Ready to learn the best-kept secrets that 1,000+ women have used creating connection, marriages, babies, and lasting love they once thought was impossible? You're in the right placešš
Unlock the 4 Essential Steps to GetĀ Your PartnerĀ to Open Up, Initiate More & Stay CloseĀ ā Even if Heās Distant, Always Asking for Space, or Emotionally Unavailable.
"I'm only 1/2 way through the course...& heās the one calling me, pouring his heart out!"Ā
Without:
ā Being the first one to text,Ā
āĀ Carrying the weight of the relationship
ā Second-guessingĀ if heās even capable of commitment
You donāt need endless patience -Ā you need emotional safety that you create on purpose
ā Emotionally safeĀ ā Needs metĀ ā ConsistencyĀ
YES! Level Up My RELATIONSHIPš

Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance

Inspire consistency and connectionĀ without ultimatums

Say hello to heartfelt conversations, and healthy communication.
"...to think I was going to break up with him...I would have regrettedĀ that forever..."

I Know What It Feels Like to Love Someone & Still Feel Completely Alone...
I crashed and burned in my marriage before IĀ finallyĀ understood what truly makes relationships work. No matter how hard I tried to connect, I only felt lonelier.
šĀ I know the pain of lying next to my 'avoidant' husbandĀ who felt like a million miles away.
šĀ I know what itās likeĀ crying on the bathroom floor,Ā mourning the loveĀ I thought Iād have & the weight of every romantic dream slipping through my fingers
šĀ I know theĀ exhaustion of googling āhow to fix my marriageā at 3 AM, hoping for an answer that never comes.
Iāve been there. I spentĀ yearsĀ trying to ālove harder...
But what I didnāt realise then was this:Ā My biggest struggle was about to become my greatest lesson.
THE TURNING POINTā¬ļø
Ā I discovered that true intimacy isnāt about I feel statement or changing your partnerāitās about masteringĀ 4 simple steps to create emotional closeness even when nothing else worked.
And when I started sharing the framework with my clients?
*THE RESULT WERE UNBELIEVABLEĀ ā¬ļø
I watched hundreds ofĀ womenĀ go from the brink of break-up, silence,Ā or walking on eggshells...
ā”ļøtravelling the world together,
ā”ļøproposals, dream weddings, marriages,
ā”ļømoving in after years apart
ā”ļøbabiesāthe whole damn shebang :-)
šš½Ā Feeling safe, cherished, andĀ deeplyĀ connected with their incredible partnersā
**AND...HERE'S THE WILDEST PARTĀ ā¬ļø
These skills arenāt even hard to learnĀ (and theyāre not just ānice to have.ā)
These skills areĀ essential...
Because when you truly understandĀ how intimacy really works,Ā you canāt unsee it & connectionĀ starts feeling...easyšš½
And I donāt believe in gatekeeping - every woman deserves to know these so she can have her happy ever after without abandoning herself.Ā
He always seems too busy, asking for space, even threatening to break up⦠but then he shows up again like nothing happened. The mixed messages are exhausting.
And the hardest part? It wasnāt always like this. In the beginning, he pursued you. He made plans. He showed up. You felt safe, wanted, and excited about the future. Thatās why youāre still holding on.
Now...
You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection.Ā All you get back? A āseenā notification⦠and a pit in your stomach š.
You feel like a broken record.Ā āDo you still like me?āĀ His reply? Indifference. Or worse - annoyance: āYouāre NEVER happy!ā š
You bring up how you feel.Ā He rolls his eyes. āNot again. Why do we always have to talk about this?ā š
Youāre doing everything right. Listening, empathising, showing up as your best self. And yet⦠nothing. Itās like it doesnāt even register.
So you shove your needs down.Ā āI should just be grateful for what I have.āĀ But inside? Youāre still lonely.
šš½I see you. I know you've tried everything...
š¤Talking about your feelings endlessly
š¤Begging him to try couples therapy.
š¤Reading every relationship book you can find?
Nothing has worked.
It's not you.
Youāre asking for what every woman deserves: to feel loved, prioritised, and emotionally safe.
But, before you raze everything to theĀ ground...!
I want to show you a different way
A way that doesnāt require over-giving, shrinking your needs, or feeling like youāre the only one trying (because yesāweāre done with that! ā )
The truth? You donāt need to work this hard.
Thereās a set of skills secure women use to create deep, lasting intimacy - skills most of us were never taught.
Skills every woman deserves to knowā¦
Ā The very ones I wish I'd had...šš½

EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULAā¢
Your All-Access Pass to Intimacy With an Avoidant Partner

Ā Get The Exact 4Ā Steps That Build Emotional Safety, And Intimacy Built to LastĀ Without Begging, Ultimatums or Expensive Couples Therapy
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⨠You wake up and, for the first time in a long time, you feel truly seen. Instead of scrolling on his phone, he pulls you close and asks how you are
⨠You donāt have to remind him to show up for youāhe just does. He remembers the little things.
āØĀ He initiates conversations.Ā He listens. He responds.Ā
⨠You send a text -not out ofĀ obligationĀ but out of excitement.Ā Heās just as engaged as you are.
⨠That nervous pit in your stomach? It's gone.Ā
⨠Your home? It feels lighter.Ā
Your relationship? It feels easy.Ā
š”This isnāt luck. This is what happens when you understand the skills that make intimacy last.

What's inside...ā¬ļø
Ā Your Permission Slip to The Consistency and Connection You DeserveĀ WithoutĀ Making ALL the Effort
šImagine distance being a thing of the past and sharing a close intimate relationship with your significant other.Ā Ā Ā
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The Intimacy Reset
Discover the 3 SafetyĀ Leaks That AreĀ Blocking Intimacy & Stop Them In Their Tracks--They'reĀ Not What You ThinkĀ
By the end of Step 1 you'll see the emotional distance start to soften.

TheĀ Nervous-SystemĀ Effectā¢
Learn the Smarter Approach That Calms His Nervous System &Ā He Starts Leaning In With Real Effort
Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you totally RECLAIM your energy, flip the script, so thatĀ he starts to spend more time with you without chasing or begging.Ā
By the end of Step 2, youāll notice him leaning in more,Ā and staying close.Ā

The Emotional Safety Shiftā¢
Spark Emotional Safety So Heās Whipping Out His Phone Sending You Long, Unfiltered Paragraphs About How He Feels
Using my Trust Turn-Onā¢, youāll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men soften and start to open up
By end of Step 3, around week 5, youāll see your partner open up, there is more ease and peace.

Intimacy Built-To-Last Eraā¢
Simple Strategies To Sustain The Spark So Heās Choosing You Over His Friends & Fam, Planning Weekends, Making Space In His Life -Prioritising You Every Single Day
Timeless, easy-to-implementĀ strategies that sustain closeness. It keeps your partner leading, meeting yourĀ needs, staying closeĀ willingly and unprompted.Ā
By Step 4 Ā Youāll notice intimacy becoming your new normal. More playfulness, fun and affection follow!



You'll also get access to these bonuses...
The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Partner IsĀ Mean
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The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map⢠To Get Your Needs Met-FAST
Ā (This can be used as a separate course, but I've dropped it here for free)
TheĀ 11 Hidden PitfallsĀ That Blow Up IntimacyĀ Without You Realising

EffortlessĀ Intimacy Formulaā¢
It's time toĀ end the emotional distance
Get the insider secrets to break through your partner's walls and create real closeness - no more mind-games,Ā being left on unread while they spendĀ HOURSĀ on their phone, gaming or hanging out with their F&F, but zero time with you!
ALL OF THIS FORĀ $1484
ONLYĀ $199Ā $69
*price to jump up soon!*


7 Day Refund Guarantee.
Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula withĀ zeroĀ pressure.
While real change takes time (I recommend at least 60 days of intentional practice), youāre fully protected withĀ my 7-day refund guarantee.
If in the first week you feel this isnāt aligned...Iāll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.

I don't want this feeling of disconnection and frustration to hold you back anymore, so I'm going to make this a no-brainer for you so that you...
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You'll discover how to inspire their desire to spend quality time together the EASY way, creating those magical moments of connection you crave.
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You'll discover how to reignite that playful, affectionate spark, transforming your relationship from predictable to passionate!
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And discover how to inspire your partner to be your biggest cheerleader and lavish you with affectionate words and phrases that'll make your heart skip a beat! š

I'm Shabana!
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I've experienced it all. From a turbulent marriage, great relationships to epics breakups, being an avoidant extraordinaire to anxious wreck. I'm the lived experience of every attachment style.Ā
And now? I've cracked the code on healing attachment style and helping women build intimacyĀ - even with the most avoidant partners.
I've spent the pastĀ 7 years coaching men and women on how to build intimacy with their Ā partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZINGĀ transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Ā If you're ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness with your significant other, this course is your roadmap to success. You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to big breakthroughs in intimacy.
I'll be there to guide you through each step, making the process smooth and enjoyable.
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy?
Let's make it happen!
Shabana Xx

Is This Course For You?
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You're fully committed to the course and are ready to learn a new approach that actually works.Ā
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You're in a heterosexual relationship/ marriage with someone who tends to pull away and you're eager to learn how to create a safe space for them to open up.
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You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and haveĀ given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+ of women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
Ā ā Youāre looking for a quick fix or a magic solution to instantly change your relationship. Real intimacy is built through meaningful shifts, not overnight tricks.
ā Youāre hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone theyāre not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationshipānot forcing someone else to change.
ā Youāre in a relationship that is abusive, toxic, or a situationship. Please seek support.Ā These skills are designed for women in committed relationships or marriages where mutual respect and care exist, even if emotional closeness is currently lacking.

Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner doesn't want to do the course?
Will this help if I'm anxious or fearful attachment?
How soon will I see things getting better?
What if I don't like the course?
DoI get immediate access to the course, and is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
What If It Doesnāt Work?
Ready to leave the emotional distanceĀ behind and start learning the proven skills fulfilled women have successfully used for millenniaāallowing you to finally have intimacy that you too deserve?

- 4Ā PROVEN Skills To Stop Them Pulling Away & Bring Them Closer (Valued at $697)
- Lifetime Access ā Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)
- Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises ā Break old patterns and reinforce new,Ā intimacyĀ skills ($197)
- Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #2: 5 MinuteĀ Method To Be Truly Vulnerable & Get Your Needs Met (Valued at $147)
- Bonus #3:Ā The 11 Pitfalls to Avoid if your Partner Is Very AvoidantĀ Ā (Valued at $99)
ALL OF THIS FOR $1484
ONLY $199Ā $69*
(price to jump up soon!)
