đĄď¸ For Women With Avoidant Partners Who Want Emotional Intimacy
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Effortless Intimacy Formulaâ˘
"heâs already the one calling me, pouring his heart out.âThe #No1 bestselling course built to help him...lean in, open up, and want to connect...without chasing, begging, or losing yourself.
7 year coaching, distilled into 4 clear steps
â Emotionally Safe â Needs Met â  Lasting ConnectionÂ
âââââ Trusted by 1,097 women creating marriages, families & lasting love
 Breakthroughs From Women Just Like You...



Intimacy isnât complicated
Closeness doesnât come from harder work or endless devotion. It never has.
Effort left me empty.Â
 đLying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away.
đ Crying on the bedroom floor, mourning the love Iâd never have.
đ Googling âhow to fix my marriageâ at 3 AM, desperate for answers
đđ˝ What I didnât know then was that the problem wasnât me. It was the way I was trying.
And once I learned how to shift the approach, everything began to change.
⨠The Turning Point
My biggest struggle became my greatest lesson.
True intimacy isnât about changing your partner - itâs about creating an emotional landscape where intimacy thrives.
Intimacy isn't complicated. It's intentional.
âď¸From Trial and Error to a Proven Formula
I turned the heartbreak and missteps into a step-by-step framework..Â
And when I started sharing with my clients?
*The results blew me away. I watched hundreds of women go from the brink of breakups, silence, and walking on eggshellsâŚ
đđ˝ to feeling safe, cherished, and deeply connectedâtravelling together, getting married, moving in, having babies
đĄď¸AND HEREâS THE BEST PART...
Emotional intimacy isn't complicated.
It's practical. A simple sequence of steps any woman can use to change the way closeness works in her relationship.
It follows a clear framework: one that recodes the anxiousâavoidant dance.
And these arenât ânice to haveâ skills. Theyâre essential.
đđ˝ Because when you understand how intimacy truly works, connection stops feeling like a battle.
Just the closeness you deserve without the struggle.
This belongs to every woman. Including you đ
Right now, it feels like guesswork....
âĄď¸ You send a heartfelt message, hoping for connection, but all you get back is a âseenâ notification and a pit in your stomach đ
âĄď¸ You ask a simple "what do you like about me?" and he rolls his eyes, and says, âWhy do we always have to talk about this? You're NEVER happy!" đ
âĄď¸ You're doing all the things: being empathetic, listening hard, showing up as your best self. And yet⌠itâs like none of it registers.
 đđ˝And you've tried..
đ¤Talking about your feelings nonstop?Â
đ¤Endlessly suggesting couples therapy?
đ¤Reading every relationship book you can find?
It's not you.
*The real issue: Classic âtalk it outâ strategies, endless self-help books, and expensive couples therapy don't work.
They donât address your unique needs with an avoidant or emotionally unavailable partner. And, they miss the real problem: a nervous system that shuts down under pressure.
*Until you address that, no amount of effort will get you the intimacy you crave.
đWhat Actually Works...
You donât need another draining conversation.
đđ˝ You need a safer spaceÂ
Cos, the real breakthrough happens when you press pause instead of pushing for answers
When you shift your energy into understanding subtle cues, you open emotional doors you never thought possible.
Hereâs what no one tells you: women in healthy relationships arenât âjust luckyâ or âspecial.â (And theyâre not having perfect conversations either).
Theyâve learned simple steps that create lasting intimacy-skills most of us were never taught.
Theyâre real. Theyâre learnable. And theyâre yoursâŚđđ˝
IMAGINE...
You wake up and, instead of scrolling on his phone, he actually pulls you close. Kisses your forehead. Asks how you slept. No tension. No second-guessing. Just warmth.
During the day, you donât have to remind him. He checks in. He remembers the little things, calls in his lunch break, actually wants to be near you.
And when you talk? It isnât you dragging him into a deep conversation. He opens up on his own. He even initiates it - youâve stopped clinging to the old beliefs that it's never going to work.
The whole atmosphere shifts. Softer. More smiles you donât have to force. Laughter slipping out at random moments. His hand brushing your arm just because.
And the fights? They donât spiral like before. You both stay present. Curious about each other. Even the romance flickers again like those memories you thought were gone for good.
And the surprising part? It wasnât harder effort. It was a smarter way that finally made love feel natural
đĄ This is what happens when there is emotional safety with each other.
Safety first âĄď¸ Conversation secondâĄď¸Commitment follows.
It's the only attachment informed intimacy framework designed women (many anxious or fearful attachment) women in relationship with avoidant men through tiny, practical shifts built on emotional safety: not scripts, ultimatums, or 'I feel' statements.
And it's that simple: you stop chasing it and start experiencing itâŹď¸


Get The 4 Essential Steps That Calm His Nervous System And Create Emotional Safety âWithout Draining Talks So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve-Â
*They make instant sense that youâll wonder how you ever did it without them. **It just clicks.

Snapshot Of What's Possible
Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).

Mel, Austria: 3-year relationship
From âmaybe you should find someone elseâ⌠to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.

Amna, UK -Second marriage
 From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates⌠to deeper conversations, holidays, and genuine connection.Â
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Sarah, NYC, USA:Â 4 year relationship
From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal, moving across the country and in together and 2 gorgeous babies

Marja, Belgium: 10-year marriage
From crying on the bathroom floor⌠to laughing over morning coffee, finally feeling safe
For Women Who Want More: Connection, Ease, and Self-Respect.

WHAT'S INSIDEâŹď¸
A Revolutionary Attachment Informed Formula That Rekindles Intimacy - Even If He's ResistantÂ
Traditional advice always tells you to keep pushing for dialogue - but if that hasnât worked, thereâs finally a smarter shortcut.
By the end of Step 4, youâll have your intimacy skills safely locked in. Youâll be doing less,  and receiving more
RESETÂ EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Discover the 3 Safety Leaks That is Blocking Intimacy & Stop Them In Their Tracks--They're Not What You ThinkÂ
By the end of Step 1 you'll see the emotional distance start to soften.

SET THE NEW STANDARD
Shift the Energy So He Starts Leaning In Without Begging, Chasing Or UltimatumsÂ
Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you RECLAIM your energy, flip the script, and truly understand feminine emotional leadership.
By the end of Step 2, youâll notice him leaning in more, not because you asked, but because heâs naturally tuning in, not out.

LOCK IN EMOTIONAL SAFETY
Build Emotional Safety That Makes Him Want to Open Up AND Deepen His Commitment FastÂ
Using my Trust Escalator Methodâ˘, youâll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men soften, making space for warmth, openness, and relational ease.
By end of Step 3, around week 5, youâll see your partner open up with deeper thoughts and greater commitment. (Many women also choose to add -optional- live support at this point- itâs available if you need it)Â

DEEPENÂ EMOTIONAL INTIMACYÂ
Sustain the Spark So Intimacy Grows & He Keeps Choosing You - Over and OverÂ
Timeless, easy-to-implement strategies that sustain closeness. It keeps your partner leading, meeting your needs, staying close willingly and unprompted. Happy partners, happy hearts :-)
By Week 6/Step 4 Â Youâll notice emotional intimacy becoming your new normal. Youâve moved through all four steps in just 6 weeks (thatâs 42 days!)Â with meaningful relationship changes that will typically develop and deepen over months of consistent practice.

Safety precedes intimacy.
Once safety is felt, intimacy is effortless.
TOTAL VALUE [$497]


Comprehensive tools and lifetime access for less than a single coaching session
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Goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
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Connection without over-explaining & draining conversations

Hello to real intimacy, consistent effort, and a committed partner.
"...to think I was going to break up with him...I would have regretted that forever..."
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You'll also get access to even more bonuses...
The EXACTÂ Phrases To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful
(vid & PDF- value $147]
The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map. Share truth in a way his nervous system can receive
 [vid & worksheets value $107]
The 11 Pitfalls To Avoid If Your Partner Is Very Avoidant
 [vid + pdf value $70]
The Effortless Intimacy Formulaâ˘
For Women Who Want More: Connection, Ease, and Self-Respect.

Including The Emotional Resetâ˘, The Emotional Standardâ˘, The Trust Escalator Methodâ˘,
TOTAL VALUE: $999
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ALL OF THIS ONLY FORÂ $199Â $69
*SAVING 70%: This course is worth hundreds, but I want affordability to win over exclusivity.



I'm Shabana, I'm an Attachment Style Coach Obsessed With Helping Women Facing Real Emotional Shut Out - Tested in the Trenches
I believe every woman deserves a relationship where she feels emotionally safe, seen, and cherished. My vision is a world where intimacy isnât chased, but effortlessly created by women (and men) who know their worth AND have a lasting connection.
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I've experienced it all. From turbulent marriages, great relationships to epic breakups, being an avoidant extraordinaire to anxious wreck. I got one too many t-shirts.
And now? I've cracked the code on building intimacy - even with the most avoidant partners.
And, let me tell you, it's a radical shift!
I've spent the past 5 years coaching and helping 1000+ anxious/fearful and avoidant women on how to build intimacy with their partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZINGÂ transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Building a deep connection is simpler than you might think.
That's why I've created this course. I distilled the key insights from my journey and my coaching into 4 straightforward, easy-to-implement skills that create safety first.
Unlike countless âtalk it outâ courses (that don't work!) itâs centred on micro-shifts that donât require your partner to participate at all.
Small, doable, practical shifts. Big returns in connection..Â
If you are ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness, this course is your roadmap.
You will wonder why you ever thought it was difficult.
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy? See you on the other side
Shabana Xx


100% No-Risk Money-Back
7-Day Guarantee
Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.
While real change takes time (I recommend at least 60 days of intentional practice), youâre fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.
If in the first week you feel this isnât aligned...Iâll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.

Choose Your FutureâŹď¸

The Only Step-by-Step Framework Proven to Work in AnxiousâAvoidant Dynamics
Backed by research and grounded in real-life skills. You donât need to âearnâ intimacy or another " I feel" statement - you need the practical steps that actually create genuine closeness.

- 4 PROVEN Steps  To Build Intimacy Even With An Avoidant Partner (Valued at $497)
- Lifetime Access â Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($97)
- Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises â End disconnection and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($97)
- Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $127)
- Bonus #2: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable In A Few Minutes ($107)
- Bonus #3:Â The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partner is Very Avoidant (Valued at $70)
 COURSE VALUE: $999
ALL OF THIS FORÂ ONLY $199Â $69*
(*Get $999 worth of proven intimacy tools today for just $69)
Iâm Ready to Feel Safe & Lovedđâ Satisfaction Guarantee

Is This Course For You?
This bite-size course is designed for women who want deep transformation without hours of contentâjust focused, doable shifts that actually work
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You have the patience and commitment to learn an approach that actually works and witness observable differences.
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You're a woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship/marriage and eager to bridge the distance and disconnection.
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You're in a relationship with an avoidant partner and have hope of having an intimate relationship, and you yearn for what's possible
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+Â women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
â You're looking for a magic bullet or quick-fixes. It's long term change with micro-shifts stacked over time. You must be willing to try the strategies for at least 60 days.
â This course isnât for situationships where things stay vague, or undefined.
â Youâre hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone theyâre not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to building emotional safety -Â not forcing someone else to change.
â Youâre in a relationship that is abusive or extremely toxic.

Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner doesn't want to do the course?
Will this help if I donât know my attachment style?
Is it live, guided or self-paced?
How do I know this isn't just another fad course?
DoI get immediate access to the course, is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
How long is the course?
What If It Doesnât Work?
The First Step-by-Step System for Emotional Safety and Lasting Connection Even if Heâs Avoidant.
No Chasing, Ultimatums, or Self-Abandonment
If youâve been holding the relationship together with emotional duct tapeâ
If youâre tired of decoding mixed signals, overthinking your every word, and doing all the work just to feel close...
You donât need another exhausting conversation.
You donât need to be âmore chill,â âmore healed,â or âless needy.â
You need the 4 steps that actually create safety, connection, and effort on both sides.
The Effortless Intimacy Formula gives you that so that you shift the dynamicâ
without chasing, overgiving, or abandoning your truth.
This is where the pattern breaks đđ˝
