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This is the EXACT framework that’s helped my clients decide -with TOTAL clarity- who to date, what their partner's real attachment style is or choose to walk away - armed with the right knowledge to make sure they made the right decision.💖👇
The Available Radar 👀
The Ultimate Guide to Know If Your Date/Partner Is Emotionally Unavailable Or Capable of Deep Connection.
Truthbomb 💣: Far too many women waste years trying to fix relationships, heal their attachment styles, or figure out whether it's a her or him problem —only to give up on love altogether, thinking, “Maybe it’s just not for me"
The reality? It’s not always about working on yourself. It’s about understanding whether your partner or date is even capable of a deep connection.
It is time to decode their behaviour and discover if they're truly available for the kind of relationship you want
- even if you think it's a you issue, feel clueless about your partner/date, or think everyone's a little avoidant ⬇️
YESSS! 💃 I'm ready to call in an available person!💫
Let's be honest: mastering this one skill will save you from countless bad dates, or endless "is it me?" questions...
Knowing this stuff will help you
❤️Spot the signs of someone who can open up emotionally, whether it's your first coffee date or your long-term partner
❤️ Trust your intuition about whether to keep seeing someone new or to keep working on your current relationship
❤️ Talk about feelings without it being awkward, and figuring out if your partner or date can meet you halfway
❤️ Break that annoying habit (and heartbreak) of falling for people who aren't ready for a real connection
❤️ Stop blaming yourself for every little hiccup and understand when it's a them problem, or a you problem.
❤️ Taking control of your love life by learning how to decode the emotional capacity of your date or partner, instead of wasting time on the wrong people or—worse—giving up on love altogether.
Whether you're swiping through dating apps or wondering about your current partner, this knowledge is your superpower.
Things are going great, you meet an amazing person but then something changes...
🤷🏽♀️ They leave your messages unread for hours, then act like nothing happened
🤦🏼♂️ One weekend they're introducing you to their family, the next they're saying they "have lots of work on!"
🙆🏼♀️ They make concrete plans but always have a last minute excuse to cancel
🤦🏽♀️ They talk about moving in together but pull away when you try to make concrete plans
🤦🏼♂️After a deeply intimate conversation where they opened up completely, they suddenly become distant and unreachable for days...
It's no wonder you are love-fatigued, left wondering, "What happened?" "Is it me?" "Why does this always HAPPEN to me?"
No, you haven't done anything wrong. It's not you.
The missing piece? Knowing the secret signs of emotional availability so that you date smarter, love harder, and choose partners who are actually ready for YOU.
❤️ Only going after relationships with folks who can actually handle being close
❤️ Feeling chill because you can tell if your date is EA, or you can spot your partner's emotional walls going up before they even realise it
❤️ Feeling secure in your relationship because you know why your partner/date is act the way they are before it becomes a big issue
❤️ Trusting your gut about someone's interest & capacity for intimacy, right from the first date or even if you've been together for years!
❤️Choosing partners who are ready for deep connection, or bringing out the best in your current partner (and repelling the rest!)
❤️ You know when it's you or them and no longer wondering "Is it me?" "Why do I always fall for unavailable people?" trap
You're cool as a cucumber in your love life, not a ball of nerves because now you really know your stuff and confident in your decision making. You're loving smarter, not harder.
The Available Radar will help you spot the genuinely open-hearted from the Fort Knox of Feelings faster than you can say 'commitment issues' 👀
👉 Decoding the Signals: From Avoidant to Available (and Everything In Between): whether it's your partner's sudden cold shoulder or a date's subtle dodge of personal questions, or emotional consistency
👉Understanding Someone Who Needs Lots of Space (and How Much Space is Too Much) so you can decide if it's your thing
👉Is It a Break or a Breakdown? Figuring out if they're just recharging their social batteries or actually disconnecting from your relationship
👉Choosing a Partner Who's Right for You: Find someone who's on the same page about commitment, communication, and emotional intimacy
👉Navigating Your Love Life Like A Pro -free from the constant "They're so into this!" to "Have I been ghosted" mind-games
Say Goodbye to the Confusion and Second-Guessing
Your Foolproof Guide to Recognising the Signs of Avoidants & Emotional Availability So You Can Make Healthier Choices Who You Let In.
Unlock Now!WHAT YOU'LL GET INSIDE ⬇️
😍 20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available
😍 20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability (but aren't!)
😍 Discover the Different Levels of Emotional Availability (valued at $97)
😍 How to tell true EU behaviour apart from someone who is secure (practical real life scenarios valued at $67)
😍 The 3 surprising truth of avoidant attachment (valued at $67)
You'll also get these juicy bonuses...
A back-pocket checklist of Avoidant Or Not Behaviours(Get It Laminated!)
(Valued at $27)
18 Sneaky Questions To Recognise Emotionally Availability (They'll Never Suspect!)
(Valued at $57)
This masterclass is perfect if...
➡️ You find yourself constantly dating emotionally unavailable/avoidants
➡️ You experience anxiety now because you're always trying to decipher every interaction for signs of avoidance
➡️ You might label people as avoidant too quickly, potentially missing out on good connections
➡️ You find yourself constantly analysing your date or partner's behaviour for signs of avoidance
➡️ You assume your partner is EU if they don't respond to your messages
➡️ You overthink sending a simple "I miss you" text, worried it might make your partner pull away.
➡️ You simply want to understand relationships better!
The Available Radar is your secret weapon to cut through the confusion so that you never settle for breadcrumbs again- in less time than your Friday lunch break
- 20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available (valued at $167)
- 20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability (but aren't!) (valued at $167)
- Discover the Different Levels of Emotional Availability (valued at $97)
- How to tell true EU behaviour apart from someone who is secure (practical real life scenarios valued at $67)
- The 3 surprising truth of avoidant attachment (valued at $67)
- Bonus #1: A backpocket checklist of Avoidant Or Not (laminate it!) (valued at $27)
- Bonus #2:18 Clever Questions To Recognise How Emotionally Available Someone Is (They will Never Suspect!) (valued at $57)
ALL OF THIS FOR $689
Today's Price ONLY= $111 $37
7 Day Refund Guarantee.
If you’re 💯not satisfied, I will GLADLY refund every penny you paid for it within 7 Days!
No questions asked.⚡️
I'm Shabana!
So, you want to know a little secret about me?
I was "avoidant." That lass who needed alone time? Me. The friend who wasn't ready to commit. Also me 🙋🏽♀️🙈 Wanting to spend time an inordinate time with friends? You guessed it - yours truly! 🙋🏽♀️
I know the crucial differences between someone who's genuinely avoidant ,someone who's secure, and everything in between.
And after working with hundreds of clients, I am pretty much a veteran of attachment styles & can spot these patterns instantly.
Over the past 5 years, I've helped people figure out if they're dealing with true avoidant patterns or just normal relationship dynamics. I've watched them transform from confused and anxious to confident in their ability to read relationships accurately.
That's why I created this masterclass. I've taken everything I've learned about the full spectrum of relationship patterns - from secure to avoidant and everything in between - and turned it into a practical guide that helps you understand exactly where you (and your partner) stand.
If you're ready to stop labelling every relationship challenge as "emotionally unavailable" and start understanding the true dynamics at play, this is for you.
Come, join me for 60 delicious minutes.
Get your fave brew and meet me on the inside.🍵
Shabana Xx
Frequently Asked Questions
How quickly can I expect to see results after taking this masterclass?
I think I'm the avoidant one?Is this suitable for me?
Will this work if I'm already in a long-term relationship?
What if I don't like the course?
DoI get immediate access to the course, and is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
What if I take the masterclass and realise my partner is avoidant? Is the relationship doomed?
This masterclass gives you the answers you need—no more mixed signals, just clarity.
Discover Who's Truly Ready for Love and Who's Just Going Through the Motions
- 20 real, unmistakable signs of avoidant and emotionally available (valued at $167)
- 20 behaviours often easily mistaken for avoidance or emotional availability (but aren't!) (valued at $167)
- Discover the Different Levels of Emotional Availability (valued at $97)
- How to tell true EU behaviour apart from someone who is secure (practical real life scenarios valued at $67)
- The 3 surprising truth of avoidant attachment (valued at $67)
- Bonus #1: A backpocket checklist of Avoidant Or Not (laminate it!) (valued at $27)
- Bonus #2:18 Clever Questions To Recognise How Emotionally Available Someone Is (They will Never Suspect!) (valued at $57)
ALL OF THIS FOR $689
Today's Price ONLY= $111 $37
HOW LONG WILL YOU KEEP WONDERING IF YOU'LL BE DISCARDED WITHOUT WARNING OR THIS RELATIONSHIP IS THE REAL DEAL
In ''The Available Radar" Masterclass, I'll show you exactly how to spot emotional unavailability, so you can stop second-guessing and start investing your energy wisely.
Whether you're always worried your date's about to discard you, or you're trying to figure out why your partner seems so distant, this masterclass will give you the know-how to figure it out - no more endless Google searches or late-night analysing with your friends.
Ready to become a pro at spotting hot-and-cold behavior and save yourself from more "What did I do wrong?" moments?
