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If 2025 has left you exhausted from overthinking every mood or always scanning for signs you’re about to be left...pay attention.

❌You don't need more relationship advice.
➡️You need a reset for 2026

A secure attachment reset. 
It penetrates to the roots of your anxious attachment style dissolving the original wounds AND embeds new secure patterns that serve you.

You'll learn how to:
✅Deactivate overthinking mid-spiral
✅Know your Intuition ✅Stop chasing for good
✅Build internal safety 
✅Show up as the calmest, clearest woman in the room

If you're stuck in the chase-spiral- cycle...this is for you...

"I feel normal in my own skin again"

 PRE-SALE: $200OFF. this is your lowest price all year. If you want connection without abandoning yourself… this is the moment to jump in. Releases  Jan 19th full price.
I’M READY TO SAY GOODBYE TO SPIRALLING AT 2AM💫
HERE'S THE THING...

When your attachment is constantly on high alert in relationships, it's never just about boundaries, communication skills, or memorising the "right" things to say.

💡 Those only work when your heal the attachment pattern that’s been running your reactions behind the scenes.


Right now, you can KNOW they love you but still check their ex's Instagram at 2am.

You can UNDERSTAND they need space but your body still goes into full abandonment panic.

You intellectually GET IT but your body doesn't.

💗 It's what makes you trust their "I love you" without needing it repeated ten times
💗 It's what turns rage outbursts because they were 10 minutes lates and didn't call to restful states
💗 It's what makes inter-dependence feel safe, not like abandonment

💗It's what lets you feel jealousy without turning into an interrogation session about every woman they know
💗 And it's what finally lets you stop acting like "secure" and actually FEEL secure from the inside out

This is the power of healing anxious attachment at the root.

❌It isn’t white-knuckling connection. It isn’t intellectual.

💎It is the missing piece that makes everything else: boundaries, communication, connection... actually stick.

 

Your body needs to learn - at the cellular level - that you can hold big emotions without drowning. That you're safe even in discomfort. That you can communicate without breaking down or attacking your partner.

 

When she worked on her avoidant attachment style

"For the first time in over 5 years, I am in a happy, committed relationship and feel more myself than I EVER have"

 
Bridget (Avoidant): The Secure Attacher gave her the tools to heal her avoidant attachment style, open up and create the deep connection she secretly craved. She met an amazing man and just had a beautiful baby boy *update -she's just got married! ❤️
Let's be honest about what you're really experiencing...

Because if we're being truthful, this is probably you:

You're intelligent.
You're self-aware.
You KNOW your patterns.

But you're still out here...treating every wobble likes its nuclear disaster (no shame!)

You keep trying to “stay calm,” “think rationally,” “not take things personally  but...

👉 Your body is hijacking you the moment something feels off
👉 Your mind knows they care, but your attachment system screams "they don't care! I've had enough"
👉 You're tired of needing constant reassurance just to function
👉 You've read every attachment book but nothing actually changes the mid-panic spiral
👉 You keep thinking "I wish I could be normal about this?"

And right now, you might be feeling:

😔 Behind (like everyone else learned how to do relationships except you)
😔 Broken (because you can't stop the spirals even though you see them coming)
😔 Ashamed (that you need so much when you're supposed to be independent)
😔 Hopeless (because therapy helped but didn't fix the core panic)
😔 Exhausted (from managing your attachment system AND the relationship)

The worst part?

❌It's not that you don't understand secure attachment.
➡️It's that your anxious attachment system won't let you ACCESS it.

💡You don't have an awareness problem (you're likely too self-aware!)
💡You don't have a self-worth problem.
💡You don't even have a relationship problem.

You have a anxious attachment system that's stuck in survival mode – and it's not your fault.

No one ever taught you how to actually rewire it its source.

But that's about to change.

We're healing what’s driving the reaction in the first place.

🎯The place where your attachment system still fires before you can think...

 
What if you could feel secure... even when they pull back, you're all alone or you feel a tad unlovable?

I’m Shabana, and trust me, I know exactly what it feels like to live like you’re being abandoned every twelve minutes… even when nothing is happening.

I spent years trying to “think positive,” “stay calm,” and “not take things personally,” while my attachment system was backstage pulling levers like “release the childhood trauma sirens.”

I thought anxious attachment was:
❌ A character flaw
❌ Being "too needy"
❌ Something to hide
❌ Proof I was broken
❌ Why I'd never have healthy love

But deep down I knew:

Anxious attachment wasn't my enemy - it was my superpower waiting to be unleashed.

Annnnd...

If I want real love... real, sustainable relationships...I needed to heal this at the root, not just manage the symptoms.

So I started getting nitty gritty with my attachment system...the one thing I'd been avoiding whilst desperately trying to fix every relationship.

💡I mapped every trigger.
💡Tracked every spiral pattern.
💡Studied trauma-informed somatic healing (even though I'm not a therapist)
💡Learned how attachment actually lives in the body.
💡Discovered why talk therapy wasn't enough.

I went straight into the imprint underneath: the rejection sensitivity, the abandonment alarms, and the “I can’t handle this” sensations were actually coming from.

And since healing and re-conditioning this?

✔️I stopped overreacting (~truly and so proud of this!)
✔️My emotional capacity expanded hugely  
✔️All of my relationships have improved as I wasn’t being dragged through life by relentless reactions I didn’t choose or want

And the best part?

This wasn’t magic
It wasn’t a phase.
It wasn’t just “doing the work.”

It was a structured, repeatable nervous-system level reset.

I have created a process that can be  used by ANY anxiously attached woman to find real, embodied security.

So I refined it.
Ran women and men through it again and again…
and watched their attachment transform exactly like mine.

And now?

I’m finally packing the whole thing up. 

Turning it into a complete, step-by-step journey.
 

And...

Releasing it this January 2026 for the first time ever.
You’re getting founder access to the entire course at the presale price of $197.
It will open at $397 when it officially launches. 

Testimonial from 1-1 clients who have tested this framework👇🏼

 
STEP INSIDE THE WORLD OF...

BECOMING SECURE IN 180 DAYS 

For Women Ready to Heal the Root of Anxious Attachment To Make Boundaries, Communication and Safe Connection STICK-In 2026.

 

...The deep nervous system reprogramming intensive to heal the subconscious drivers behind your anxious activation so you can finally stop being hijacked by panic, hypervigilance, and abandonment wounds without having to keep white-knuckling your way through triggers or performing security you don't actually feel.

 

Which anxiously attached person are you?

1️⃣ The Panic Analyser

You dissect every interaction looking for signs they're pulling away.

Your daily reality:

  • Reading their texts 20+ times searching for hidden meanings
  • Convinced that delayed response = they hate you now
  • Creating entire breakup scenarios from one weird look
  • Can't focus on ANYTHING when relationship feels uncertain

👉 For you, healing isn't about "confidence" - it's about internal system safety.

 

2️⃣ The Relationship Shapeshifter

You completely lose yourself trying to be whoever they need.

Your exhausting pattern:

  • Abandoning all your needs to keep them happy
  • Saying yes when you mean no (terrified of their disappointment)
  • Constantly scanning: "What mood are they in? What do they need?"
  • Shrinking yourself smaller and smaller until you disappear

👉 You don't need more self-love mantras. You need body-based boundaries.

 

3️⃣ The "I'll Be Single Forever" Spiral Queen

You're exhausting yourself in imaginary relationships while staying "chill" about being single.

Your overwhelming reality:

  • Creating entire futures with people you've had two dates with
  • Obsessing over every interaction like it's your last chance
  • Reading rejection into every text from someone you barely know
  • Feeling behind because everyone else seems to find love so easily
  • Alternating between "I'm going to die alone" and "I don't need anyone"

👉 You don't have a dating problem. You need an  attachment system that paces love

 

4️⃣The Connection Chaser

You've built something beautiful... but you keep sabotaging it with your need for constant closeness.

Your patterns look like:
• Moving too fast emotionally
• Needing to know "where this is going" immediately
• Feeling abandoned when they need space
• Interpreting independence as rejection

👉 You don't have an intimacy problem. You need a system that stop treating distance as danger.

 

If any of these sounds like you, hit the join now button 👇🏽, because you’re EXACTLY where you need to be.

 
Anxious Attacher Intensive will help you to go...
FROM THIS 🤯
TO THIS🤗
Your body flooding with panic the second someone seems quieter than usual at dinner, your stomach twisting into knots, red hot, reading their silence as "they're pulling away, they're annoyed, do something now!
You're loose and carefree chatting away about the latest TikTok drama, fully invested in who said what, laughing so hard your stomach hurts and you might have actually peed a little 🙈
Saying "I'm sorry" your stomach instantly knotting as you run through everything you said today looking for what you did wrong, while that voice from childhood whispers "if you were just better, they wouldn't be angry.
Your humming with this quiet, unshakeable knowing: you're good, you're safe, you're allowed to exist if things feel tense, or when someone's having a moment, even when the room gets heavy.🙃
Walking into a room and immediately scanning to see if they smiled at you the same way they smiled yesterday, replaying the goodbye hug to see if it felt shorter, and now you're spiralling about what shifted
Noticing their smile and just enjoying, hugs feel like hugs, not data to analyse. Conversations flow naturally with your system calm and relaxed. You're just...easy. Light. Free.🥳
Say goodbye to the intense emotions that hijack you before you’ve even blinked, firing your fight-or-flight from one tiny shift in someone's tone, and say hello to staying steady and genuinely unbothered by the things that used to flip your world upside down🙃 🌍
 
See what $2K private clients who tested this framework privately say. *January 26th, you get the same transformation for 1/10 what they paid.
 
Dive deep into what awaits you starting January 2026
STEP ONE

THE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT SYSTEM

Understanding Your Body's Survival Code 

This module explains what’s actually happening inside you when someone you care about pull away, doesn't call, or get's mad with you.

You'll discover:

  • Why your body treats distance like physical danger.
  • The childhood moments that taught your nervous system what connection feels like & why this matters
  • The exact moment you start "chasing" and what to do instead. Recognising this turns spirals into choices.
  • Why calming down has never worked through willpower (and what does instead)

You're Getting:

  • 4 in-depth video trainings breaking down the science of anxious attachment in language that actually makes sense & penetrates.
  • Body cues that bring you back into safety in real-time
  • A simple map showing your nervous system’s activation signals and tools to respond
 Value: $497
STEP TWO

HEALING THE "HE'LL LEAVE ME" BELIEF

Dismantling the "It's My Fault" & "Don't Leave Me" Reflex  Value: $497

This deep shame-release module dismantles the automatic shame response and it's affect on other emotions such as jealousy, and rage

You'll learn:

  • The root of shame "I'm not enough" belief and how it leads to angry emotional outbursts
  • Discover the secret heart of the abandonment wound and it's role with jealousy: jealousy of them getting attention or making them jealous on purpose to get them to chase
  • Breaking up impulsively then regretting it & creating ultimatums to get attention.

You're Getting:

  • 5 video trainings releasing shame, jealousy and anger at their root to allow relationship to unfold naturally
  • Body-based shame dissolving practices to metabolise shame at a body level to create internal stability rather than chaos
  • Real-time reflex tools to catch and rewire the "he's leaving" response & addressing issues directly when they arise
  • Scripts for getting through to your partner with positive attention 

Value: $497

 
STEP THREE

SECURE EMOTIONAL REGULATION TOOLKIT

 

Creating internal stability for your nervous system your overwhelmed, when partner needs space or has other priorities

You'll release:

  • Emotional flooding that turns into 3-hour crying sessions begging them to stay and needing another "we need to talk" conversation
  • Rage explosions over small things followed by panic apologies
  • Going from "I hate you" to "please don't leave" in the same conversation
  • The emotional dysregulation that makes you scream, then beg, then shut down completely

You're Getting:

  • 6 video trainings showing how to responding proportionally to situations
  • Practices to stay centered between contact so maintain independence
  • Integration exercises to self-sooth when upset

(value $997)

 
STEP FOUR

SECURE COMMUNICATION, NEEDS & BOUNDARIES

Discover How To Express Yourself  Without That Knot In Your Throat

This module teaches you how to express your needs in a way that lands, & hold your boundaries without pushing people away.

Inside: 

  • Recognise your real needs (not the panic-driven ones) so you express hurts and can discuss concerns calmly 

  • Stick to your grounds when asking for what matters, without fearing that needs will “push someone away.”

  • Set body-based boundaries that create safety in your relationships and increase your self-respect

  • Uncover the difference between a genuine need and an anxiety spike, so you don’t confuse the two.

  • Hold your centre when someone else reacts, instead of collapsing into guilt or overcompensation.

You're Getting

  • 6 guided somatic practices to support your body before, during, and after expressing a need

  • Instant grounding tools for moments you fear you’ve “asked for too much”

  • Capacity-building exercises that make boundaries feel natural and conflict navigation practices for things get intense

  • A personal needs-map so you can communicate what you want without overexplaining, apologising, or shrinking.

 VALUE $697
STEP FIVE

RECLAIMING YOUR SECURE IDENTITY FOR 2026

Knows their worth isn't dependent on anything🤗

This integration module so you stay strong and stable even when things get hard.

You'll embody:

  • Discovering who you truly are underneath those layers
  • The five key ways to celebrate yourself without diminishing your  light
  • Letting go of the exhausting performance of being "perfect" to be loved
  • Holding boundaries, self-worth, nervous system regulation to a high standard

You're Getting:

  • 5 video trainings on staying true to yourself and building healthy inter-dependence
  • An interests/values/goals tracker system 
  • Value-setting work to stay anchored within your own self.

Value: $697

 

 
STEP SIX

BOUNDARIES AS A BRIDGE

Set limits without spiralling into guilt or pushing your partner away! 

  • Set boundaries as an anxious attacher so skillfully your partner thanks you for it!
  • Learn the exact words to use when you need space, so your anxious partner feels reassured instead of rejected
  • Relish the peace as a fearful avoidant, confident your boundary-setting skills create both safety AND deep connection! 

(value $297)

STEP SEVEN

GET YOUR NEEDS MET

..WITHOUT OVER-GIVING  

  • Learn the real art of expressing needs as an anxious/fearful attacher so your avoidant partner truly hears them.
  • Overcome the paralysing fear of asking for what you want clearly as a fearful or avoidant attacher 
  • Feel deep fulfilment and closeness as you experience the power of both partners' needs being understood and met   

(value $199)

TOTAL VALUE $1785

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  • 7-Step Secure Way Method (Value $1785)
  • BONUS 1:  Worthy of Love  (Value $397)
  • BONUS 2: Feminine & Masculine Energy (Value $297)
  • BONUS 3: Q&A with Shabana (Value $297)
  • Expert Guidance: 5 years of experience coaching attachment styles (Value $297)
  • Tools, insights, exercises, meditations, subconscious work and more.. (value $397) 

 

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What graduates of The Secure Attacher said...

 

Imagine how it would feel to have pure self-trust.
Picture yourself:

✨ Receiving a delayed text and calmly thinking "they're busy" instead of "they're unbothered" "They're leaving"

✨ Enjoying space in relationships without it meaning rejection

✨ Communicating needs without apologising or over-explaining

✨ Staying calm when they're upset or taking space without making it your emergency

✨ Trusting that love can be steady, consistent and stable without constant proof

✨ Actually ENJOYING the relationship instead of managing your anxiety about it

What would change for you?

🤔How different would your relationships feel?
🤔Your daily peace?
🤔Your entire life?

If you could:

✨ Self-regulate without needing them to fix it
✨ Trust without constant reassurance
✨ Stay calm even -and especially- during conflict
✨ Feel chosen without chasing
✨ Build secure love from a secure attachment system

You'd stop feeling broken.
You'd stop apologising for your needs.
You'd stop living in "what if they leave" energy.

Because that's what a secure attachment system regulation gives you:
📈Inner Safety 📈Stability. 📈Resilience 📈Self-Trust 📈 Relationships
 
LET’S REWIRE MY ATTACHMENT STYLE🙌🏾
TAKE YOUR RE-CONDITIONING EVEN FURTHER WITH THESE EXTRAS 🤫
BONUS 1

The Regulation Toolkit Audio Library

All the practices in audio format so you can use them on a school run, a walk, a lunch break, or the moment something hits. Secret link to Spotify & Apple.

($297 value)

 
BONUS 2

THE 3 MINUTE SELF-TRUST MORNING RITUALS

 

A 7-day ritual sequence that cements your new baseline 

Includes breath anchors, emotional priming practices and confidence activators. Think of it as nervous system insurance.

($197 value)
 
BONUS 3

THE 6 WEEK SOS TRACKER

A guided system that walks you through the exact patterns you’re healing so you actually see progress.

Including daily prompts for emotional tracking, trigger maps that show your progress and weekly review questions to spot the shifts.

This gives you the “tangible proof” that you are seeing improvement and holding yourself accountable.

($147value)
 
BONUS 4

Lifetime Access

You’ll get full, lifetime access to every module, training, audio, and update, so you can come back to this work any time your anxious attachment system needs a reset or a refresher. Whether it’s six months from now or six years from now, you can revisit the lessons, rewatch the trainings, and re-regulate at your own pace whenever life, love, or your attachment system gets loud again.

($197 value)
 
"I feel like my relationship with my boyfriend now is a more mature version of it. This feels much more real and meaningful and like we’re actually getting somewhere in a relationship versus just talking, guessing and mind-reading"
**RECAP - YOU GET ALL THIS **

YOUR INVESTMENT IN FINALLY BECOMING SECURE..


✨ MODULE 1: The Anxious Attachment Hidden System:  Understanding Your Body's Survival Code ($497 value)

✨ MODULE 2: The Shame + Self-Blame Complex -Dismantling the "It's My Fault" Reflex ($497 value)

✨ MODULE 3 & 4: Healing The Two Core Abandonment Wounds: Create More Stable Relationships  ($997 value)

✨ MODULE 5: Neutralising the Threat-Detection System- Long Term Regulation Practices for Anxious Attachment Systems ($697 value)

✨ MODULE 6: Reclaiming Who You Are In Connection: Becoming the Woman Who Stays Steady ($697 value)

🎁 BONUS #1: The Regulation Toolkit Audio Library ($297 value)

🎁 BONUS #2: The Self-Trust Integration Workbook ($197 value)

🎁 BONUS #3: The 6 Week Trigger SOS Guide ($147 value)

🎁 BONUS #4: Lifetime Access-Revisit Anytime ($197 value)

 

ALL OF THIS FOR $3470

ONLY $997 $555 (or start $199 today)

✓ Complete 6-step rewiring system
✓ 30+ nervous system recalibration practices
✓ Lifetime access to everything
✓ Start regulating your system 2026

Total Value: $4,223
 

Regular Investment: $397

PRE-SELL PRICE 

🖤  ONLY $197 [SAVE200]

*Releases 19th January 2026

 

 

Love Notes...

When they became a Secure Attacher, their nervous system AND love life transformed...

The Secure Promise
100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

And in case you were worried - joining is risk-free! You're protected by a 7-day "Attachment Knows Best Guarantee"

If you're hesitant because you've tried everything: therapy, books, other courses, I want to ensure you can confidently step into Anxious Attachment  Intensive without a worry.

Why? Because I trust the process more than your nervous system trusts silence.

You have 7 full days to dive into the modules, experience the somatic practices, and feel the shift in your body, and if the work doesn't land, if it's not clicking for any reason, just email me and you'll get every penny back.

No interrogation. No guilt trips. No "but did you really try?" Just a refund.

There's absolutely nothing to lose. The only risk? Staying exactly where you are.

 
So, What is The Secure Attacher Anyways?

 

The Secure Attacher is my proven 7-Step Secure Way Method that teaches you how to HEAL your attachment style & BREAK-UP with the anxious-avoidant dance for good.

It gives you my 7-Step Method to create a relationship securely that you longer need to sacrifice your needs or lose your independence.

Seriously, I don't want to gate-keep this anymore because everyone deserves a healthy and happy relationship. 

By the end of the course, you’ll…

  • You'll gain CLEAR & PRACTICAL insights to heal your attachment style and show up in a secure way.

  • You'll discover EXACTLY what is keeping you in the anxious-avoidant dance which is keeping love at bay AND how to fix it

  • You''ll master strategies to create secure love effortlessly and with way more integrity. 

    ALL this and so MUCH MORE..

No more doing it alone.

No more overthinking. No more second-guessing.

 

I WANT THE 7-STEP METHOD!

"The Mindset Resets of the Secure Attacher are worth their weight in GOLD"

Rob- Avoidant Attacher who did the work and now is dating The Secure Way.

...WHAT ELSE MAKES THIS COURSE UNIQUE?
1. NOT A COOKIE-CUTTER STYLE

Simple and clear steps to help you feel more secure in your relationship without digging up old hurts, repeating affirmations. & endless inner child work  This course gives you tools to for changed thinking and behaviour so that you being true to who you are all AND have a secure relationship- with a one-size-doesn't-fit-all approach

2. HUMAN CONVERSATION

If you're looking for yet another course about how to have the perfect conversation starters or canned statements, this isn’t for you. I show you how to communicate with your partner that brings out your personality, not dial it down so that you can have colour, connection and energy.

ATTACHMENT STYLES

Every module. Yes. Every Module has a specific focus on each of the attachment styles: anxious, avoidant and fearful You’ll never again be left wondering if your partner is truly avoidant or fearful or just not that into you. You get eyeballs into your partner's mind so you'll know EXACTLY what they're thinking and feeling.

A NEW APPROACH

If you're willing to actively unlearn what you have been told to do in relationships and apply new skills, you'll see your relationship transform. It will require way LESS effort, way less stress, and you will gain way MORE intimacy (and now just in your intimate relationship). 

She had been on-off relationships for 10 years: 

"This is the first time in over a DECADE that I’m in a REAL relationship, and thanks to this program it is BY FAR the most stable relationship I’ve been in"

Hiwa-Fearful Avoidant -She worked on her Fearful avoidant attachment style where she had been pushing partner's away whenever they got close. Now in stable & secure relationship!
HAVE WE MET?

Hi, I'm Shabana.

YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.

I'm Shabana, I work with women who’ve done all the work… yet still get hijacked by their attachment system. (You are SO close.)

I’ve spent years studying attachment theory, but more importantly, I’ve lived every bit of it.

I know what it’s like to have your body treat every tiny shift like an emergency.

When I first started my own journey, I kept falling off the wagon and I blamed myself. I thought I was the problem.

Until I realised the truth:
❌It wasn’t a lack of skills.
✅It was the roots of anxious attachment.
💡The deeper wiring. The patterns sitting in my body that no amount of mindset or communication hacks could override.

Once I dissolved those patterns at a deeper level, that’s when everything finally clicked.

Not everyone needs this layer, but some of us do.

And that’s exactly why I created Anxious Attachment Alchemy.

Because I saw women try to think their way out of a body-level problem like I did and blame themselves.”
 

But it was courses teaching relational skills while completely ignoring the imprint underneath.

Here’s what I know:
You need both.

This work rewires the survival strategies. It goes to the root so the behaviour change actually sticks.

I’d be honoured to guide you through this process as I know this work changes everything.

And I can’t wait to see what shifts for you.

Shabana xx

 

 Get your Secure Attacher Roadmap now and CREATE the path to a healthy relationship every single day with ease and confidence 

YES-I'M READY TO FEEL SAFE IN LOVE-INSIDE OUT 🎯
RECAP - YOU GET ALL OF THIS _______,

LETS BRING IT TOGETHER!


✨ MODULE 1: The Anxious Nervous System:  Understanding Your Body's Survival Code ($497 value)

✨ MODULE 2: The Shame + Self-Blame Complex — Dismantling the "It's My Fault" Reflex ($497 value)

✨ MODULE 3 & 4: The Two Core Wounds — Healing the Mother Wound & Father Wound ($997 value)

✨ MODULE 5: Rewiring the Threat-Detection System — Regulation Practices for Anxious Nervous Systems ($697 value)

✨ MODULE 6: Reclaiming Your Relational Identity — Becoming the Woman Who Stays Steady ($697 value)

🎁 BONUS #1: The Regulation Toolkit Audio Library ($297 value)

🎁 BONUS #2: The Self-Trust Integration Workbook ($197 value)

🎁 BONUS #3: The 6 Week Trigger SOS Guide ($147 value)

🎁 BONUS #4: Lifetime Access-Revisit Anytime ($197 value)

 

ALL OF THIS FOR $3470

ONLY $997 $555 (or start $199 today)


 

Total Value: $4,223
 

Your Investment $397

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"I LOVE the Secure Attacher course!

It taught me EVERYTHING about attachment styles, not just the one I was struggling with, which I really appreciate because it helped me better understand those around me!

Now, I can confidently say I feel SECURE within."

Jalila- Anxious Attacher- Secure 

IF YOU'RE STILL READING...
You may be asking yourself...

But wait, 'won't this bring up a lot of hard emotions I'm not ready to deal with?' and I've already done so much work

It’s a fair question. And yes, this work goes deep. But it’s done in a way that’s paced, compassionate, and designed to expand your capacity slowly, not drown you in emotion..

You're not being thrown into the deep end. This isn’t about ripping open old wounds. You're being guided through practices that help you metabolise what comes up without being overwhelmed by it.

And this is the part most courses skip.
☑️Maybe you’ve tried the communication hacks.
☑️ You've read about attachment theory

☑️Maybe you’ve done one of my courses?

All of those help. They really do.
And with this inner, somatic layer, the shifts start to hold.

 

And here's what I need you to know:

Your anxious attachment isn't a character flaw or even your true personality.

It's a layer of your nervous system's brilliant attempt to protect you based on outdated information.


This is the repair work that makes helps you let go of those survival patterns everything else finally stick.

 Ready?

Let's start. 

Shabana XoXo

 

 
I’m Ready to Start Feeling Secure💖

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