Ready to re-wire your attachment so deeply that the next time fear flares up, you don’t collapse, chase, or lose yourself…you actually feel grounded?
Don’t miss this. The Anxious Attachment Alchemy Pre-Sale ends on 1s December, 2025
Deep Repair Immersion into the Hidden Architecture of Anxious Attachment Where your patterns finally make sense and you and your body finally feels calmer.
This is the work that reshapes how your system responds long before a spiral even begins.
In fact, healing the subconscious imprints that created your rejection sensitivity and abandonment alarm system is the answer to full-body repair.
This work reaches the layer where your body first learned to brace, shrink, overreact, disappear, or shut down.
Nothing changes more deeply than repairing the original blueprint your nervous system has been running for decades.
And if that wasn’t reason enough to pay attention…
● Your body stops reacting like rejection is happening even when nothing is wrong, so you no longer feel that instant jolt in your chest, stomach drop, or heat rushing through your skin over the smallest cues.
● Your emotional capacity expands, giving you room to feel intensity without spiralling, panicking, shutting down, or abandoning yourself the moment it feels “too much.”
● Your perception becomes clear instead of fear-filtered, which means you stop assuming you’re being dismissed, forgotten, or replaced every time something shifts inside or around you.
● Your sense of self holds together instead of cracking under the fear of being left, so you don’t collapse, lose your shape, or detach from your body when old abandonment echoes get triggered.
● And ultimately, the parts of your system that were trained to expect rejection or separation stop running your life, leaving you with a mind & body that no longer mistakes discomfort for danger, silence for abandonment, or slowness for being unchosen.
When she worked on her avoidant attachment style
...and someone forgot to pick you up from school.
You keep trying to “stay calm,” “think rationally,” “not take things personally”…and your body’s like: erm no.
Threat detected.
Sound the alarms.
Everyone panic.
You’re likely struggling with that split-second jolt, the stomach-drop, the heat in your chest, the racing thoughts, the “oh god what’s happening” spiral…
all over something as innocent as a last minute cancellation, a shift in tone, or a vibe you you've 'caught'
You might be facing the emotional equivalent of being slapped by invisible weather: too hot, too cold, too much, too sudden, and none of it actually matches what’s happening externally.
And you’re probably wanting to feel like a functioning adult inside your own body, but you’re being hijacked by a survival system that still thinks you're five seconds away from being abandoned on a motorway.
This whole circus likely leaves you feeling tired, overcooked, under-armoured, and vaguely humiliated by your own reactions.
I’m Shabana, and trust me, I know exactly what it feels like to live in a body that reacts like you’re being abandoned every twelve minutes… even when nothing is happening.
I spent years trying to “think positive,” “stay calm,” and “not take things personally,” while my nervous system was backstage pulling levers like
“release the childhood trauma sirens.”
And then it changed.
I realised that my body wasn’t dramatic.
It wasn’t broken.
It wasn’t “too sensitive.”
It was running an outdated survival code I never agreed to.
I went straight into the imprint underneath: the place where the panic, the rejection sensitivity, the abandonment alarms, and the “I can’t handle this” sensations were actually coming from.
And since discovering this?
• My body stopped overreacting to micro-shifts like they were major betrayals
• My emotional capacity expanded instead of collapsing when things got intense
• My system stopped misreading neutrality as danger
• And I finally felt like I wasn’t being dragged through life by reactions I didn’t choose
And the best part?
This isn’t magic.
It’s repair.
Deep repair, like your fave night cream.
And it’s repeatable.
If my system could change, yours can too and that’s exactly what I’m handing you inside Anxious Attachment Alchemy.
P.S. If you need reassurance that this works… the guarantee exists because I trust the process more than your nervous system trusts silence :-)
The Deep Repair Work for Women Ready to Heal the Root of Anxious Attachment Activation
Amna healed her anxious attachment style, which transformed her emotionally distant marriage back to "the honeymoon phase". Her once avoidant husband now is vulnerable willingly!"⬇️
Becoming unstuck from your attachment style
(value $199)
Create emotional stability and calmness from within 🧘🏽♀️
Decode the hidden 'danger' signals your attachment style sends to the body, activating you or your partner's fight-or-flight response.
Say hello to practical tools that keep you calm even in heated moments so you don't say things you later regret!
Transform your reactions from triggering to tuned-in, creating the emotional safety and balance you've always craved in relationships.
(value $297)
Rewire your self-worth so you stop chasing or pushing away love—and start feeling like an equal in it.
Identify how your attachment style shaped your self-worth—and how it's been quietly impacting who you choose, how you show up, and what you tolerate
Break free from the belief that you’re too much, not enough, or hard to love—and finally feel like you bring value to the table just by being you
(value $297)
Become truly inter-dependent.
(value $199)
Break-free from the dance and get a win-win🤗
(value $297)
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Set limits without spiralling into guilt or pushing your partner away!
(value $297)
..WITHOUT OVER-GIVING
(value $199)
Your price today...
This game-changing bonus on you’ll identify your unique conflict style based on your attachment style. Instead of tiptoeing around issues or exploding after holding it all in, you’ll start having the kinds of conversations that actually bring you closer as you’ll learn how to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs clearly and calmly. Communication stops feeling like a minefield—and starts becoming the thing that deepens your bond.
($397 value)
Discover the nuanced interplay between feminine and masculine energies in this game-changing bonus module! Armed with these insights of the male and female brain, you'll radically transform how you show up in your love life.
Get lifetime access so you can revisit and refresh any time!!
When they became a Secure Attacher, their nervous system AND love life transformed...
😍 Navigating your relationship with confidence and ease—knowing that no matter what comes up, you’ve got the tools to handle it.
😍 Your partner waiting for you to come home, excited to connect and share their day—because you've created a bond between you that just feels that safe.
😍 Staying calm in moments that used to trigger you—surprising your partner (and yourself) as you both stay present, open, and connected.
😍 Expressing yourself clearly and authentically—saying “no” when you need to, asking for what you want, and trusting your relationship can hold it.
😍 The exhausting push-pull is finally over. No more huge fights followed by silence—just honest conversations that bring you closer.
😍 You’re no longer stuck overanalysing every word or wondering if the problem is you—you understand your needs and your partner’s behaviour.
😍 Feeling grounded, secure, and self-assured in your relationship—free from emotional chaos, fear, or the need to overperform.
LET’S REWIRE MY ATTACHMENT STYLE🙌🏾Rob- Avoidant Attacher who did the work and now is dating The Secure Way.
I'm 100% convinced that you'll LOVE this course!
That's why I'm offering you a 14-day money-back guarantee!
In the highly unlikely event that you don't love The Secure Attacher you can request your money back within 14-days of purchase and get a full refund!
No questions asked!
She had been on-off relationships for 10 years:
YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.
I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.
I've been navigating the complex world of attachment styles since 2016 and today I've helped countless women transform their relationships and find secure love.
But it wasn't always like that:
When I first started my journey, I was stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap. I was a fearful-avoidant, constantly walking on eggshells, and pushing down my needs (or demanding them so hard) I could barely breathe.
After years of this exhausting cycle, I hit rock bottom with screaming matches, silent treatments, and a relationship that was hanging by a thread.
It was soul-crushing, but once I became securely attached, my relationships also became secure, stable & consistent,
Since 2019, I've focused exclusively on attachment styles and relationship coaching.
Now, I can't wait to share my 7-Step Secure Way Method, powerful communication strategies, and proven relationship insights and tools with you.
So that you get the relationships you deserve: the secure and safe love that makes you weak in the knees.
You ready?
Let's go. xx
You're tired of feeling like you're always on an emotional rollercoaster, analysing every text and interaction and wondering why your parter doesn't care?
You're trying so hard, on the defensive or looking out for warning signs, because there's no real consistency to your relationship...
You are exhausted from the constant worry of the relationship suddenly ending or wondering if you're even in the right relationship?
You have so much love to give, and you know you're worth so much more, but building a lasting relationship feels like an uphill battle.
The Secure Attacher: Your Complete Roadmap to a Healthy, Stable, and Consistent Relationship, plus my proven 7-Step Secure Way Method, 4 powerful bonuses to supercharge your transformation and so much more...
Jalila- Anxious Attacher- Secure
I’ve transformed my own relationships using the 7-Step Secure Way Method inside this course, and I’ve seen countless others do the same.
Inside The Secure Attacher, I will show you how to break free from anxious-avoidant patterns and create a stable, SECURE and loving relationship so that you feel seen, heard, and understood.
Whether you’re anxious, fearful or avoidant stuck in a cycle of push and pull, o just a gal looking for love this course will give you the tools to transform your relationships (AND maybe even your life!)
Are you READY to experience the freedom and joy that secure attachment brings and get the love and connection you deserve?
See you on the other side…!
Shabana XoXo
I’m Ready to Start Feeling Secure💖
Get started today before this once in a lifetime opportunity expires.
