Introducing
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™
Emotional Safety With An Avoidant Made Easy
❌ zero begging ❌ zero ultimatums
Unlock The Proven Framework To Get Your Partner To Open Up, Initiate More, And Stay Close – Even if He’s Distant, Always Asking for Space, or Avoidant
If you find yourself saying “Why can’t he just meet me halfway?” - this is for you.
7+ Years Coaching Distilled Into 4 Practical Steps
✅ Emotionally Safe ✅ Needs Met ✅ Real Consistency
Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
Inspire consistency and connection without ultimatums
Say hello to heartfelt conversations, and healthy communication.
✨ You wake up and, for the first time in forever, you feel chosen.
He’s not scrolling on his phone. He’s reaching for you - asking how you slept, how you are.
✨ You don’t have to chase reminders he takes the lead. He books the dinner, calls when he’ll be home, and remembers the anniversary before you even do!
✨ He initiates. He listens. He responds. He texts because he wants to, not because he feels obliged.
✨ That nervous pit in your stomach? It's gone.
✨ Your home? It feels lighter.
✨Your relationship? It's your fave place
💡This isn’t luck. That’s what happens when you learn the emotional skills that make intimacy natural👇👇
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™
Your All-Access Pass to Emotional Intimacy Even With an Avoidant Partner
What's Inside⬇️
4 steps that take you from feeling disconnected and wondering “should I end this?” to him leaning in, listening, handling conflict with you, and being openly affectionate.
So much goodness...
✅ Turn panic into power & the mindset shift that stops spiralling and makes you irresistible instead of needy.
✅ The two emotions that disarm avoidance: melt his walls and end the patterns that push him away.
✅ Seal your safety leaks: a deep nervous-system meditation that stops chasing and naturally draws him closer.
✅ Create steady energy : the 7 commitments that keep you calm, confident, and easy for him to relax around.
✅ Set the new standard: non-negotiables that invite his effort and make it easy for him to meet you with care and maintain your sanity
✅ Elevate how you’re treated: the mindset that shifts you from “hard to please” to “impossible to overlook.”
✅ The Trust Escalator™ fast-tracks emotional safety so even avoidant men soften and commit.
✅ The precise approach that opens him up even more: more availability, more affection, more consistency.
✅ The tone that makes him vulnerable: instantly changes the energy of hard conversations.
✅ Make closeness his comfort zone: see him clear his time, plan holidays, proposals, increase his effort in the home, reach out first, and want to be near you.
✅ Reignite his leadership: a fill-in-the-blank accountability process that activates his direction and effort.
✅ Keep love playful and stable: 3–5 minute connection rituals that keep affection alive and light.
Snapshot Of What's Possible
Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).
Mel, Austria: 3-Year Relationship
From “maybe you should find someone else”… to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.
Amna, UK -Second Marriage
From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates… to deeper conversations, surprise holidays, and genuine connection.
Sarah, NYC, USA: 4 year relationship
From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal, moving across the country and in together and a gorgeous baby
Marja, Belgium: 10-Year Marriage
From constant fights, stuck in the anxious-avoidant loop… to laughing, insider jokes and...finally feeling safe
You'll also get access to these bonuses...
The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Partner Is Mean
The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map™ To Get Your Needs Met-FAST
(This can be used as a separate course, but I've dropped it here for free)
The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising
ALL OF THIS FOR $1484
BLACK FRIDAY: 40% OFF
Original Price $47 → Now $28.20
Ends in 4 days.
I'm Shabana!
Maybe you haven’t heard of me. That is totally fine. I do not live on reels or chase virality.
You’ll find me on Instagram (sometimes), but most of my hours are spent coaching, holding communities, and supporting clients to have real breakthroughs.
I may not be Matthew Hussey (no shade), I’m the coach women come to after the therapy talks and podcast advice stop working. I've been doing this for 7 years now and very good at it.
I created this framework from my own lived experience when my marriage crashed and burned. Everything I teach has been tried and tested in real relationships, not theory. If you want someone who chooses substance over clout and real change over loudness, you are in the right place.
I’ve witnessed so many transformations that would make even the biggest love cynic believe in love again (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together and magical proposals).
You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to BIG breakthroughs in intimacy.
It's your turn.
Let's make it happen!
Shabana Xx
P.S I get a lot of question why I've priced it's so low. I deliberately kept the price low so more women could access it. The value is easily worth hundreds, but the goal is impact: helping as many women as possible shift out of painful cycles and into secure love.