đĄď¸ For Women With Distant, Emotionally Unavailable Avoidant PartnersÂ
The solution isnât endless patience.
â 7 Day Refund â Satisfaction Guarantee
Emotional Intimacy Formulaâ˘
""I'm only 1/2 way through the course...& heâs already the one calling me, pouring his heart out!âThe community bestselling course built to help him...lean in, open up, and want to connect...without chasing, begging, or losing yourself.
Distilled 7 years coaching into 4 clear steps to help you create intimacy built to last. Â
â Emotionally Safe â Needs Met â  Lasting ConnectionÂ
YES! Iâm Ready for a Relationship; That Requires Less Effort!đ
Goodbye to over-giving and emotional distance
Connection without over-explaining & draining conversations
Hello to real intimacy, effort, and a committed partner.
 Breakthroughs From Women Just Like You...
Emotional Intimacy is not complicated.
Itâs practical. Itâs a simple sequence of steps any woman can use to create connection in her relationship.
It follows a clear framework. One that recodes the anxiousâavoidant dance.
It isnât about changing your partner. Itâs about creating an emotional landscape where intimacy thrives.
And itâs intentional. And it starts with knowing how closeness really works.
đĄď¸ This belongs to every woman. Including you đ
Right nowâŚ
âĄď¸ You pour your heart into a message, only to be left on âseenâ with nothing but that hollow pit in your stomach đ
âĄď¸ You ask, âWhat do you like about me?â and get an eye-roll and, âWhy do we always have to talk about this? Youâre NEVER happy!â đ
âĄď¸ You give everythingâempathy, patience, your best selfâand it still feels like it barely lands.
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đđ˝And you've tried..
đ¤Talking about your feelings nonstop?Â
đ¤Endlessly suggesting couples therapy?
đ¤Reading every relationship book you can find?
It's not you.
*The real issue: Classic âtalk it outâ strategies, endless self-help books, and expensive couples therapy don't work.
They donât address your unique needs with an avoidant or emotionally unavailable partner. And, they miss the real problem: a nervous system that shuts down under pressure.
*Until you address that, no amount of effort will get you the intimacy you crave.
"I'm thrilled! Your program has really hit home with me...my husband is avoidant and Iâm anxious...and itâs really opened my eyes to see my part of things".
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IMAGINE...
You wake up and, instead of scrolling on his phone, he actually pulls you close. Zero tension.
During the day, you donât have to remind him. He checks in himself. He remembers the little things.
And when you talk? It isnât you dragging him into a deep conversation. He opens up on his own. He even initiates it...
The whole atmosphere shifts. Softer. More smiles. Laughter slipping out at random moments. Â
And the fights? They're not toxic like before. They're over before you know it and you wonder what it was all about in the first place...
Like Marija, she went from pushing down her needs, walking on eggshells, and secretly wondering if her relationship was doomed⌠to a surprise proposal, a dream wedding in South America, and now her first baby. All with the same âemotionally unavailableâ man she once thought would never change.
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đĄThis is what happens when you build genuine emotional intimacy âŹď¸
Get The 4 Essential Steps That Create Emotional Safety, A Committed, Present Partner and Intimacy Built to Last Without Draining Talks or Walking on Eggshells So You Can Finally Experience The Deep Connection You Deserve-Â
*They make instant sense that youâll wonder how you ever did it without them. **It just clicks.
Forget endless talks and therapy bills.
Snapshot Of What's Possible
Real Women, Real Results (names and photos changed for client privacy. Stories are 100% real).
Mel, Austria: 3-year relationship
From âmaybe you should find someone elseâ⌠to him pouring his heart out within 30 days.
Amna, UK -Second marriage
 From an avoidant husband, functioning like roommates⌠to deeper conversations, holidays, and genuine connection.Â
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Sophie, NYC, USA:Â 4 year relationship
From avoidance, gaming, lack of connection to proposal within 3 months, moving across the country and now 2 gorgeous babies
Bridget, Belgium: 10-year marriage
From therapist to therapist, on the verge of a break-up⌠to laughing over morning coffee, and finally feeling safe
For Women Who Want More: Self-Respect, Ease, and Connection
WHAT'S INSIDEâŹď¸
A Revolutionary Attachment Informed Formula That Rekindles Intimacy - Even If He's ResistantÂ
Traditional advice always tells you to keep pushing for dialogue - but if that hasnât worked, thereâs finally a smarter shortcut.
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RESETÂ EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Discover the 3 Safety Leaks That is Blocking Intimacy & Stop Them In Their Tracks--They're Not What You ThinkÂ
By the end of Step 1 you'll see the emotional distance start to soften.
SET THE NEW STANDARD
Shift the Energy So He Starts Leaning In Without Begging, Chasing Or UltimatumsÂ
Avoidants respond to subtle energetic shifts. This is the step where you RECLAIM your energy, flip the script, and truly understand feminine emotional leadership.
By the end of Step 2, youâll notice him leaning in more, not because you asked, but because heâs naturally tuning in, not out.
LOCK IN EMOTIONAL SAFETY
Build Emotional Safety That Makes Him Want to Open Up AND Deepen His Commitment FastÂ
Using my Trust Escalator Methodâ˘, youâll fast-track emotional safety so even the most avoidant men soften, making space for warmth, openness, and relational ease.
By end of Step 3, around week 5, youâll see your partner open up with deeper thoughts and greater commitment. (Many women also choose to add -optional- live support at this point- itâs available if you need it)Â
DEEPENÂ EMOTIONAL INTIMACYÂ
Sustain the Spark So Intimacy Grows & He Keeps Choosing You - Over and OverÂ
Timeless, easy-to-implement strategies that sustain closeness. It keeps your partner leading, meeting your needs, staying close willingly and unprompted. Happy partners, happy hearts :-)
By Week 6/Step 4 Â Youâll notice emotional intimacy becoming your new normal. Youâve moved through all four steps in just 6 weeks (thatâs 42 days!)Â with meaningful relationship changes that will typically develop and deepen over months of consistent practice.
By the end of Step 4, youâll be doing less, and receiving more
Safety precedes intimacy.
Once safety is felt, intimacy is effortless.
TOTAL VALUE [$497]
You'll also get access to even more bonuses...
The EXACTÂ Phrases To Say And Do If Your Partner is Hurtful
(vid & PDF- value $147]
The 5-Minute Vulnerability Map. Share truth in a way his nervous system can receive
 [vid & worksheets value $107]
The 11 Pitfalls To Avoid If Your Partner Is Very Avoidant
 [vid + pdf value $70]
Emotional Intimacy Formulaâ˘
For Women Who Want More: Self-Respect, Ease, and Connection
Including The Emotional Resetâ˘, The Emotional Standardâ˘, The Trust Escalator Methodâ˘,
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TOTAL VALUE: $999
ALL OF THIS ONLY FORÂ $199Â $69
*SAVING 70%: This course is worth hundreds, but I want affordability to win over exclusivity.
Give Me the 4 Steps to Create Lasting Intimacyđ đ˝
100% No-Risk Money-Back
7-Day Guarantee
Enrol in the Effortless Intimacy Formula with zero pressure.
While real change takes time (I recommend at least 60 days of intentional practice), youâre fully protected with my 7-day refund guarantee.
If in the first week you feel this isnât aligned...Iâll refund every cent. Your investment is fully protected, so you have nothing to lose and a truly an intimate relationship to gain.
Choose Your FutureâŹď¸
I'm Shabana, I'm an Attachment Style Coach Obsessed With Helping Women Facing Real Emotional Shut Out - Tested in the Trenches
I believe every woman deserves a relationship where she feels emotionally safe, seen, and cherished. My vision is a world where intimacy isnât chased, but effortlessly created by women (and men) who know their worth AND have a lasting connection.
Intimacy left me empty.
đ Lying next to my 'avoidant' husband who felt like a million miles away, googling âhow to fix my marriageâ at 3 AM, desperate for answers
đđ˝ The problem wasnât me. It was how I was trying.
I've spent the past 7 years trialling strategies coaching and helping women on how to build intimacy with their partners-even emotionally unavailable ones- and I've seen some AMAZING transformations (marriages, babies, divorce-no-more, decades of singledom to boom-moving in together).
Unlike countless âtalk it outâ courses that are exhausting itâs centred on micro-shifts.
Small, doable, practical shifts. Big returns in connection...
If you are ready to stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying genuine closeness, this course is your roadmap.
You will wonder why you ever thought it was difficult.
Ready to unlock the secret to effortless intimacy? See you on the other side
Shabana Xx
The Only Step-by-Step Framework Proven with Distant Partners
You donât need to âearnâ intimacy or another " I feel" statement - you need the practical steps that actually create genuine closeness without losing your self-respect.
- 4 PROVEN Steps  To Build Intimacy Even With An Avoidant Partner (Valued at $497)
- Lifetime Access â Revisit the material anytime you need a reset or deeper understanding ($97)
- Vids, Worksheets & Guided Exercises â End disconnection and reinforce new, intimacy skills ($97)
- Bonus #1: The EXACT Things to Say If Your Partner Is Hurtful (Valued at $127)
- Bonus #2: Step by Step Method To Be Truly Vulnerable In A Few Minutes ($107)
- Bonus #3:Â The 11pitfalls to avoid if your partner is Very Avoidant (Valued at $70)
 COURSE VALUE: $999
ALL OF THIS FORÂ ONLY $199Â $69*
(*Get $999 worth of proven intimacy tools today for just $69)
Iâm Ready to Feel Safe & Lovedđâ Satisfaction Guarantee
Is This Course For You?
This bite-size course is designed for women who want deep transformation without hours of contentâjust focused, doable shifts that actually work
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You have the patience and commitment to learn an approach that actually works and witness observable differences.
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You're a woman in a long-term heterosexual relationship/marriage and eager to bridge the distance and disconnection.
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You're in a relationship with an avoidant partner and have hope of having an intimate relationship, and you yearn for what's possible
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You struggle with anxious or fearful attachment style - this course has helped 1000+Â women to build intimacy and heal their attachment style along the way
â You're looking for a magic bullet or quick-fixes. It's long term change with micro-shifts stacked over time. You must be willing to try the strategies for at least 60 days.
â This course isnât for situationships where things stay vague, or undefined.
â Youâre hoping to use these strategies to change your partner or mould them into someone theyâre not. This course is about empowering you with proven skills to building emotional safety -Â not forcing someone else to change.
â Youâre in a relationship that is abusive or extremely toxic.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner doesn't want to do the course?
Will this help if I donât know my attachment style?
Is it live, guided or self-paced?
How do I know this isn't just another fad course?
DoI get immediate access to the course, is it mine to keep, or is there a time limit?
How long is the course?
What If It Doesnât Work?
The First Step-by-Step System for A Meaningful Relationship & Lasting ConnectionÂ
No Chasing, Ultimatums, or Self-Abandonment
If youâve been holding the relationship together with emotional duct tapeâ
If youâre tired of decoding mixed signals, overthinking your every word, and doing all the work just to feel close...
You donât need another exhausting conversation.
You donât need to be âmore chill,â âmore healed,â or âless needy.â
You need the 4 steps that actually create safety, connection, and effort on both sides.
Emotional Intimacy Formulaâ˘
gives you that so that you shift the dynamicâ
without chasing, overgiving, or abandoning your truth.
This is where the pattern breaks đđ˝