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BUNDLE 1
*BEST SELLER*
Intimacy & Connection Mastery SAVE 30%
TOTAL VALUE $3278
WAS $198 NOW $138.60
WHAT YOU'LL GET:
Effortless Intimacy Formula + Self-Assurance Accelerator & The Availability Radar + 270 Secure Women Communication Scripts
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
Get your avoidant partner to lean in, stay close and become more available...effortlessly
Inside you get 4 Steps:
💡 Step 1: End the Pull-Away Cycle for Good: He starts to stay present, checks in, and actually leans into the connection. [Value $197]
💫Step 2: He Becomes More Consistent: He starts showing up the same way every day instead of swinging between effort and disappearance. Things feel steady for the first time in a long time. [Value $197]
🗣️Step 3: : He Starts to Open Up & Becomes More Available: He lets becomes genuinely more available without you prompting or dragging feelings out of him. The relationship now has the kind of emotional safety that you've been craving. [Value $197]
🎯 Step 4: Become His Priority With Him Chasing: He reaches out first, he plans more, and he leads because being close to you actually feels good. The relationship feels lighter, warmer, and way more playful. [Value $297]
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR
Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, that create chaos in your relationship.
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method to truly relax in your love life with simple steps [Value $179]
✨End the hidden power dynamic between you and your avoidant partner and start showing up as yourself. [Value $229]
🎯 Swap the four reassurance-seeking habits with that create closeness. These four micro-shifts help you stay steady even if your partner disappears or distances [Value $229]
🥬Take control of your validation-seeking before they take over by running them through my LEAF method first [Value $179]
😍Discover the playful way to seek reassurance that inspires love and connection [Value $229]
THE AVAILABLITY RADAR👀
Take back control of your love life & decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so there's no more confusion.
Inside you get
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles : Clear breakdowns of six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the subtle behaviours most women overlook… and finally understand if he’s truly avoidant or simply overwhelmed and stressed.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion.. [Value $99]
PLUSSSS BONUSES:
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 — The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
📕BONUS #4 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #5 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
👖BONUS #6 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #7 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $3278
NORMALLY $198 NOW $138.60
SAVE 30%
VIEW INTIMACY FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW SELF_ASSURANCE FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW AVAILABLITY RADAR FULL COURSE DEETS
BUNDLE 2
Singletons: Attraction to Commitment Bundle SAVE 30%
TOTAL VALUE : $3885
WAS $231 NOW $161.70
WHAT YOU'LL GET:
Secure Attraction Skills & The Availability Radar
The Attraction to Commitment Bundle contains 3 courses into one system for choosing, attracting, and keeping the right partner. You’ll stop falling for mixed-signal men, stop spiralling over texting gaps, and know who’s truly available. You'll learn how to date with clarity, emotional stability, and self-assurance so real connection becomes the rule, not the exception.
SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT
The attachment-style method to attract your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull
Step 1: Attraction Decoded Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People Get the breakdown of why unreliable, mixed-signal partners feel familiar and magnetic that have kept you stuck for so long whether its your first rodeo or thrice divorced [Value $299]
✔️ Step 2: Your Attachment Patterns in Love And What To Do Instead: Discover the exact anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant reactions that influence your dating life and what secure responses look like [Value $247]
✔️ Step 3: Secure Attraction Skills: Date the secure way to attract available partners who align with your values, desires and milestones. Know what to look for, know what a healthy pace is, and your real dealbreakers [Value $299]
✔️ Step 4: Secure Commitment Skills: Unlock anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant commitment styles and the exact steps to move them to secure. You wont chase or run from commitment again [Value $299]
THE AVAILABLITY RADAR👀
Take back control of your love life & decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so you know exactly who you're dating
Inside you get
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles :Clear breakdowns of six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the subtle behaviours most women overlook… and finally understand if he’s truly avoidant or simply overwhelmed and stressed to help you decide if you'd like to continue to date him.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion. [Value $99]
PLUSSSS BONUSES:
💍Bonus #1 Commitment 101 — The Basics Made Clear One simple checklist that takes 2 minutes to scan before moving from “dating” to “we’re actually doing this [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #2: A short grounding routine (under 3 minutes) to stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #3: A 6-step path you can skim in under 5 minutes to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
👖BONUS #4 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #5 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Their Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $2247
NORMALLY $134 NOW $93.80 SAVE 30%
This is why Angel went from "My relationships have never progressed past the 4 month mark" to meeting her fellow yogi, falling in love and getting hitched within 6 months.
VIEW COURSE DEETS/SECURE ATTRACTION
VIEW SELF_ASSURANCE FULL COURSE DEETS
VIEW COURSE DEETS/AVAILABLE RADAR
NEW ARRIVAL
Healing Anxious Attachment Intensive PRE-SALE
TOTAL VALUE : $4323
OFFICIAL $397 PRESALE $277.90
NEW: Anxious Attachment Intensive
Heal Your Anxious Attachment & Rewire Your Subconscious Programming At The Root **PRE-SALE *** AVAILABLE IN MID JANUARY
Get first dibs to the exciting NEWEST addition of the Secure Attachment Series. Its to rewire your anxious attachment at the body level so you stop being hijacked by panic, overthinking, shame, and emotional whiplash… and start living from a calm, steady and secure, baseline that feels like exhaling for the first time in years.
If every tiny shift still feels like danger, this is where that finally ends.
WHAT YOU’LL EXPERIENCE
This isn’t “think positive,” “communicate better,” or “just regulate.”
This is deep deep nourishing repair.
The kind that dissolves the ORIGINAL wiring so your behaviour, communication, and feminine energy stick naturally instead of through force.
WHY THIS WORKS
Because were managing the symptoms anymore. It heals the imprint underneath them. You’re rewiring the subconscious coding that creates it.
What You’ll Get:
🌶MODULE 1: The Anxious Nervous System: Understanding Your Body’s Survival Code Value $497]
🛠MODULE 2: The Shame + Self-Blame Complex Dismantling the “It’s My Fault” Reflex That Keeps You Going In Circles [Value $497]
😻MODULE 3 & 4: The Two Core Wounds Healing the Two Core Wounds That Heal ALL Your Adults Relationships [Value $997]
MODULE 5: Rewiring the Threat-Detection System: Positive Regulation Practices for Anxious Nervous Systems To Rewire to Secure[Value $697]
MODULE 6: Reclaiming Who You Are in Connection: Becoming the One Who Now Helps Others Stay Steady [Value $697]
PLUSSSS BONUSES INCLUDED:
🧘🏼Regulation Toolkit Audio Library
Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown.
Designed specifically for anxious nervous systems so you can regulate on the go instead of drowning in spirals. [Value $297]
🌄The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals
A 7-day morning ritual sequence that rewires your baseline for the day before your brain even wakes up enough to self-sabotage. Breath anchors, emotional priming, and confidence activators that strengthen your inner stability. [Value $297]
🆘The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker
A guided system that maps your patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress instead of hoping for it. Track your emotional shifts, triggers, and wins so the work becomes tangible and self-reinforcing. [Value $147]
🦺Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates [Value $197]
📈 AND so much more...
TOTAL VALUE $4323
OFFICIAL $397 PRE-SALE $279.90 SAVE 30%
VIEW FULL COURSE DEETS/HEALING ANXIOUS_ATTACHMENT-INTENSIVE
MINI-BUNDLE 3
MIX & MATCH
*Complete Your Secure Love Kit* 25% OFF
Don't want the whole bundle and just want one course?
Or want to round up the bundle & missing a piece? Add individual courses to round out your journey(or snag just what you need to get started!) ⬇️
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
WAS $47 NOW $35.25 SAVE 25%
Get your avoidant partner to lean in, stay close and become more available...effortlessly
Inside you get 4 Steps:
💡 Step 1: End the Pull-Away Cycle for Good: He starts to stay present & leans into the connection. [Value $197]
💫Step 2: He Becomes More Consistent: He starts showing up the same way every day instead of swinging between effort and disappearance. [Value $197]
🗣️Step 3: : He Starts to Open Up & Becomes More Available: He becomes genuinely more open and available without you dragging feelings out of him. [Value $197]
🎯 Step 4: Become His Priority With Him Chasing: He reaches out first, he plans more, and he leads because being close to you actually feels good.[Value $297]
BONUSES
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast & Increase His Commitment [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA]
WAS $97 NOW $72.75 SAVE 25%
Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, that create chaos in your dating life
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method to truly relax in your love life with simple steps [Value $179]
✨End the hidden power dynamic between you and your dates and start showing up as yourself. [Value $229]
🎯 Swap the four reflexes for four that create stability. These four micro-behaviour shifts change the entire texture of your dating life and your sense of self. [Value $229]
🥬Take control of your feelings and anxious thoughts by running them through my LEAF method first [Value $179]
😍Seek reassurance the right way that inspires love, reassurance and commitment [Value $229]
BONUSES
📕BONUS #1 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #2 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR]
WAS $37 NOW $27.75 SAVE 25%
Take back control of your love life & decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so there's no more confusion about his availability.
Inside you get:
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles :Clear breakdowns of six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the subtle behaviours most women overlook… and finally understand if he’s truly avoidant or simply overwhelmed and stressed.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion. [Value $99]
BONUSES
👖BONUS #1 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #2 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB]
WAS $97 NOW $72.75 SAVE 25%
The attachment-style method to attract your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull.
Inside you get:
1️⃣Attraction Decoded Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People [Value $299]
2️⃣Your Attachment Patterns in Love And What To Do Instead: Anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant reactions that influence your dating life [Value $247]
3️⃣ Secure Attraction Skills: Date the secure way & attract available partners who align with your values.[Value $299]
4️⃣ Secure Commitment Skills: Unlock anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant commitment styles & move them to secure [Value $299]
BONUSES
💍Bonus #1 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #2: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #3: 3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
🏃🏼♂️➡️BONUS #4: 90 second ritual when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. (perfect for FA)[Value $199]
BUNDLE 4
$THE BEST VALUE$
The Ultimate Secure Bundle: Get every bundle, and rewrite your love story for 2025 & step into the most secure, self-assured & confident version of you.
Total Value: $9539
Normally $695 SALE $438.75 SAVE 35%
Ready to step into stable, consistent, secure love? This ultimate bundle gives you EVERYTHING you need to end the anxious-avoidance dance, heal attachment wounds, AND attract the love you deserve.
This is the most comprehensive collection of tools, strategies, and guidance I’ve ever offered - packed all under one bundle with exclusive, juicy, eye candy for your heart and brain bonuses.
WHAT YOU'LL GET
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA Get your avoidant partner to lean in, stay close and become oh-so available...effortlessly [Value $1331]
THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR] Decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so you know exactly who you're dating or in a relationship. Goodbye confusion, hello clarity. [Value $508]
SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB] The proven attachment-style method to attract your life-partner without chasing, avoiding or the FA push & pull drama [value $1938
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA] Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, and create peace not chaos in your love life [Value $1439]
*NEW HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT INTENSIVE Heal Your Anxious Attachment & Rewire Your Subconscious Programming At The Root **PRE-SALE *** AVAILABLE IN MID JANUARY* GET FIRST DIBS [Value $4323]
AND HUUUGE BONUSES...
💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 — The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
📕BONUS #4 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼♀️BONUS #5 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
👖BONUS #6 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #7 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
💍Bonus #8 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #9: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #10: 3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
🏃🏼♂️➡️BONUS #11: 90 second ritual when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. (perfect for FA)[Value $199]
🧘🏼BONUS #12 Regulation Toolkit Audio Library Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown [Value $297]
🌄BONUS #13 The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals A 7-day morning ritual sequence that rewires your baseline for the day before your brain even wakes up enough to self-sabotage [Value $297]
🆘BONUS #14 The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker A tracker that maps your patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress instead of hoping for it. [Value $147]
🦺BONUS #15 Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates [Value $497]
📈 AND so much more...
Total Value: $9539
Normally $695 SALE $438.75 SAVE 35%
Hi, I'm Shabana.
YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.
I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.
I've been navigating the complex world of attachment styles since 2016 and today I've helped 500+women transform their relationships and find secure love.
But it wasn't always like that:
I was avoidant into my 40s and then flipped to anxious-fearful in my marriage. We were stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap for 3 loooong years, walking on eggshells, and pushing down our needs (or demanding them so hard) we could barely breathe.
If I didn't have the tools, I'd be divorced 3 times already (true story).
Now, I can't wait to share my 7-Step Secure Way Method, powerful intimacy skills, and proven relationship insights and tools with you.
So that you get the love you deserve: the secure and safe love that makes you weak in the knees.
You ready?
Let's go. xx
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