Ready to discover the best-kept secrets that 500+ anxious and fearful attacherĀ women have used to create deep, lasting intimacy - even with an avoidant partner?
If love has left you feeling exhausted, unheard, or questioning where you standāyouāre in the right place. šš
Ā Ā Ā Ā EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
Unlock 7Ā EssentialĀ StepsĀ (Every Woman Needs) to Build IntimacyĀ Ā -Ā Even if heās distant, stuck, or emotionally unavailableĀ
Without:
ā Being the first one to text, apologise, or initiate every deep conversation
āĀ Carrying the emotional weight of the relationship
ā Second-guessingĀ if heās even capable of change or commitment
You donāt need any more mixed messages, silenced needs, or endless patienceĀ hoping for things to maybe ājust get betterāāyou need the right tools.
ā Feel emotionally safeĀ ā Get your needs metĀ ā Create a lasting connectionĀ
Because love shouldnāt feel like a full-time job.
YES! Iām Ready for a Relationship That Feels Like A Mutual Effort!š
š„ I Know What It Feels Like to Love Someone & Still Feel Completely Alone...
I crashed and burned in my marriage before I finally understood what truly makes relationships work. No matter how hard I tried to connect, I only felt lonelier.
Let's get raw & vulnerable...
š I know the pain of lying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away.
š I know what itās like crying on the bathroom floor, mourning the love I thought Iād have & the weight of every romantic dream slipping through my fingers
š I know the exhaustion of googling āhow to fix my marriageā at 3 AM, hoping for an answer that never comes.
But what I didnāt realise then was this: My biggest struggle was about to become my greatest lesson.
*I learned something that happy, fulfilled women in great relationships already know:
I discovered that true intimacy isnāt about changing your partnerāitās about mastering 7 proven steps use to createĀ emotional intimacy
And these arenāt just nice-to-havesātheyāre essential.
And hereās the other wild thing: these skills arenāt even hard to learn.
I didnāt have them either.
I tried everythingāover-giving, walking on eggshells, waiting for things to change. But once I understood how intimacy actually works, everything shifted.
And I donāt believe in gatekeeping - every woman deserves to know these so she can have her happy ever after without abandoning herself.Ā
Iāve helped hundreds of anxious and fearful attachers go from the brink of divorce, endless breakups, and epic blowouts to feeling safe, cherished, and deeply connected with their incredible partnersātraveling the world together, marriage, moving in, babiesāthe whole damn shebang :-)
Because when you understand how intimacy really works, connection stops feeling like a fightāand starts feeling like home šš½
When Love Feels One-Sided...
At first, he pursued you, made plans, showed up. You felt safe, wanted, and excited about the future.
But somewhere along the way, something shifted.
Now...
- You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection, but all you get back is a āseenā notification and a pit in your stomach š
- FeelingĀ like a broken record, constantly asking for the affection and attention you crave, only to be met with indifference or worse annoyance: "You're NEVERĀ happy!" š
- You bring up how you're feeling, hoping for reassuranceābut instead, he's dismissive, rolls his eyes,Ā and says, āWhy do we always have to talk about this?ā
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You're doing all the thingsābeing empathetic, listening hard, showing up as your best self, healing your anxious (or fearful) attachment. You cook, clean, do the laundry, keep things running smoothly. Don't complain too much. And yetā¦ itās like none of it registers.
- You push down your own needsātelling yourself, āMaybe Iām expecting too muchā or āI should just be grateful for what I have.ā
The truth? Love was never meant to feel this hard.
Youāre not asking for too muchāyouāre asking for what every woman deserves: to feel loved, prioritised, and emotionally safe.
It's not your fault.
At some point, you were taught that if you just gave more, talked more, or were moreĀ things would change.
They haven't. You're drained, depleted and you're done.
BUTTTTT....
Before you raze everything to theĀ ground...!
I want to show you a different wayāone that doesnāt require over-giving, sidelining your needs, or feeling like youāre the only one trying.
Because love was never meant to feel like something you have to earn.
The truth is, happy, fulfilled women in thriving relationships arenāt ājust lucky.ā or "special"
They have a set of skills that create deep, lasting intimacyāskills that restĀ of us were never taught.
Skills EVERY woman deserves to have...šš½
Get The 7Ā EssentialĀ Skills That Create Emotional Safety & Mutual EffortāEven With An Avoidant Partner So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve.
Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
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Build connection withoutĀ over-explaining &Ā draining conversations
Say hello to heartfelt conversations, connection & real intimacy.
"...to think I was going to break up with him...I would have regrettedĀ that forever..."
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āØ You wake up and, for the first time in a long time, you feel truly seen. Instead of scrolling on his phone, he pulls you close, kisses your forehead, and asks how you slept. No tension, no guessing where you standājust warmth.
āØ You donāt have to remind him to show up for youāhe just does. He remembers the little things, checks in on you during the day, and genuinely wants to be near you.
āØ Conversations feel easy and deep.Ā He listens. He responds. He actually opens up. And for the first time, you donāt feel like youāre the only one holding the relationship together.Ā #EmotionalIntimacyĀ Ā
āØ You send a textānot out of anxiety, but out of excitement. And instead of waiting hours or overanalyzing his response, you smile at your phone, because heās just as engaged as you are.
āØ That nervous pit in your stomach? It's gone. No more wondering if youāre too much. No more questioning if he cares orĀ whether you should break up.Ā You just know.
āØ Your home feels lighter. Laughter replaces tension. Playfulness replaces distance. The connection youāve been craving is finally there.
š” This isnāt luck. This is what happens when you understand the skills that make intimacy last.
Because when you know how connection actually works, you stop chasing itāand start experiencing it.
What's inside...ā¬ļø
The 7 PROVEN Skills To Create Emotional SafetyĀ
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These seven skills are the key to lasting intimacy - I only wish I'd known them sooner. They are the essential pieces to deep, lasting connection. With these tools, youāll create emotional trust, intimacy, and safety that stands the test of time.
šImagine distance being a thing of the past and sharing a close intimate relationship with your significant other.Ā Ā Ā
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Skill 1Ā Hit Reset & Break Free from the Loop
ā Discover the real reason youāre stuck in a negative loopāand itās got nothing to do with emotional unavailability.Ā
ā Practice how to feel groundedāespeciallyĀ when he pulls away or shuts down.
āĀ Break free from the cycle of over-explaining, frustration, and unmet needsāso connection can finally flow with ease.Ā Ā
Skill 2: Get Him to Lean in- Without You Having to Ask
āShift the dynamic so he naturally leans in, initiates, and takes the lead
ā Tap into a new way of showing up that draws commitment and effort from himāwithout pushing or chasing
ā Experience what it feels like to stop managing everything and watch even the most avoidant manĀ move towards you
Skill 3Ā Create Emotional Safety So He Opens Up
ā Discover the Trust Escalatorā¢ to go from small talk to deeper conversationsāso your partner feels safe to open up without needing to ask, āCan we talk?ā
ā Tap into the Invitation Method to naturally inspire more check-ins, affection, and consistency
ā Create space where vulnerability feels easyāand finally feel seen, heard, and emotionally understood
Skill 4 He Wants to Stay ConnectedāEven When Itās Hard
ā Spot emotional distance before it happensāand shift the dynamic with subtle connection cues
ā Express your needs in a way that naturally draws him closer, not pull away
ā Experience what it feels like when he wants to be emotionally closeānot just when itās easy, but when itās real
Skill 5 Say What You Needā& Pull HimĀ Closer
ā Stop walking on eggshells and speak your truth without fear (and finally understand - why yourĀ boundaries haven't worked).
ā Use my Raise the Standard Methodā¢ to set limits that feel warm, and inviting (This one shift changes how your partner responds immediately)
ā Watch how your energy shiftsāand how he starts stepping up in response
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Skill 6 Stop Fighting &Ā Get Him To Take The Lead
ā Use a simple 3-word phrase to instantly lower defences and shift the energy radically
ā Get him to hear you and see your point of viewāso you finally feel understood
ā Help your partner feel confident, capable, and proud in his masculine energyāso he truly leads so you can soften and feel cared for
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Skill 7 Become IrresistibleĀ āDoing Less
ā Prioritise yourself with real self-careāand watch intimacy deepen in a way that feels magical
ā Indulge in your natural magnetismāso he starts pursuing you without you having to chase
ā Build connection through deepĀ self-trust and feminine energyāso thatĀ love feels sacred and safe to you
It's time to bridgeĀ the emotional distance
Get the insider secrets to break through your partner's walls and create real closeness - no more mind-games, or being left on unread while they spendĀ HOURS gaming or on their phone, but zero time with you.
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ALL OF THIS FORĀ $1484
ONLYĀ $197Ā $47
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You'll also get access to these bonuses...
The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful
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Step-By-Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable & Get Your Needs Met
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TheĀ 11 PitfallsĀ To Avoid Especially If Your Partner Is Emotionally Unavailable
I don't want this feeling of disconnection and frustration to hold you back anymore, so I'm going to make this a no-brainer for you so that you...
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You'll discover how to inspire their desire to spend quality time together the EASY way, creating those magical moments of connection you crave.
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You'll discover how to reignite that playful, affectionate spark, transforming your relationship from predictable to passionate!
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And discover how to inspire your partner to be your biggest cheerleader and lavish you with affectionate words and phrases that'll make your heart skip a beat! š
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If youāre šÆnot satisfied, IĀ will GLADLY refund every penny you paid for it within 7 Days!Ā
No questions asked.ā”ļø
I'm Shabana!
So, you want to know a little secret about me?
I've experienced it all. From turbulent marriages, great relationships to epics breakups, being an avoidant extraordinaire to anxious wreck. I got one too many t-shirts.
And now? I've cracked the code on building intimacyĀ - even with the most avoidant partners.
And, let me tell you, it's a radical shift!
I've spent the past 5 years coaching men and women on how to build intimacy with their Ā partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZINGĀ transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Building a deep connection is simpler than you might think.
I've been there, done that, and discovered the shortcuts. What once seemed frustrating and painful can become effortless and rewarding.
That's why I've created this course. I've distilled the key insights from my own journey and coaching practice into 7 straightforward, easy-to-implement skills. These powerful yet simple techniques will help you cultivate a more intimate and fulfilling relationship with surprising ease.
If you're ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness with your partner, this course is your roadmap to success. You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to big breakthroughs in intimacy.
I'll be there to guide you through each step, making the process smooth and enjoyable.
(You'll wonder why you ever thought it was difficult)!
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy?
Let's make it happen!
Shabana Xx
Is This Course For You?
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You're fully committed to the course and are ready to learn a new approach that actually works.Ā
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You're in a relationship/marriage with someone who tends to pull away and you're eager to learn how to create a safe space for them to open up.
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You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and haveĀ given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 100+ of women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
Ā ā Youāre looking for a quick fix or a magic solution to instantly change your relationship. Real intimacy is built through meaningful shifts, not overnight tricks.
ā Youāre hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone theyāre not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationshipānot forcing someone else to change.
ā Youāre in a relationship that is abusive, toxic, or a situationship. These skills are designed for women in committed relationships or marriages where mutual respect and care exist, even if emotional closeness is currently lacking.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Ready to leave the emotional distanceĀ behind and start learning the proven skills fulfilled women have successfully used for millenniaāallowing you to finally have intimacy that you too deserve?
- 7 PROVEN Skills To Stop Them Pulling Away & Bring Them Closer (Valued at $697)
- Lifetime Access ā Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)
- Worksheets & Guided Exercises ā Break old patterns and reinforce new,Ā intimacyĀ skills ($197)
- Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #2: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable & Get Your Needs Met (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #3:Ā The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partnerĀ is Emotionally UnavailableĀ (Valued at $99)
