn conversational prompts that bring truth to the surface naturally revealing how emotionally available someone truly is without sounding pushy, intrusive or insecure.
(Valued at $57)
The Available Radar is your secret weapon to cut through the confusion so that you never settle or overthink their behaviour again-in less time than your Friday lunch break
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Discover the Six Levels of Emotional Availability: know their traits, strengths, icks and values [value $199]
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20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available[value $76].
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20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability but aren't! & what they are instead [value $76]
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The Emotional Pattern Decoder reveals the “why” behind his behaviour, so you respond with calm instead of confusion.[value $76]
- The Reflection Integration Map helps you connect the dots between his patterns and your responses. [value $99]
- The 3 surprising truths of avoidant attachment (valued $76)
- 🎁 BONUS #1: “Avoidant or Not?” Quick-Check Guide to spot the difference between fear & disinterest in seconds (valued at $77)
- 🎁 BONUS #2: 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) (valued at $57).
GET ALL OF THIS TODAY FOR $736
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And in case you’re wondering: joining is 100% risk-free! You’re covered by a 7-day Clarity Guarantee.
If you’ve ever bought something that overpromised, I get it. That’s why you can explore everything inside The Availability Radar for a full week: the emotional profiles, pattern maps, and clarity frameworks.
If it’s not for you, simply let us know within 7 days for a full refund.
Nothing to lose. Only calm confidence, emotional clarity, and peace of mind to gain. Shabana Xx
I’m Shabana, a relationship coach obsessed with attachment styles & creator of The Availability Radar.
I’ve spent years helping women untangle anxious and avoidant dynamics because I know how consuming it is to care deeply for someone and still feel unseen.
I was also the "avoidant." one (or so I believed) and that's why I know attachment styles intimately.
I know the crucial differences between someone who's genuinely avoidant ,someone who's secure, and everything in between.
That’s exactly what led me to create The Availability Radar. I wanted a clear, practical way to help women understand emotional availability: not through vague advice or “wait and see,” but through real frameworks that reveal what’s actually happening beneath the surface.
I believe clarity is compassion. When we see others truthfully, we stop taking their limitations personally. Love becomes stable, not chaotic. My work is about giving women emotional peace not by changing their partners, but by changing how they see, respond, and choose.
So wherever you are on your journey whether you’re trying to make sense of mixed signals or ready to stop chasing connection altogether: know this: you deserve relationships that feel safe, mutual, and emotionally honest. And I’m here to help you get there.
If you're ready to start understanding the true dynamics at play, this is for you.
Come, join me for a delicious eye-opening afternoon
Get your fave brew and meet me on the inside.🍵
Shabana Xx
IF YOU’RE THINKING: “Won’t this make me overanalyse or label people?”
Let me put it this way: if you travelled to a country with a different language, culture, and traditions… wouldn’t you want to understand them before trying to connect or would you walk in blindfolded?
Now imagine visiting five countries each with its own language, customs, and emotional norms: but expecting to communicate fluently without ever learning how. Would that lead to confusion or clarity?
That’s exactly what The Availability Radar does: it teaches you the emotional languages of six different types of men, so you can finally stop misreading the signs and start understanding what’s really being said.
It’s about fluency emotional fluency that brings clarity, confidence, and connection. That's real freedom
Confused.
➡️ You assume your partner is EU if they don't respond to your messages immediately!
➡️You're trying to “read” someone’s behaviour and always end up more confused
➡️ You understand that emotional availability is the key to secure love, but you don’t know how to spot it in real life.
➡️ You might have historically labelled people as avoidant too quickly, and now you're unsure if you've missed out on a good connection?
➡️ You’re tired of feeling like the only one putting in emotional effort.
➡️You overthink sending a simple "I miss you" text, worried it might make your partner pull away.
➡️You’re ready to see things as they are not as you hope they’ll be.
➡️ You simply want to understand men and relationships better (in a nuanced way)
And so many more...
If you’ve just checked many or all of these boxes, The Availability Radar has been crafted just for you.
The Availability Radar is your clarity compass — showing you exactly who you’re dealing with, what drives their behaviour, and whether it’s worth your energy, so you can date and love with confidence instead of confusion.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use this if I’m currently in a relationship / dating / single?
Why is something this valuable only $37?
Will this work for me if I already know about attachment theory (or knowing nothing!)?
What if I don't like the course?
DoI get immediate access to the course, and is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
What if I take the workshop and realise my partner is avoidant? Is the relationship doomed?
The Availability Radar is your emotional X-ray: it reveals what’s really happening beneath the mixed signals, so you can stop guessing, and finally see the truth about how capable they are of meeting you in love.
Discover Who's Truly Capable of Love and Commitment & Who's Just Going Through the Motions
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Discover the Six Levels of Emotional Availability: know their traits, strengths, icks and values [value $199]
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20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available[value $76].
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20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability but aren't! & what they are instead [value $76]
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The Emotional Pattern Decoder reveals the “why” behind his behaviour, so you respond with calm instead of confusion.[value $76]
- The Reflection Integration Map helps you connect the dots between his patterns and your responses. [value $99]
- The 3 surprising truths of avoidant attachment (valued $76)
- 🎁 BONUS #1: “Avoidant or Not?” Quick-Check Guide to spot the difference between fear & disinterest in seconds (valued at $77)
- 🎁 BONUS #2: 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) (valued at $57).
THE FINAL MESSAGE BEFORE WE WRAP UP...
If you’re still here, reading this, it means you’re craving truth not fantasy.
You’ve seen what The Availability Radar can do, and deep down, you know it’s exactly what you’ve been searching for. But maybe something’s holding you back: a bit of doubt, or the hope that things might just “work themselves out.”
Remember, clarity doesn’t complicate love. It protects it.
Imagine waking up without anxiety, responding with calm certainty, and finally trusting that you can see things as they are not as you hope...or fear they might be.
So, here’s my invitation: say yes to your peace.
You’re not just buying a program. You’re choosing understanding over confusion, truth over hope, and confidence over chaos.
And I’m here, ready to welcome you as you step into clarity that lasts.
Click “Add The Availability Radar to My Order” now and let’s make relationship clarity your new normal.
Shabana XoXo
Say Goodbye to Confusion and Hello To Clarity
