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Unlock A Lasting Way to Build Intimacy -Even If He’s Distant, Checked-Out, Or Emotionally Unavailable (No Therapists. No Ultimatums.)
Without:
❌ Being the first one to text, apologise, or initiate every deep conversation
❌ Carrying the emotional weight of the relationship
❌ Second-guessing if he’s even capable of change or commitment
The solution isn’t endless patience hoping for things to maybe “just get better” or more deep talks. It’s emotional safety you create on purpose.
✅ Emotionally safe ✅ Needs met ✅ Lasting connection
Cos words bounce off a nervous system that does not feel safe...
I Know What It Feels Like to Love Someone & Still Feel Completely Alone...
I crashed and burned in my marriage before I finally understood what truly makes relationships work. No matter how hard I tried to connect, I only felt lonelier.
💔 I know the pain of lying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away.
💔 I know what it’s like crying on the bathroom floor, mourning the love I thought I’d have & the weight of every romantic dream slipping through my fingers
💔 I know the exhaustion of googling “how to fix my marriage” at 3 AM, hoping for an answer that never comes.
I’ve been there. I spent years trying to “love harder,” be more patient, less needy, more understanding... all while slowly disappearing.
But what I didn’t realise then was this: My biggest struggle was about to become my greatest lesson.
*I learned something that happy, secure women in great relationships already know:
<-- I discovered that true intimacy isn’t about changing your partner—it’s creating emotional safety & closeness when nothing else worked.
I took everything I learned—the heartbreak, the missteps, the mistakes—and shaped them into a simple, step-by-step framework.
And when I started sharing with my clients?
*The results were unbelievable—I watched hundreds of women (many anxious/fearful attachers) go from the brink of break-up, silence, and walking on eggshells...
👉🏽 to feeling safe, cherished, and deeply connected with their incredible partners—travelling the world together, marriage, moving in, babies—the whole damn shebang :-)
And here’s the wildest part: these skills aren’t even hard to learn.
(And they’re not just “nice to have.”)
These skills are essential..
Because when you understand how intimacy really works, connection stops feeling like a fight—and starts feeling easy👇🏽
And I don’t believe in gatekeeping - every woman deserves to know these so she can have her happy ever after without abandoning herself.
Does This Sound Familar..?
When Love Feels One-Sided -->
At first, he showed interest, made plans, and showed up. You felt safe, wanted, and excited about the future.
But somewhere along the way, something shifted.
Now...
➡️ You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection, but all you get back is a ‘seen’ notification and a pit in your stomach 💔
➡️ You bring up how you're feeling, ask for affection or a simple "what do you like about me?" and he rolls his eyes, and says, “Why do we always have to talk about this? You're NEVER happy!" 😖
➡️ You're doing all the things: being empathetic, listening hard, showing up as your best self. And yet… it’s like none of it registers.
And you've tried everything?
🤔Talking about your feelings nonstop?
🤔Endlessly suggesting couples therapy?
🤔Reading every relationship book you can find?
The truth? Love was never meant to feel this hard.
✨You’re not asking for too much: you’re asking for what every woman deserves: to feel loved, prioritised, and emotionally safe.
You were taught that being the “good girl/wife” would make love easy but real connection comes from honouring you.
So before you raze everything to the ground...!
I want to show you a different way...one where you do not need a better speech. You need a safer space, and I help you create it.
Cos here’s what no one tells you: women in healthy relationships aren’t “just lucky” or special.”
They’ve learned a simple set of steps that create deep, lasting intimacy - skills that rest of us were never taught.
And once you know them?
There’s no going back.
They real. They're repeatable. They're learnable. And they're yours...👇🏽
Get The 4 Ridiculously Simple Steps To Create Emotional Safety & Mutual Effort—Even With An Avoidant Partner So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve-
...they make instant sense that you’ll wonder how you ever did it without them. *It just clicks.
Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
Build connection without over-explaining & draining conversations
Say hello to real effort, heartfelt conversations, and a partner who chooses you.
"...to think I was going to break up with him...I would have regretted that forever..."
💭IMAGINE...
🫶🏽You wake up and, for the first time in a long time, you feel truly seen. Instead of scrolling on his phone, he pulls you close, kisses your forehead, and asks how you slept. No tension, no guessing where you stand—just warmth.
🫶🏽 You don’t have to remind him to show up for you—he just does. He remembers the little things, checks in on you during the day, and genuinely wants to be near you.
🫶🏽 Conversations feel easy and deep. He listens. He responds. He actually opens up. And for the first time, you don’t feel like you’re the only one holding the relationship together. #EmotionalIntimacy
💡 This is not luck. This is what happens when his nervous system feels safe with you.
Safety first --> Conversation second --> Commitment follows.
And it's that simple: you stop chasing it and start experiencing it.
Zero Ultimatums. Zero Begging. Zero Chasing.
WHAT'S INSIDE⬇️
A Revolutionary [Attachment-Informed] Formula That Rebuilds Intimacy - Even If He's Resistant
By the end of Step 4, you’ll have your intimacy skills safely locked in and your patterns rewired—AKA your “I’m not chasing, I’m choosing” era activated. You’ll be doing less, and receiving more
STEP 1 Discover the Safety leaks That is Blocking Intimacy & Stop It In It's Tracks--They're Not What You Think -
If you’ve ever thought, ‘Why is he pulling away?’—this is the step that ends the disconnection and helps your partner stay close -even when it's hard
STEP 2 Shift the Energy So He Starts Leaning In Without Begging, Chasing Or Ultimatums
Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you flip the script, so he starts tuning in, not out.
STEP 3 Build Emotional Safety Fast That Makes Him Want to Open Up AND Deepen His Commitment
Using my Trust Escalator Method™, you’ll fast-track emotional safety—so even the most avoidant men soften, and open up.
STEP 4🔁 Sustain the Spark So Intimacy Grows & He Keeps Choosing You - Over and Over
Simple rhythms that sustain closeness and your partner leading, meeting your needs, staying close willingly and unprompted
Principle: Safety precedes intimacy. Once safety is felt, intimacy is effortless.
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Give Me the Skills to Create Lasting Intimacy💅🏽
You'll also get access to even more bonuses...
The EXACT Phrases To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful
[value $147]
The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map. Share truth in a way his nervous system can receive
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The 11 Pitfalls To Avoid If Your Partner Is Very Avoidant
[value $97]
Cos I'm an Attachment Style Coach Obsessed With Helping Women Facing Real Emotional Shut Out - Tested in the Trenches
Nice to meet you! I'm Shabana!
So, you want to know a little secret about me?
I've experienced it all. From turbulent marriages, great relationships to epics breakups, being an avoidant extraordinaire to anxious wreck. I got one too many t-shirts.
And now? I've cracked the code on building intimacy - even with the most avoidant partners.
And, let me tell you, it's a radical shift!
I've spent the past 5 years coaching and helping 1000+ anxious/fearful and avoidant women on how to build intimacy with their partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZING transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Building a deep connection is simpler than you might think.
I've been there, done that, and discovered the shortcuts. What once seemed frustrating and painful can become effortless and rewarding.
That's why I've created this course. I distilled the key insights from my journey and my coaching into 4 straightforward, easy-to-implement skills that create safety first.
Unlike countless “talk it out” courses (that don't work!) it’s centred on micro-shifts that don’t require your partner to participate at all.
Small, doable, practical shifts. Big returns in connection..
If you are ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness, this course is your roadmap.
I will guide you through each step and make the process smooth and enjoyable.
You will wonder why you ever thought it was difficult.
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy? See you on the other side
Shabana Xx
100% No-Risk Money-Back
7-Day Guarantee
Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.
While real change takes time (I recommend at least 60 days of intentional practice), you’re fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.
If in the first week you feel this isn’t aligned...I’ll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.
You don’t have to earn intimacy or another $1,997 course to decode his behaviour — you just need the tools that shift the dynamic-for real.
- 4 PROVEN Steps To Build Intimacy Even With An Avoidant Partner(Valued at $497)
- Lifetime Access – Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)
- Worksheets & Guided Exercises – End disconnection and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($197)
- Bonus #4: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #5: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable In A Few Minutes ($147)
- Bonus #6: The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partner is Very Avoidant (Valued at $99)
TOTAL VALUE: $1481
ALL OF THIS FOR ONLY $197
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💯 Satisfaction Guarantee
I know the feeling of disconnection and frustration can leave you feeling helpless, but I want to make this easy for you
Because when you have the right steps, you can start seeing shifts within a few weeks( sometimes in days)—
and finally experience:
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The ease of inspiring your partner to genuinely want to spend quality time with you, creating the deep, connected moments you’ve been longing for. No more waiting for them to initiate.
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A rekindled energy of playfulness and affection, shifting your relationship from feeling emotionally distant to passionate, reassuring, and safe.
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The confidence to encourage your partner to become your greatest supporter, offering you words that heal, validate, and reassure your worth so you no longer feel confused, insecure or uncertain🙌
💅🏽You don’t need to fix everything.
You just need the 4 steps that actually work - starting now.
Is This Course For You?
This bite-size course is designed for women who want deep transformation without hours of content—just focused, doable shifts that actually work
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You're fully committed to the steps and skills and are ready to learn an approach that actually works.
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You're a woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship/marriage and eager to bridge the distance and disconnection.
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You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and have given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+ women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
❌ This isn’t a quick-hit wonder. If you're looking for a magic solution to instantly change your relationship, this isn’t it.
You need to be willing to try the strategies for at least a few weeks.
❌ This course isn’t for situationships where things stay vague, or undefined.
❌ You’re hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone they’re not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to building emotional safety - not forcing someone else to change.
❌ You’re in a relationship that is abusive or extremely toxic.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner doesn't want to do the course?
Will this help if I dont know my attachment style?
How soon will I see things getting better?
How do know this isn't just another fad course and is different from everything else I’ve tried?
DoI get immediate access to the course, is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
Is this something I can learn quickly?
What If It Doesn’t Work?
Ready for Intimacy That Doesn’t Cost You Your Soul—Or Thousands in Couples Therapy?
If you’ve been holding the relationship together with emotional duct tape—
If you’re tired of decoding mixed signals, overthinking your every word, and doing all the work just to feel close...
You don’t need another exhausting conversation.
You don’t need to be “more chill,” “more healed,” or “less needy.”
You need the 4 steps that actually create safety, connection, and effort on both sides.
The Effortless Intimacy Formula gives you that so that you shift the dynamic—
without chasing, overgiving, or abandoning your truth.
This is where the pattern breaks 👇🏽
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