🛡️ For Women With Distant, Emotionally Unavailable Avoidant Partners 

The solution isn’t endless patience.

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Emotional Intimacy Formula™

""I'm only 1/2 way through the course...& he’s already the one calling me, pouring his heart out!”

The community bestselling course built to help him...lean in, open up, and want to connect...without chasing, begging, or losing yourself.

Distilled 7 years coaching into 4 clear steps to help you create intimacy built to last.  

✅ Emotionally Safe ✅ Needs Met ✅ Lasting Connection 
YES! I’m Ready for a Relationship; That Requires Less Effort!😍

Goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance

Connection without over-explaining & draining conversations

Hello to real intimacy, effort, and a committed partner.

 Breakthroughs From Women Just Like You...

Emotional Intimacy is not complicated.

It’s practical. It’s a simple sequence of steps any woman can use to create connection in her relationship.

It follows a clear framework. One that recodes the anxious–avoidant dance.

It isn’t about changing your partner. It’s about creating an emotional landscape where intimacy thrives.

And it’s intentional. And it starts with knowing how closeness really works.

🛡️ This belongs to every woman. Including you 💘
Show Me the 4 Simple Steps That Will Bring Us Closer →

Right now…

➡️ You pour your heart into a message, only to be left on “seen” with nothing but that hollow pit in your stomach 💔

➡️ You ask, “What do you like about me?” and get an eye-roll and, “Why do we always have to talk about this? You’re NEVER happy!” 😖

➡️ You give everything—empathy, patience, your best self—and it still feels like it barely lands.

 

👉🏽And you've tried..
🤔Talking about your feelings nonstop? 
🤔Endlessly suggesting couples therapy?
🤔Reading every relationship book you can find?

It's not you.

*The real issue: Classic “talk it out” strategies, endless self-help books, and expensive couples therapy don't work.

They don’t address your unique needs with an avoidant or emotionally unavailable partner. And, they miss the real problem: a nervous system that shuts down under pressure.

*Until you address that, no amount of effort will get you the intimacy you crave.

"I'm thrilled! Your program has really hit home with me...my husband is avoidant and I’m anxious...and it’s really opened my eyes to see my part of things".

 
 
What if increasing intimacy could be SIMPLE and...EASY? 💃🏽

What if in 86 minutes - the length of an extended lunch break - you could have more connection and intimacy (sometimes with just a FEW choice words?) 

 

What if you didn't need to have constant conversations AND still get your needs met? 

 

What if your partner started going over and above in meeting your needs?

 

What if they started opening up 'voluntarily' without you asking?

 

What if you could have waaaaaaay MORE connection with waaaaaaay LESS effort?

 
 

IMAGINE...

You wake up and, instead of scrolling on his phone, he actually pulls you close.  Zero tension.

During the day, you don’t have to remind him. He checks in himself. He remembers the little things.

And when you talk? It isn’t you dragging him into a deep conversation. He opens up on his own. He even initiates it...

The whole atmosphere shifts. Softer. More smiles. Laughter slipping out at random moments.  

And the fights? They're not toxic like before. They're over before you know it and you wonder what it was all about in the first place...

Like Marija, she went from pushing down her needs, walking on eggshells, and secretly wondering if her relationship was doomed… to a surprise proposal, a dream wedding in South America, and now her first baby. All with the same “emotionally unavailable” man she once thought would never change.
 
💡This is what happens when you build genuine emotional intimacy ⬇️
 

Get The 4 Essential Steps That Create Emotional Safety, A Committed, Present Partner and Intimacy Built to Last Without Draining Talks or Walking on Eggshells So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve- 

*They make instant sense that you’ll wonder how you ever did it without them. **It just clicks.

 
Forget endless talks and therapy bills.

Snapshot Of What's Possible

Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).

 

Mel, Austria: 3-year relationship

From “maybe you should find someone else”… to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.

 

Amna, UK -Second marriage

 From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates… to deeper conversations, holidays, and genuine connection. 

 

 

Sophie, NYC, USA: 4 year relationship

From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal within 3 months, moving across the country and now 2 gorgeous babies

 

Bridget, Belgium: 10-year marriage

From therapist to therapist, on the verge of a break-up… to laughing over morning coffee, and finally feeling safe

 
INTRODUCING
Emotional Intimacy Formula™
For Women Who Want More: Self-Respect, Ease, and Connection
 

WHAT'S INSIDE⬇️

A  Revolutionary  Attachment Informed Formula That Rekindles Intimacy - Even If He's Resistant 

Traditional advice always tells you to keep pushing for dialogue - but if that hasn’t worked, there’s finally a smarter shortcut.

 

STEP 1 [WEEK 1]

RESET EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

Discover the 3 Safety Leaks That is Blocking Intimacy & Stop Them In Their Tracks--They're Not What You Think 

 If you’ve ever thought, ‘Why is he pulling away?’—this is the step that ends the disconnection and helps your partner stay close -even when it's hard
 
By the end of Step 1 you'll see the emotional distance start to soften.
 
STEP 2 [WEEK 2-3]

SET THE NEW STANDARD

Shift the Energy So He Starts Leaning In Without Begging, Chasing Or Ultimatums 

Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you RECLAIM your energy, flip the script, and truly understand feminine emotional leadership.

By the end of Step 2, you’ll notice him leaning in more, not because you asked, but because he’s naturally tuning in, not out.
STEP 3 [WEEK 4-5]

LOCK IN EMOTIONAL SAFETY

Build Emotional Safety  That Makes Him Want to Open Up AND Deepen His Commitment Fast 

Using my Trust Escalator Method™, you’ll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men soften, making space for warmth, openness, and relational ease.

By end of Step 3, around week 5, you’ll see your partner open up with deeper thoughts and greater commitment. (Many women also choose to add -optional- live support at this point- it’s available if you need it) 
 
STEP 4 [WEEK 6]

DEEPEN EMOTIONAL INTIMACY 

Sustain the Spark So Intimacy Grows & He Keeps Choosing You - Over and Over 

Timeless, easy-to-implement strategies that sustain closeness. It keeps your partner leading, meeting your needs, staying close willingly and unprompted. Happy partners, happy hearts :-)

By Week 6/Step 4  You’ll notice emotional intimacy becoming your new normal. You’ve moved through all four steps in just 6 weeks (that’s 42 days!) with meaningful relationship changes that will typically develop and deepen over months of consistent practice.

By the end of Step 4, you’ll be doing less, and receiving more

 

Safety precedes intimacy.

Once safety is felt, intimacy is effortless.

TOTAL VALUE [$497]

 
AND THERE'S MORE...

You'll also get access to even more  bonuses...

 
BONUS #1

The EXACT Phrases To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful

(vid & PDF- value $147]

 
BONUS #2

The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map. Share truth in a way his nervous system can receive

 [vid & worksheets value $107]

 
BONUS #3

The 11 Pitfalls To Avoid If Your Partner Is Very Avoidant

 [vid + pdf value $70]

 

Emotional Intimacy Formula™

For Women Who Want More: Self-Respect, Ease, and Connection

 
Total Value = $1,082
ONE EASY PAYMENT OF

$197 $77

I WANT ALL OF THESE PLEASE 💖

Including The Emotional Reset™, The Emotional Standard™, The Trust Escalator Method™,

 
TOTAL VALUE: $999

ALL OF THIS ONLY FOR $199 $69

*SAVING 70%: This course is worth hundreds, but I want affordability to win over exclusivity.
Give Me the 4 Steps to Create Lasting Intimacy💅🏽
PLUS YOU HAVE...

100% No-Risk Money-Back

7-Day Guarantee

Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.

While real change takes time (I recommend at least 60 days of intentional practice), you’re fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.

If in the first week you feel this isn’t aligned...I’ll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.

 

Choose Your Future⬇️

 

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WHY WORK WITH ME?
I'm Shabana, I'm an Attachment Style Coach Obsessed With Helping Women Facing Real Emotional Shut Out - Tested in the Trenches

I believe every woman deserves a relationship where she feels emotionally safe, seen, and cherished. My vision is a world where intimacy isn’t chased, but effortlessly created by women (and men) who know their worth AND have a lasting connection.

Intimacy left me empty.

💔 Lying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away, googling “how to fix my marriage” at 3 AM, desperate for answers

👉🏽 The problem wasn’t me. It was how I was trying.
I've spent the past 7 years trialling strategies coaching and helping women on how to build intimacy with their partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZING transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).

Unlike countless “talk it out” courses that are exhausting it’s centred on micro-shifts.
Small, doable, practical shifts. Big returns in connection...


If you are ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness, this course is your roadmap.
You will wonder why you ever thought it was difficult.

Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy? See you on the other side

Shabana Xx

 

The Only Step-by-Step Framework Proven with Distant Partners

You don’t need to “earn” intimacy or another " I feel" statement - you need the practical steps that actually create genuine closeness without losing your self-respect.

 
GET INSTANT ACCESS TO:
  • 4 PROVEN Steps  To Build Intimacy Even With An Avoidant Partner (Valued at $497)
  • Lifetime Access – Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($97)
  • Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises – End disconnection and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($97)
 
  • Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $127)
  • Bonus #2: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable In A Few Minutes ($107)
  • Bonus #3: The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partner is Very Avoidant (Valued at $70)
 
Total Value = $1,482
ONE EASY PAYMENT OF

$197 - $77

GIVE ME INSTANT ACCESS 🔑
 COURSE VALUE: $999

ALL OF THIS FOR ONLY $199 $69*

(*Get $999 worth of proven intimacy tools today for just $69)

I’m Ready to Feel Safe & Loved💍

✅ Satisfaction Guarantee

 

Is This Course For You?

This bite-size course is designed for women who want deep transformation without hours of content—just focused, doable shifts that actually work

 
THIS COURSE IS PERFECT FOR YOU IF...
  • You have the patience and commitment to learn an approach that actually works and witness observable differences.
  • You're a woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship/marriage and eager to bridge the distance and disconnection.
  • You're in a relationship with an avoidant partner and have hope of having an intimate relationship, and you yearn for what's possible
  • You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+  women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
 
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
❌ You're looking for a magic bullet or quick-fixes. It's long term change with micro-shifts stacked over time. You must be willing to try the strategies for at least 60 days.
❌ This course isn’t for situationships where things stay vague, or undefined.
❌ You’re hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone they’re not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to building emotional safety - not forcing someone else to change.
❌ You’re in a relationship that is abusive or extremely toxic.
 
Make Safety Your Advantage -Risk-Free ❤️

Frequently Asked Questions

 

The First Step-by-Step System for A Meaningful Relationship & Lasting Connection 

No Chasing, Ultimatums, or Self-Abandonment

If you’ve been holding the relationship together with emotional duct tape—
If you’re tired of decoding mixed signals, overthinking your every word, and doing all the work just to feel close...

You don’t need another exhausting conversation.
You don’t need to be “more chill,” “more healed,” or “less needy.”

You need the 4 steps that actually create safety, connection, and effort on both sides.

Emotional Intimacy Formula™

gives you that so that you shift the dynamic—
without chasing, overgiving, or abandoning your truth.

This is where the pattern breaks 👇🏽

 
💌Yes, I’m Ready for Lasting Intimacy For Only $197 $69

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