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🔒Unlock The 4 Essential Steps To Create Deep, Lasting Emotional Intimacy Even With An Emotionally Unavailable Partner – No Therapists Needed
If love has left you feeling exhausted, unheard, or questioning where you stand—you’re in the right place👇
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The proven 4-step intimacy-building solution for women with anxious or fearful-avoidant patterns done with over-giving, begging, losing themselves, especially when their partner pulls away, shuts down, or avoids closeness...
It gives you PRACTICAL methods to shift the dynamic using quick everyday phrases, deeper nervous system resets, and subtle (powerful) energy shifts that inspire them to show up without having constant conversations to more presence, effort, and desire, so you can finally feel emotionally safe, seen, and chosen.
I Know What It Feels Like to Love Someone & Still Feel Completely Alone...
I crashed and burned in my marriage before I finally understood what truly makes relationships work. No matter how hard I tried to connect, I only felt lonelier.
💔 I know the pain of lying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away.
💔 I know what it’s like crying on the bathroom floor, mourning the love I thought I’d have & the weight of every romantic dream slipping through my fingers
💔 I know the exhaustion of googling “how to fix my marriage” at 3 AM, hoping for an answer that never comes.
I’ve been there. I spent years trying to “love harder...
But what I didn’t realise then was this: My biggest struggle was about to become my greatest lesson.
THE TURNING POINT⬇️
<-- I discovered that true intimacy isn’t about changing your partner—it’s about mastering 4 simple steps to create emotional closeness even when nothing else worked.
And when I started sharing the framework with my clients?
*THE RESULT WERE UNBELIEVABLE ⬇️
I watched hundreds of women go from the brink of break-up, silence, or walking on eggshells...
➡️travelling the world together,
➡️proposals, dream weddings, marriages,
➡️moving in after years apart
➡️babies—the whole damn shebang :-)
👉🏽 Feeling safe, cherished, and deeply connected with their incredible partners—
**AND...HERE'S THE WILDEST PART ⬇️
These skills aren’t even hard to learn (and they’re not just “nice to have.”)
These skills are essential...
Because when you truly understand how intimacy really works, you can’t unsee it & connection starts feeling...easy👇🏽
And I don’t believe in gatekeeping - every woman deserves to know these so she can have her happy ever after without abandoning herself.
Does This Sound Familar..?
When Love Feels One-Sided -->
At first, he showed interest, made plans, and showed up. You felt safe, wanted, and excited about the future.
But somewhere along the way, something shifted.
Now...
➡️ You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection, but all you get back is a ‘seen’ notification and a pit in your stomach 💔
➡️ You bring up how you're feeling, ask for affection or a simple "what do you like about me?" and he rolls his eyes, and says, “Why do we always have to talk about this? You're NEVER happy!" 😖
➡️ You're doing all the things: being empathetic, listening hard, showing up as your best self. And yet… it’s like none of it registers.
The truth? Love was never meant to feel this hard.
✨You’re not asking for too much: you’re asking for what every woman deserves: to feel loved, prioritised, and emotionally safe.
✨It's not your fault - at some point, you were taught that being the “good girl”—would make love easy- but real connection comes from honouring you.
✨ You’re not needy. You’ve just never been taught the emotional skills that make intimacy feel effortless until now.
So before you raze everything to the ground...!
I want to show you a different way...one that doesn’t require over-giving, side-lining your needs, or feeling like you’re the only one trying.
Cos here’s what no one tells you: women in healthy relationships aren’t “just lucky” or special.”
They’ve learned a simple set of steps that create deep, lasting intimacy - skills that rest of us were never taught.
And once you know them?
There’s no going back.
They real. They're repeatable. They're learnable. And they're yours...👇🏽
Get The 4 Essential Steps That Create Emotional Safety & Mutual Effort—Even With An Avoidant Partner So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve.
Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
Build connection without over-explaining & draining conversations
Say hello to real effort, heartfelt conversations, and a partner who chooses you.
"...to think I was going to break up with him...I would have regretted that forever..."
💭IMAGINE...
🫶🏽You wake up and, for the first time in a long time, you feel truly seen. Instead of scrolling on his phone, he pulls you close, kisses your forehead, and asks how you slept. No tension, no guessing where you stand—just warmth.
🫶🏽 You don’t have to remind him to show up for you—he just does. He remembers the little things, checks in on you during the day, and genuinely wants to be near you.
🫶🏽 Conversations feel easy and deep. He listens. He responds. He actually opens up. And for the first time, you don’t feel like you’re the only one holding the relationship together. #EmotionalIntimacy
💡 This isn’t luck. This is what happens when you understand the skills that make intimacy last.
Because when you know how connection actually works, you stop chasing it—and start experiencing it.
WHAT'S INSIDE⬇️
Here’s exactly what you’ll learn inside to stop overgiving, feel emotionally safe, and create real intimacy-
By the end of Step 4, you’ll have your intimacy skills safely locked in and your patterns rewired—AKA your “I’m not chasing, I’m choosing” era activated. You’ll be doing less, and receiving more
STEP 1 THE EMOTIONAL RESET
🎯Discover Essential Tools That Stops the Distancing In It's Tracks & Bring Him Closer -They're Not What You Think
If you’ve ever thought, ‘Why is he pulling away?’—this is the step that ends the disconnection and helps your partner stay close -even when it's hard
You’ll learn:
- The one tool thing that stops distancing before it even starts
- Clear the hidden emotional tension (he picks up on) even when you're saying it kindly
- Release the unspoken emotion that keeps you chasing and him withdrawing
You stop feeling like you’re the only one holding it together. The pressure eases and for the first time, he stays close when it matters.
STEP 2 THE EMOTIONAL STANDARD
🗣️Shift the Energy So He Starts Opening up: Deep Conversations, Presence, and Real Connection
Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you flip the script, so he starts tuning in, not out.
YOU'LL LEARN
- One simple emotional commitment tool that changes how he responds to you in hard moments instantly
- "Raise the standard" method which makes him more present and take space
- Shift from “Why won’t he talk to me?” to “He won’t stop talking to me.”!
This is when he starts staying in the conversation and you feel like you’re in it together.
STEP 3 QUADRUPLE EMOTIONAL SAFETY
📈Emotional Safety: Where He Starts Giving More (Without Draining Conversations)
Using my Trust Escalator Method™, you’ll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men initiate without being asked.
You'll learn
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How to ask for your needs in a way that land and inspire his desire to connect
- The right mindset that'll shift from “I do everything” to “ I am taken care of ” (*previous students LOVE this one!)
- Use this EXACT tone and watch him start showing up in ways you didn’t even think he was capable of-within a day!
STEP 4 LASTING EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
😘Emotional Intimacy: Where He Initiates, Leads, and Makes You Feel Deeply Chosen
He’s the one planning, texting, touching, leading, and making you feel like the most wanted woman in the room.
YOU'LL LEARN TO
- Create the right energy in your relationship to sustain it for the long-term
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The exact shifts that make your avoidant partner message first, plan wonderful things for you, and make him want to stay close -without you even asking
- Make it super easy for him to take the lead (emotionally, financially and spiritually), and make you feel like his favourite person.
You'll also get access to even more bonuses...
The EXACT Phrases To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful
[value $147]
Step-by-Step Guide to Being Truly Vulnerable in Just A Few Minutes
[value $147]
The 11 Pitfalls To Avoid If Your Partner Is Very Avoidant
[value $97]
TOTAL VALUE: $1681
ALL OF THIS ONLY FOR $197 $47
⚠️ for a limited time. Price might increases soon—don’t miss your chance.*
Give Me the Skills to Create Lasting Intimacy💅🏽
7-Day Refund Guarantee.
If you’re 💯not satisfied, I will GLADLY refund every penny you paid for it within 7 Days!
No questions asked
I know the feeling of disconnection and frustration can leave you feeling helpless, but I want to make this easy for you
Because when you have the right steps, you can start seeing shifts within a few weeks( sometimes in days)—
and finally experience:
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The ease of inspiring your partner to genuinely want to spend quality time with you, creating the deep, connected moments you’ve been longing for. No more waiting for them to initiate.
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A rekindled energy of playfulness and affection, shifting your relationship from feeling emotionally distant to passionate, reassuring, and safe.
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The confidence to encourage your partner to become your greatest supporter, offering you words that heal, validate, and reassure your worth so you no longer feel confused, insecure or uncertain🙌
You don’t need to fix everything.
You just need the 4 steps that actually work—starting now.
I'm Shabana!
So, you want to know a little secret about me?
I've experienced it all. From turbulent marriages, great relationships to epics breakups, being an avoidant extraordinaire to anxious wreck. I got one too many t-shirts.
And now? I've cracked the code on building intimacy - even with the most avoidant partners.
And, let me tell you, it's a radical shift!
I've spent the past 5 years coaching anxious/fearful and avoidant women on how to build intimacy with their partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZING transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Building a deep connection is simpler than you might think.
I've been there, done that, and discovered the shortcuts. What once seemed frustrating and painful can become effortless and rewarding.
That's why I've created this course. I've distilled the key insights from my own journey and coaching practice into 4 straightforward, easy-to-implement skills. These powerful yet simple techniques will help you cultivate a more intimate and fulfilling relationship with surprising ease.
If you're ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness with your partner, this course is your roadmap to success. You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to big breakthroughs in intimacy.
I'll be there to guide you through each step, making the process smooth and enjoyable.
(You'll wonder why you ever thought it was difficult)!
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy?
Let's make it happen!
Shabana Xx
Is This Course For You?
This bite-size course is designed for women who want deep transformation without hours of content—just focused, doable shifts that actually work
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You're fully committed to the steps and skills and are ready to learn an approach that actually works.
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You're a woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship/marriage and eager to bridge the distance and disconnection.
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You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and have given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 600+ women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
❌ This isn’t a quick-hit wonder. If you're looking for a magic solution to instantly change your relationship, this isn’t it.
You need to be willing to try the strategies for at least a few weeks.
❌ This course isn’t for situationships where things stay vague, or undefined.
❌ You’re hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone they’re not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to building emotional safety - not forcing someone else to change.
❌ You’re in a relationship that is abusive or extremely toxic.
You don’t have to earn intimacy or another $1,000 course to decode his behaviour — you just need the tools that shift the dynamic-for real.
- 4 SIMPLE Steps To Build Intimacy Even With An Avoidant Partner(Valued at $697)
- Lifetime Access – Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)
- Worksheets & Guided Exercises – End disconnection and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($197)
- Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #2: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable In A Few Minutes ($147)
- Bonus #3: The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partner is Very Avoidant (Valued at $99)
TOTAL VALUE: $1681
ALL OF THIS FOR ONLY $197
$47*
(*price might jump up soon!)
Frequently Asked Questions
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What If It Doesn’t Work?
Ready for Intimacy That Doesn’t Cost You Your Soul—Or Thousands in Couples Therapy?
If you’ve been holding the relationship together with emotional duct tape—
If you’re tired of decoding mixed signals, overthinking your every word, and doing all the work just to feel close...
You don’t need another exhausting conversation.
You don’t need to be “more chill,” “more healed,” or “less needy.”
You need the 4 steps that actually create safety, connection, and effort on both sides.
The Effortless Intimacy Formula gives you that so that you shift the dynamic—
without chasing, over-giving, or abandoning your truth.
This is where the pattern breaks 👇🏽
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