Effortless Intimacy Formula

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Our most recommended course, trusted by 1097 women to feel seen in love.

Introducing

EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™

Changing Relationships Across The Globe

❌ zero begging ❌ zero ultimatums

**Unlock The Proven Framework To Get Your Partner To Open Up, Initiate More, And Stay Close – *Even if He’s Distant, Always Asking for Space, or Emotionally Unavailable.***

If you find yourself saying “Why can’t he just meet me halfway?” - this is for you.

^{7+ Years Coaching Distilled Into 4 Practical Steps}

✅ Emotionally Safe ✅ Needs Met ✅ Consistency

YES! Level Up My RELATIONSHIP- 7 DAYS RISK FREE!

REAL TALK...

When it comes to building a relationship where you feel chosen, secure, and deeply connected, the MOST important thing isn’t ultimatums or better communication tricks. It’s learning how to create emotional safety.

In fact, emotional safety is THE answer to getting him to open up, lean in, and stay close.

💗 It’s what makes him initiate instead of leaving you to do all the work.
💗 It’s what turns surface-level chats into genuine authentic conversations.
💗 It’s what inspires real affection and consistent effort.
💗 And it’s what finally lets you relax and feel chosen, instead of overthinking every move.

All in all? Emotional safety is the foundation of the lasting intimacy you’ve been craving.

Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance

Inspire consistency and connection without ultimatums

Say hello to heartfelt conversations, and healthy communication.

But.. right now love doesn’t feel effortless… it feels HARD

He always seems too busy, asking for space, even threatening to break up… but then he shows up again like nothing happened. The mixed messages are exhausting.

😥 You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection. All you get back? A “seen” notification… and a pit in your stomach .

😥You feel like a broken record. “Do you still like me?” His reply? Indifference. Or worse - annoyance: “You’re NEVER happy!”

😥You bring up how you feel. He rolls his eyes. “Not again. Why do we always have to talk about this?”

😥 You suggest couples therapy, talking about your feelings endlessly or reading every relationship book you can find...still no luck.

And all this?

Is not achieving the intimacy, safety, and ease you want in your relationship.

Aaaaand, has probably got you feeling anxious, unseen, and worn down?

You end up feeling so needy and desperate just for a scrap of connection.

I see you (been there many times too!)

What if you could stop waiting hours for a reply, PLUS hear him say “I miss you” and start making the effort without you asking?

There is a solution👇🏽

What if increasing intimacy could be SIMPLE and...EASY? 💃🏽

What if in 86 minutes - the length of an extended lunch break - you could have more connection and intimacy (sometimes with just a FEW choice words?)

What if you didn't need to have constant conversations AND still get your needs met?

What if your partner started going over and above in meeting your needs?

What if they started opening up 'voluntarily' without you asking?

What if you could have waaaaaaay MORE connection with waaaaaaay LESS effort?

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Effortless Intimacy Formula™

A 4-step framework built from 7 years of coaching women through anxious and avoidant dynamics, and distilled from my own hardest lessons in relationships.

Inside, you’ll discover how to reset the emotional tone of your relationship and create the kind of emotional safety that makes even an avoidant partner lean in, open up, and stay close. It’s not theory, it’s a proven system I’ve used with hundreds of women who once thought intimacy with their partner was impossible.

P.S. I’m so confident in this process that if you don’t love it for any reason, there’s a 7 day full money-back guarantee.

IMAGINE...

✨ You wake up and, for the first time in a long time, you feel truly seen. Instead of scrolling on his phone, he pulls you close and asks how you are

✨ You don’t have to remind him to show up for you—he just does. He remembers the little things.

✨ He initiates conversations. He listens. He responds.

✨ You send a text -not out of obligation but out of excitement. He’s just as engaged as you are.

✨ That nervous pit in your stomach? It's gone.

✨ Your home? It feels lighter.

Your relationship? It feels easy.

💡This isn’t luck. This is what happens when you understand the skills that make intimacy last.

INTRODUCING...

EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™

Your All-Access Pass to Intimacy With an Avoidant Partner

Say goodbye to sleepless nights wondering “where do I stand with him?” and say hello to real conversations, consistent affection, and a partner who actually shows up with our step-by-step intimacy reset, ensuring love feels secure, safe, and real.

What's Inside⬇️

The Smarter Shortcut To Consistency and Connection You Deserve Without Making ALL the Effort

aaand without harping on about attachment styles...just the real stuff that will move the needle in your relationship!

Step 1

The Intimacy Reclaim

If you’ve ever thought, ‘Why is he always pulling away?’ This is the step that ends the disconnection

This step is uncovering the hidden reasons he pulls away despite your best efforts.

The truth is, most women don’t lose intimacy because their partner can’t connect - it’s because subtle emotional leaks create tension and distance before closeness can grow.

You’ll learn how to:

1️⃣Discover the 3 safety leaks that are that quietly trigger disconnection- they’re not what you expect.

2️⃣Recognise the exact moments they show up in your relationship.

3️⃣ Use simple practices to stop them on the spot, so closeness lasts longer.

One client said she’d always panicked when her partner went quiet. Once she caught her biggest leak within days, he was initiating conversations and sharing more than ever.

Step 2

The Emotional Standard™

Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. Discover the smarter shortcut that calms your nervous system & and he starts leaning in with real effort.

This step is raising your emotional standard - the way you hold yourself in love.

Intimacy doesn’t collapse because you’re too needy or because he’s too distant. It collapses when your standard for emotional safety isn’t clear.

You'll learn

1️⃣Commitment practices that make you feel grounded, even when he pulls away.

2️⃣Feminine Leadership tools that open the space for him to lean in

3️⃣Regulation mindset shifts that calm your body so closeness feels unsafe.

Sophie stopped thinking “if only he would start thinking about our wedding…” and instead leading gently. Within weeks, he was the one planning for it!

Step 3

The Emotional Safety Shift

The third step is creating emotional safety the foundation of intimacy. Intimacy thrives when safety is felt on both sides.

We help you:
1️⃣Relinquish the control patterns that make avoidant men shut down

2️⃣Shift into a true receiving mindset (and discover what's not) so he feels safe leaning in (clients fave!)

3️⃣Use this one subtle (underused) tone that instantly increases emotional safety

Using my Trust Escalator™, you’ll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men soften, start to open up and want to commit

Mariah had been waiting two years for her partner to commit, when using these strategies, he proposed and they were married within 2 years (2 babies to boot!)

Step 4

The Chosen Era

In this final step, you’ll discover the exact strategies that make intimacy last so he’s not just with you, but choosing & prioritising you -again and again.

1️⃣Simple strategies to sustain the spark, so he chooses you over his friends and family and plans weekends around you.

2️⃣Easy-to-implement shifts so your partner willingly leads, meets your needs, and stays close unprompted.

3️⃣Tools that keep intimacy fun, effortless, and inspire his masculine energy so affection and playfulness become the new normal.

Timeless, easy-to-implement strategies that helps your partner lead with devotion and authority.

By Step 4 You’ll notice intimacy becoming your new normal. More playfulness, fun and affection follow!

Snapshot Of What's Possible

Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).

Mel, Austria: 3-Year Relationship

From “maybe you should find someone else”… to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.

Amna, UK -Second Marriage

From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates… to deeper conversations, surprise holidays, and genuine connection.

Sarah, NYC, USA: 4 year relationship

From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal, moving across the country and in together and a gorgeous baby

Marja, Belgium: 10-Year Marriage

From constant fights, stuck in the anxious-avoidant loop… to laughing, insider jokes and...finally feeling safe

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AND BECAUSE I WANT TO MAKE IT REALLY EASY FOR YOU.

You'll also get access to these bonuses...

BONUS #1

The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Partner Is Mean

Val $147

BONUS #2

The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map™ To Get Your Needs Met-FAST

(This can be used as a separate course, but I've dropped it here for free)

Val $147

BONUS #3

The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising

Val $99

Total Value = $1,082

ONE EASY PAYMENT OF

$197 $77
I WANT ALL OF THESE PLEASE 💖

Effortless Intimacy Formula™

It's time to end the emotional distance

Get the insider secrets to break through your partner's walls and create real closeness - no more mind-games, being left on unread while they spend HOURS on their phone, gaming or hanging out with their F&F, but zero time with you!

ALL OF THIS FOR $1484

ONLY $199 $47

*price to jump up soon!*

Give Me the Skills to Create Lasting Intimacy 💫

YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!

7 Day Refund Guarantee.

Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.

While real change takes time (I recommend 15-30 days of intentional practice), you’re fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.

If in the first week you feel this isn’t aligned...I’ll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.

-You might be thinking?-

You might be thinking: “This sounds amazing, but I don’t have the emotional energy right now.”

That's fair but here’s the truth: this isn’t hours of theory. It’s a simple, step-by-step framework you can apply in real time especially in the middle of (another?) tough moment with your partner.

*And the best part? It actually gives you your energy back. No more over-functioning, over-extending, or pouring out while your needs go unmet.

WHY WORK WITH ME?

I'm Shabana!

Maybe you haven’t heard of me. That is totally fine. I do not live on reels or chase virality.

You’ll find me on Instagram (sometimes), but most of my hours are spent coaching, holding communities, and supporting clients to have real breakthroughs.

I may not be Matthew Hussey (no shade), but I am an expert who is results driven. I've been doing this for 7 years now and very good at it.

I created this framework from my own lived experience when my marriage crashed and burned. It's been tried & tested in real relationships. If you want someone who chooses substance over clout and real change over loudness, you are in the right place.

I've witnessed AMAZING transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).

You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to big breakthroughs in intimacy.

It's your turn.

Let's make it happen!

Shabana Xx

P.S I get a lot of question why I've priced it's so low. I deliberately kept the price low so more women could access it. The value is easily worth hundreds, but the goal is impact: helping as many women as possible shift out of painful cycles and into secure love.

HERE'S THE DEAL...

I don't want this feeling of disconnection and frustration to hold you back anymore, so I'm going to make this a no-brainer for you so that you...

You'll discover how to inspire their desire to spend quality time together the EASY way, creating those magical moments of connection you crave.

You'll discover how to reignite that playful, affectionate spark, transforming your relationship from predictable to passionate!

And discover how to inspire your partner to be your biggest cheerleader and lavish you with affectionate words and phrases that'll make your heart skip a beat! 🙌

All for ONLY $197 $77!

(*This is a pre-sale. price goes up in November 1st!)⚡️

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Is This Course For You?

THIS COURSE IS PERFECT FOR YOU IF...

You're fully committed to the course and are ready to learn a new approach that actually works.

You're in a heterosexual relationship/ marriage with someone who tends to pull away and you're eager to learn how to create a safe space for them to open up.

You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and have given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.

You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+ of women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way

THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF...

❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or a magic solution to instantly change your relationship. Real intimacy is built through meaningful shifts, not overnight tricks.

❌ You’re hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone they’re not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship—not forcing someone else to change.

❌ You’re in a relationship that is abusive, toxic, or a situationship. Please seek support. These skills are designed for women in committed relationships or marriages where mutual respect and care exist, even if emotional closeness is currently lacking.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What if my partner doesn't want to do the course?

No problem! The course is designed to support you regardless of whether your partner is directly involved or not. Many clients have reported seeing positive differences in their partner's behaviour as they commenced through the course.

Will this help if I'm anxious or fearful attachment?

Yes! If you struggle with anxious or fearful attachment and feel like you're always the one putting in the effort. This course will show you how to create a relationship where intimacy flows naturally and heal your attachment style along the way.

Many clients have reported that this course has helped reduced their anxiety to 'almost nothing'!

How soon will I see things getting better?

Everyr elationship is different, so there's no magic timeline. But lots of people say they see positive changes in their relationship within a few weeks of using what they learn in the course!

What if I don't like the course?

No worries! We've got your back. If you're not happy for any reason, just let me know within 14 days, and I'll give you a full refund. No questions asked.

DoI get immediate access to the course, and is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?

Here's the good news: you get immediate access and once you're in, you're in! You'll have lifetime access to all the course materials, including any future updates or bonuses I add. That way you can learn at your own pace and revisit the content whenever you need a refresher.

What If It Doesn’t Work?

In over 90% of the case these skills have transformed the relationship—creating more connection, consistency, and effort.

But if your partner still resists, that’s your answer. Successful, fulfilled women don’t beg for love—they recognise when someone isn’t capable and move toward what they deserve.

I’ve worked with women who use these skills, watch their avoidant partner come back begging to make it work—and still choose to move on. Because once you understand what real intimacy feels like, you’ll never settle for breadcrumbs again.

Does this come with Master Reseller Rights? Can I give this to my clients, and is it downloadable?

This is for your personal use only. You may not repurpose, resell, or share it, and none of the material is downloadable.

You can adjust the settings to speed up or slow down the pace, and the platform will remember your progress so you can pick up right where you left off!

Is this therapy or a replacement of it?

This isn’t therapy. It’s a set of proven practical tools and skills designed to help you change the way you show up in your relationship. You don’t need to be in therapy to benefit from this work.

At the same time, if you are already seeing a therapist, the two can complement each other beautifully! Therapy can help you process deeper layers, while these practices give you clear, everyday actions you can take in real time.

( Clients have reported that this course has reduced their anxiety)

Ready to leave the emotional distance behind and start learning the proven skills fulfilled women have successfully used for millennia—allowing you to finally have intimacy that you too deserve?

GET INSTANT ACCESS TO:

4 Proven Skills To Stop Them Pulling Away & Bring Them Closer (Valued at $697)

Lifetime Access – Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)

Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises – Break old patterns and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($197)

Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)

Bonus #2: 5 Minute Method To Be Truly Vulnerable & Get Your Needs Met (Valued at $147)

Bonus #3: The 11 Pitfalls to Avoid if your Partner Is Very Avoidant (Valued at $99)

Total Value = $1,482

ONE EASY PAYMENT OF

$197 - $77
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ALL OF THIS FOR $1484
ONLY $199 $47*

(price to jump up soon!)

I’m Ready to Feel Safe & Loved💍