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EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™

Emotional Safety With An Avoidant Made Easy

❌ zero begging ❌ zero ultimatums

Unlock The Proven Framework To Get Your Partner To Open Up, Initiate More, And Stay Close – Even if He’s Distant, Always Asking for Space, or Avoidant

If you find yourself saying “Why can’t he just meet me halfway?” - this is for you.

7+ Years Coaching Distilled Into 4 Practical Steps 

✅ Emotionally Safe ✅ Needs Met ✅ Real Consistency 
 
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REAL TALK...
 
When it comes to building a relationship where you feel chosen, secure you don’t need ultimatums, better communication hacks, or another round of “we need to talk.” What you need is emotional safety : the quiet power that makes connection effortless again...

In fact, emotional safety is THE answer to getting him to open up, lean in, and stay close.

💗 It’s what makes him initiate instead of him waiting for your lead (again!)
💗 It’s what turns surface-level polite chats into genuine heartfelt conversations.
💗 It’s what  makes affection natural, not negotiated or nagged for.
💗 And it’s what finally lets you stop performing “the chill girl” and start being chosen.

This is the power of emotional safety.
 

It isn’t manipulation. It’s mastery.

Of the quiet strength that shifts a relationship from imbalance to intimacy.

💎Creating emotional safety is the foundation of the lasting intimacy you’ve been craving.


 
 
Say goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
Inspire consistency and connection without ultimatums
Say hello to heartfelt conversations, and healthy communication.
But.. right now love doesn’t feel effortless… it feels HARD
➡️He always too busy, ➡️Always needing space➡️Suggesting you should just break up…

...until he reappears like nothing happened 🤷‍♀️

The mixed messages are exhaaaausting... and the silence between them? Even louder.

😥You feel like a broken record. “Do you still like me?” His reply? Indifference. Or worse - annoyance: “You’re NEVER happy!” 

😥You bring up how you feel & he rolls his eyes. “Not again! Why do we always have to talk about this?” 

😥 You suggest couples therapy, talking about your feelings endlessly or reading every relationship book you can find...still no luck

And underneath it all? That hurt of loving harder than you’re loved back. 

You end up feeling so needy and desperate just for a scrap of connection.

I see you (been there many many times too!)

What if you could stop waiting hours for a reply, PLUS hear him say “I miss you” and start making the effort without you asking?

That shift isn’t fantasy. It’s emotional safety in action.👇🏽👇🏽

 
What if increasing intimacy could be SIMPLE and...EASY? 💃🏽

What if in 86 minutes - the length of an extended lunch break - you could have more connection and intimacy (sometimes with just a FEW choice words?) 

 

What if you didn't need to have constant conversations AND still get your needs met? 

 

What if your partner started going over and above in meeting your needs?

 

What if they started opening up 'voluntarily' without you asking?

 

What if you could have waaaaaaay MORE connection with waaaaaaay LESS effort?

 
 

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  Effortless Intimacy Formula™

A 4-step framework built from 7 years of coaching women through anxious and avoidant dynamics, and distilled from the hardest lessons I ever had to live through in relationships

Inside, you’ll discover how to reset the emotional tone of your relationship and create the kind of emotional safety that makes even an avoidant partner lean in, open up, and stay close.

It’s not theory, it’s a proven system I’ve used with hundreds of women who once thought intimacy with their partner was impossible.

P.S. I’m so confident in this process that if you don’t love it for any reason, there’s a 7 day full money-back guarantee

 
IMAGINE...
You wake up and, for the first time in forever, you feel chosen.
He’s not scrolling on his phone. He’s reaching for you - asking how you slept, how you are.
You don’t have to chase reminders he takes the lead. He books the dinner, calls when he’ll be home, and remembers the anniversary before you even do!
He initiates. He listens. He responds. He texts because he wants to, not because he feels obliged.
That nervous pit in your stomach? It's gone. 
Your home? It feels lighter. 
Your relationship? It's your fave place
💡This isn’t luck. That’s what happens when you learn the emotional skills that make intimacy natural👇👇
 
INTRODUCING...

EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA™

Your All-Access Pass to Emotional Intimacy Even With an Avoidant Partner

 Where you say goodbye to sleepless nights and hello to rambling loving texts, morning coffees, and affection that's consistent. Inside Effortless Intimacy Formula you’ll learn the exact shifts that make love feel easy again.

 

What's Inside⬇️

 
 4 steps that take you from feeling disconnected and wondering “should I end this?” to him leaning in, listening, handling conflict with you, and being openly affectionate.
 

So much goodness...

Turn panic into power &  the mindset shift that stops spiralling and makes you irresistible instead of needy.
The two emotions that disarm avoidance:  melt his walls and end the patterns that push him away.
Seal your safety leaks: a deep nervous-system meditation that stops chasing and naturally draws him closer.

Create steady energy : the 7 commitments that keep you calm, confident, and easy for him to relax around.
Set the new standard: non-negotiables that invite his effort and make it easy for him to meet you with care and maintain your sanity
Elevate how you’re treated:  the mindset that shifts you from “hard to please” to “impossible to overlook.”

The Trust Escalator™  fast-tracks emotional safety so even avoidant men soften and commit.
The precise approach that opens him up even more: more availability, more affection, more consistency.
The tone that makes him vulnerable: instantly changes the energy of hard conversations.

Make closeness his comfort zone: see him clear his time, plan holidays, proposals, increase his effort in the home, reach out first, and want to be near you.
Reignite his leadership: a fill-in-the-blank accountability process that activates his direction and effort.
Keep love playful and stable 3–5 minute connection rituals that keep affection alive and light.

 

Snapshot Of What's Possible

Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).

 
Mel, Austria: 3-Year Relationship

From “maybe you should find someone else”… to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.

Amna, UK -Second Marriage

 From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates… to deeper conversations, surprise holidays, and genuine connection. 

Sarah, NYC, USA: 4 year relationship

From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal, moving across the country and in together and a gorgeous baby

Marja, Belgium: 10-Year Marriage

From constant fights, stuck in the anxious-avoidant loop… to laughing, insider jokes and...finally feeling safe

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PLUSSS

You'll also get access to these bonuses...

 
BONUS #1
The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Partner Is Mean

 

 

 Val $147
BONUS #2
The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map™ To Get Your Needs Met-FAST

 (This can be used as a separate course, but I've dropped it here for free)

 Val $147
BONUS #3
The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising

 

 Val $99
Total Value = $1,082
ONE EASY PAYMENT OF

$197 $77

I WANT ALL OF THESE PLEASE 💖

Effortless Intimacy Formula™

You won’t leave this work with the same relationship you started with...

Get the insider secrets to break through your partner's walls and create real closeness - no more mind-games,  being left on unread while they spend HOURS on their phone, gaming or hanging out with their F&F, but zero time with you!

Real reciprocity. Real consistency. Real intimacy.

 
ALL OF THIS FOR $1484


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Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.

While real change takes time (I recommend 15-30 days of intentional practice), you’re fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.

If in the first week you feel this isn’t aligned...I’ll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.

 

-You might be thinking?-

You might be thinking: “This sounds amazing, but I don’t have the emotional energy right now.”

That's fair but here’s the truth: this isn’t hours of theory. It’s a simple, step-by-step framework you can apply in real time especially in the middle of (another?) tough moment with your partner.

*And the best part? It actually gives you your energy back. No more over-functioning, over-extending, or pouring out while your needs go unmet.

 
Hi!
I'm Shabana!
Maybe you haven’t heard of me. That is totally fine. I do not live on reels or chase virality.
You’ll find me on Instagram (sometimes), but most of my hours are spent coaching, holding communities, and supporting clients to have real breakthroughs.
I may not be Matthew Hussey (no shade), I’m the coach women come to after the therapy talks and podcast advice stop working. I've been doing this for 7 years now and very good at it. 
I created this framework from my own lived experience when my marriage crashed and burned. Everything I teach has been tried and tested in real relationships, not theory. If you want someone who chooses substance over clout and real change over loudness, you are in the right place.

I’ve witnessed so many transformations that would make even the biggest love cynic believe in love again (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together and magical proposals).

You'll be amazed at how small, manageable changes can lead to BIG  breakthroughs in intimacy.

 

It's your turn.

Let's make it happen!

Shabana Xx

P.S I get a lot of question why I've priced it's so low.  I deliberately kept the price low so more women could access it. The value is easily worth hundreds, but the goal is impact: helping as many women as possible shift out of painful cycles and into secure love.

 
HERE'S THE DEAL...
I don't want this feeling of disconnection and frustration to hold you back anymore, so I'm going to make this a no-brainer for you so that you...
  • You'll discover how to inspire their desire to spend quality time together the EASY way, creating those magical moments of connection you crave.

  • You'll discover how to reignite that playful, affectionate spark, transforming your relationship from predictable to passionate!

  • And discover how to inspire your partner to be your biggest cheerleader and lavish you with affectionate words and phrases that'll make your heart skip a beat! 🙌

 

All for ONLY $197 $77!

(*This is a pre-sale. price goes up in November 1st!)⚡️
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Is This Course For You?

THIS COURSE IS PERFECT FOR YOU IF...
  • You're fully committed to the course and are ready to learn a new approach that actually works. 

  • You're in a heterosexual relationship/ marriage with someone who tends to pull away and you're eager to learn how to create a safe space for them to open up.

  • You're tired of trying to get through to your partner and have given up hope of having an intimate relationship, but deep down, you still yearn for more.

  • You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+ of women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way

 
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF...

 ❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or a magic solution to instantly change your relationship. Real intimacy is built through meaningful shifts, not overnight tricks.

❌ You’re hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone they’re not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship—not forcing someone else to change.

You’re in a relationship that is abusive, toxic, or a situationship. Please seek support.  These skills are designed for women in committed relationships or marriages where mutual respect and care exist, even if emotional closeness is currently lacking.

 
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Frequently Asked Questions

 

Ready to leave the emotional distance behind and start learning the proven skills fulfilled women have successfully used for millenniaallowing you to finally have intimacy that you too deserve?

 
GET INSTANT ACCESS TO:
  • 4 Proven Skills Get Your Partner To Open Up, Initiate More, And Stay Close  (Valued at $697)

  • Lifetime Access – Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($197)

  • Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises – Break old patterns and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($197)

 
  • Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $147)

  • Bonus #2: 5 Minute Method To Be Truly Vulnerable & Get Your Needs Met (Valued at $147)

  • Bonus #3: The 11 Pitfalls to Avoid if your Partner Is Very Avoidant  (Valued at $99)

 
Total Value = $1,482
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$197 - $77

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ALL OF THIS FOR $1484
ONLY $199 $47*

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I’m Ready to Feel Safe & Loved💍