❌You DON"T need more dates, more swipes or hacks.
➡️ You need to learn the SECURE way to attract someone emotionally available, aligned, and ready for something real.
(P.S. It’s exactly how 100+ clients found love after years of dead-end dates.)
 
LET'S GO 👇🏽

Master Secure Attraction Skills to Confidently Call In a  Committed, Emotionally Available Partner Without Losing Yourself in the Process

- Whether you’re anxiously chasing, avoidantly shutting down, or stuck in the fearful in-between—this 3-step process will help you rewire how you show up in love, so you can finally step into the kind of relationship that’s truly worth receiving and committing to.

 
This isn’t about hoping for a lucky break (or swipe), it's about your attachment patterns and transforming them to secure...
 
And this where you'll learn them⬇️ 

 

YESSS! I NEED THESE SKILLS💃

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Ditch the hot & cold that isn't working for you

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Transform how you attract a partner with proven strategies 

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Say hello to emotionally available partners that you click with 

 

I KNOW you're ready to stop chasing or running for the hills as soon as things get real.

 

You know you're capable of a loving, committed relationship
 
But there's just one problem: You're drawn to partners who never say a hell-yes to you, or find flaws when someone is available...
 

Let me guess...
🙈 You sent a message... and now you’re spiraling, replaying every word—or avoiding your phone entirely because you can’t deal with what it might say.
😖 You’ve been seeing someone—and now they’re either “too busy” or a little too available. You’re stuck, overthinking every detail or pulling away before it gets messy.
🏃🏽‍♀️ Someone starts getting close... and suddenly it’s too much. You either dive in too fast—or cancel plans just to feel like yourself again.
🤷🏽‍♀️ You’re dating someone “nice,” but deep down you’re unsure. One day you’re imagining a future—the next, you’re questioning everything.
💔 And when someone finally excites you? It either burns too quickly... or fizzles the moment things start to feel real.

Sound familiar?

Let me tell you something: This isn’t you. This is your anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant patterns running the show—keeping you stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling attractions and relationships that crash and burn before they ever take off.

But here’s the good news: You can break the cycle. And I’m going to show you exactly how. 💥

Picture this👇

It's Saturday night, and you're getting ready for another first date.

But this time, it's different.

This time, you’re not rolling your eyes or half-dreading the awkward small talk. Nope—this time, you’re actually excited.

No exit strategies, no second-guessing, no “What if they’re another emotionally unavailable dud” " or "What if it's another night I'll nod and smile pretending I'm NOT bored to tears..."

Nope. This time, you're looking forward to getting to know someone new confident that this could be the start of something amazing.

Cos you got the tools, the know-how, the insiders sass to attract and connect with partners that are on the same page as you. 

Sound like a dream? It’s not. Women (and men) just like you have used this blueprint to shift their patterns and finally create the love they've been craving.

Let's shake-up your dating game and find your life partner (he's not a needle in the haystack).

The Secure Attraction Blueprint is waiting for you!

🛠 Start the 3-Step Secure Attraction Process Now

SAY GOODBYE TO

 
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 … being attracted to that elusive person who is oh-so-perfect but oh-so-unavailable (or too available)
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 … losing interest when someone shows genuine care
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 … chasing the "thrill" of unpredictable relationships
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 … panic & not know what to do when you spot a red-flag 
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 … repeating the same painful attraction patterns 

INSTEAD, YOU'LL

 
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 … attract partners who are emotionally available AND ready for commitment
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 … recognise and cultivate a healthy dating style
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 …experience a love that feels comfortable, easy AND safe
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 … navigate dating with ease, confidence and authenticity
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… excited about the future, building a foundation built for lasting commitment

 

Imagine waking up every day feeling excited about dating free from the anxiety and worry of things not working out?

INTRODUCING

SECURE ATTRACTION

BLUEPRINT

 

The Science-Proven Method To Attract The Right Partner For You That Ticks All The Boxes in 3 EASY STEPS ✅

 
So you can finally stop overthinking every text, or exhausted from travelling three hours just to squeeze in a 30 min coffee date or pushing people away the moment things get real.

 

Start the 3-Step Process Now💫

 

Here's exactly how we'll transform your dating life 👇

STEP 1 

🆘Attraction Decoded: The Simple Truth 

If you keep falling for the wrong people—or can't find the right ones, you know the ones who can’t commit, or too keen, or conveniently “forget” to make real plans—this step is made for you 🎁

✨ Discover why you’re drawn to specific partners who keep you guessing (like that late-night “you up?” text that somehow makes your heart race but leads nowhere).

✨ Decode "The Hook" that keeps you tied to these patterns even when you know better.

✨ Shift your focus to "Attractions of Inspiration"—partners who show up, make you feel chosen, and match your energy for something real.

It’s time to stop chasing breadcrumbs and start attracting the life partner you deserve.(—just like other clients who once believed this wasn’t possible for them have done) .

STEP 2

✊🏼Your Attachment Patterns in Love—And What to Do Instead

If you’ve ever thought, “Am I too needy? Too distant? Why does this keep happening?” this step will help you break the cycle and finally start showing up as the secure, confident version of YOU.

✨ Learn how anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant patterns play out in real life: from texting panic to emotional shut-downs to confusing hot-cold behavior.
✨ Understand the why behind your reactions—and what to do instead to stay grounded, clear, and secure in moments that usually throw you off.
✨ Replace habits like spiraling, overexplaining, or ghosting with secure responses that build connection instead of sabotage it.
✨ Communicate needs, set boundaries, and move toward closeness without abandoning yourself or scaring yourself out of it.

This step gives you the exact shifts that create emotional safety—for you and the person you're dating—so you stop pushing away what you say you want.

This step gives you the exact shifts that create secure attraction—for you and the person you're dating—so you stop pushing away what you say you want.

 

STEP 3

🔒Lock In Your Secure Attraction Skills 

This is where everything comes together—you’ll have the clarity, tools, and confidence to date without the second-guessing.

✨ Create your unique secure dating strategy by blending insights from all attachment styles (no cookie-cutter advice here).

✨ Use clear scripts for awkward moments—like when someone cancels last minute or says, “I’m not ready for something serious,” but still acts possessive.

✨ Unlock the one mindset shift to move your relationship to the next level, so disagreements don’t feel like a sign to exit but an opportunity to grow.

 

Many clients have used these tools to resolve issues that they once thought were relationship-ending—and now call it the moment when their relationship became  "steady and strong."

PLUS BONUS MODULES...

(that are worthy of a course of their own!)
 

Your Love Life Makeover

BONUS 1

Commitment 101: The Basics Made Clear

(valued at $97)

✨ Transition from "just dating" to "all in" commitment without the drama.
✨ Move from casual to committed while staying 100% true to yourself—no losing your independence or bending over backward.

BONUS 2

Commitment Per Attachment Style

(valued at $297)

 

🙋🏼‍♀️ Anxious Attachment
Worried about the uncertainty that comes with early commitment? Learn how to calm the panic, stop overreacting, and embrace the process with ease.

🙋🏽‍♀️ Dismissive Avoidant
Crush those commitment issues and overcome intimacy fears with my 6-step plan to go “all in” without losing your cool. 💃🏽

🙋🏽‍♀️ Fearful Avoidant
Tired of the exhausting push-pull? Learn how to break the cycle, protect your heart, and build a bulletproof sense of safety in just 6 steps.

WOW! 🤗

Get ready for your love life makeover...

You're not just snagging the Secure Attraction Blueprint - you're unlocking the secret attachment code to rock-solid relationships!

 

Let’s Do This 💥

IS THIS YOU?

😖 You’re constantly drawn to partners who seem thrilling at first but always turn out to be emotionally unavailable—or just too much drama.

😖 You feel like you’re riding an emotional rollercoaster during early dating, obsessively checking your phone and analysing every text like it’s a puzzle to solve.

😖 When someone shows too much interest too soon, it feels overwhelming. Instead of leaning in, you’re plotting your escape route.

😖 You lose interest faster than you can finish your coffee date—always finding reasons to end things, especially with someone who seems perfect on paper.

😖 You’re stuck in a loop of whirlwind attractions and short-term flings that never turn into the lasting relationship you want.

😖 You bounce between desperately craving connection and feeling smothered by it—confused, exhausted, and wondering what’s wrong with you.

😖 You protect your independence fiercely, worrying that letting someone in might mean losing you.

😖 You overthink everything: the perfect text, the perfect date, the perfect way to act—leaving you drained and doubting if love is even worth the hassle.

The Secure Attraction Blueprint is the secret shortcut to ditch destructive hot & cold dating cycles for good and help you date in a secure way creating great connections with genuine people you click with - in no time.

THIS IS WHAT'S INCLUDED WHEN YOU GET

Secure Attraction Blueprint

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3 key steps to masters secure attraction skills (valued at $497)

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BONUS #1: Commitment 101: The Basics Made Clear (valued at $97)

→ BONUS #2: Attachment Styles per Commitment (valued at $297)
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BONUS #3: Lifetime access to course materials and future updates (valued at $197)

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BONUS 4 Worksheets, activities, and tools (valued at $197)

   

TOTAL VALUE $1285

REG PRICE $297

*TODAY'S PRICE: ONLY $97

(*or 2 payments of $49)

ALL OF THIS IS WORTH $2,459

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How is this different?

I’m not here to tell you to slap on a dating bio or figure out how to “say the right thing.” You don't need to trick someone to date you. I’m here to help you find the life partner you deserve. I take that seriously. 

Cos dating isnt for the faint hearted. It's for the ones  that still believe in the possibility of love even if their heart's been broken. They just need a little help along the way. 

 

This isn’t fluff. It’s not a pep talk. It’s the actual blueprint for the kind of relationship you’ve been craving. 

14-Day Money-Back Guarantee

I am SO confident that the Secure Attraction Blueprint will transform your dating life. If you're not completely satisfied within the first 14 days, I'll refund your investment, no questions asked.

MEET ME

Hi👋🏽 I'm Shabana!

 

YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.

I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.

My journey with attachment styles began in 2016, but my struggle started much earlier.

I was avoidant for decades, believing marriage wasn't in my cards. It wasn't until my 40s that I finally tied the knot.

The turning point?

Understanding my avoidant attachment style and later discovering my fearful-anxious tendencies. I realised that dating hacks, 300+ dates, and endless swiping weren't the answer. The key was healing my attachment style and learning to date securely.

Since 2019, I've dedicated myself to helping other women do the same through attachment styles and relationship coaching. This one is for my single attachers.

I've distilled my experiences and expertise into a blueprint for secure, knee-weakening love.

Are you ready to get the love you deserve?

Let's go. xx

IMAGINE IF...

😍You simply opened your dating app, swiped with confidence, and started meaningful conversations feeling excited about the possibilities.

🎯You had a secure dating approach peace of mind knowing that you're attracting the right people, and genuine connections could just flow naturally.

💖Fast forward a few weeks later when you're going on dates that feel effortless and authentic, no longer caught in the cycle of chasing unavailable partners or the wrong person. 

🥰 You effortlessly look for genuine connections, filtering out the rest like you do with you with your morning coffee.

🧘You could navigate each stage of dating with ease, free from the rollercoaster of anxious thoughts or avoidant behaviours, truly enjoying the process of getting to know someone.

🌟You found yourself in a budding relationship that feels different from all the rest - balanced, secure, and full of potential for lasting commitment

Time to Begin ⏰

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

HOW MANY AMAZING RELATIONSHIPS HAVE YOU ALREADY BEEN SO CLOSE TO— BUT YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE GOT IN THE WAY?

It’s not about what you’ve missed; it’s about what’s possible.

It's all within reach—and with the right tools & guidance, they can be yours.

Inside the Secure Attraction Blueprint I will show you how to transform your dating life and turn all the "maybes" and "what-ifs" into confident, secure dating connections.

Whether you're anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant, this course will give you the right tools so that it can feel easy and love becomes safe again.

YES—I’M READY TO DATE SECURELY & ATTRACT MY PERSON🔑
Š Coaching with Shabana  2025
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