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*Complete Your Secure Love Kit* 40% OFF 

Don't want the whole bundle and just want one course?

Or want to round up the bundle & missing a piece? Add individual courses to round out your journey(or snag just what you need to get started!) ⬇️

 
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA
Start to finish emotional safety with an avoidant partner
WAS $47 NOW $28.20  SAVE 40% 

 

 

Inside you get: 
💡  Step 1: End the Pull-Away Cycle for Good: [Value $197]
💫Step 2: He Becomes More  Consistent: . [Value $197]
🗣️Step 3: : He Starts to Open Up & Becomes More Available:  [Value $197]
🎯 Step 4: Become His Priority With Him Chasing:  [Value $297]

 &

BONUSES

💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast & Increase His Commitment [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3  The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]

 

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⏳GET EIF & SAVE 40%⏳
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA]

Internal validation full toolkit

WAS $97 NOW $58.20 SAVE 40% 
 
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method To Stop The Re-assurance Seeking Loop :  [Value $179]
✨ Stop Auditioning For His Approval:   [Value $229]
🎯 Stay Steady Even If Your Partner Disappears - or distances [Value $229]
🥬Feel Permission To Bring Your Actual Desires:[Value $179]
😍Discover The Playful Way To Seek Reassurance [Value $229] 

&

BONUSES

📕BONUS #1 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼‍♀️BONUS #2 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]

   

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THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR]
Availability vs avoidance decoded in minutes
WAS $37 NOW $22.20 SAVE 40% 

Inside you get:

✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles  [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available .[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep  Dive: [Value $99]

&

BONUSES

👖BONUS #1 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy  Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #2 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]

 

 

 

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SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB]
Attraction to commitment-ready dating
WAS $97 NOW $58.20 SAVE 40%

 

Inside you get:
 
1️⃣Attraction Decoded Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People [Value $299]
2️⃣Your Attachment Patterns in Love And What To Do Instead: [Value $247]
3️⃣ Secure Attraction Skills: [Value $299]
4️⃣ Secure Commitment Skills:  Value $299]

&

BONUSES

💍Bonus #1 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear  [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #2: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral ([Value $199]
🌍BONUS #3:  3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating [Value $199]
🏃🏼‍♂️‍➡️BONUS #4: 90 second ritual  when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. [Value $199]
 
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 MINI BUNDLE 3 

The Availability Radar &  Self-Assurance Accelerator SAVE 30%

Already have Effortless Intimacy Formula or Secure Attraction Blueprint? Get the perfect additions with Available Radar & Self Assurance Accelerator.
They protect you from the two biggest heartbreaks anxious and fearful-avoidant women face: walking away from a healthy man because you misread him, or clinging to the wrong man because your anxiety won’t let go.
EIF/SAB teach dating & intimacy. These two stop you from sabotaging it. 

TOTAL VALUE : $1947

NORMALLY $134 NOW $93.80  
 
COURSE 1
SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR 
 Free yourself from constant “Do you love me?” questions, late-night text anxieties, that create chaos in your love life 
Inside you get
💪 The 5R Method to truly relax in your love life [Value $179]
✨No more feeling one-down or like he has all the emotional power. End the hidden power dynamic and start showing up as as an equal and valuable. [Value $229]
🎯 Replace the four subtle behaviours that turn good men off with four that create steadiness and ease. These tiny shifts change the whole vibe. [Value $229]
🥬Whenever you spiral, panic, or start imagining worst-case scenarios, run it through the LEAF tool so you stop acting from fear and start responding calmly [Value $179]
😍Seek reassurance the right way so you can express ‘I feel a wobble’ and he feels your struggles, and reassures you the way you need [Value $229]

BONUSES

📕BONUS #1 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼‍♀️BONUS #2 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197] 
 
 COURSE 2 
THE AVAILABILITY RADAR👀
Take back control of your love life & decode his behaviour with crystal clarity so there's no more confusion.
Inside you get
✔️ 6 Complete Emotional Availability Profiles :Clear breakdowns of six types of men, their strengths, their red flags, their emotional availability [Value $199]
✔️ 20 Often-Missed True Signs of Avoidant & Emotionally Available Spot the subtle behaviours most women overlook… and finally understand if he’s truly avoidant or simply overwhelmed and stressed.[Value $76]
✔️ The Emotional Pattern Deep  Dive: Get granular and know what's really going on his mind when he pulls away, or gets close, acts inconsistent so you can respond from calm instead of confusion.[Value $99] 

BONUSES

👖BONUS #1 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy  Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #2 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
 
GET MINI-BUNDLE 3 & SAVE 30%

 NEW ARRIVAL

 Healing Anxious Attachment Intensive PRE-SALE

TOTAL VALUE : $4323
   OFFICIAL $397  PRESALE $197.00 SAVE$200
Releases in Jan 2026
 

Get first dibs to the exciting NEWEST addition of the Secure Attachment Series. Partner with your anxious attachment at the root level so you stop being hijacked by panic, overthinking, shame, and emotional whiplash… and start living from a calm that runs through your bones and feels like exhaling for the first time in years.

  

 Anxious Attachment Intensive

**PRE-SALE *** AVAILABLE IN MID JANUARY 

  Anxious to secure attachment deep reset in 90 Days 

What's Inside

🌶MODULE 1: The Anxious Nervous System: Understanding Your AA's Survival Code:   Value $497]
 🛠MODULE 2: The Shame + Self-Blame Complex Dismantling & Dissolving the Shame Stories , “It’s My Fault” Reflex &  Jealousy[ Value $497]
😻MODULE 3 & 4: The Two Core Wounds Healing The Abandonment Wound That Heal EVERY Adult Relationship:  [Value $997]
 MODULE 5: Rewiring the Threat-Detection System:  Positive Regulation Practices To Train Your Body To Stay Regulated & Receive Love: [Value $697]
 MODULE 6: Reclaiming Who You Are in Connection:   [Value $697]

 &

HUGE BONUSES:

🧘🏼Regulation Toolkit Audio Library
Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown. Medicine for your fried nervous system so you can regulate on the go! [Value $297]
🌄The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals
A 7-day morning rituals like emergency greens that gets you back to baseline before your brain wakes up enough to check last night messages.  [Value $297]
🆘The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker
A tracker system that maps your secure patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress in black and white.  Track your emotional shifts, triggers, until secure becomes the new default. [Value $147]
🦺Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates  [Value $197]
📈 AND so much more...

 

TOTAL VALUE $4323

 OFFICIAL $397 PRE-SALE $197.00 

SAVE $200

 
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*NEW ELITE SECURE WOMEN'S CLUB MEMBERSHIP* 

KICKING OFF 26TH JANUARY 2025 PRE-SALE FOR BLACK FRIDAY!
 

Signature Course: The Secure Attacher

FINAL CHANCE: $555 (Triples to $1695 in New Year)

This isn’t just another course—it’s the step-by-step roadmap to heal your attachment style whether it be anxiuos, avoidant or fearful -within a few months. Plus get the proven tools to create the stable, secure relationship you’ve always dreamed of using my proven 7-Step Secure Way Method. 

What You’ll Get 👉🏽
  • 🔓 Unlock the secure version of YOU—no more crying over texts that never come, panicking about what they’re thinking, or freezing when you’re asked to “open up.” With real-world examples, you’ll learn how to rewrite anxious, avoidant, or fearful attachment patterns into secure, steady connections—without losing yourself

    💬 Communication Scripts & Tools That WORK:My step-by-step communication tools show you EXACTLY what to say when they get defensive or triggered during a tough conversation or you feel temped to send that 3rd text this day. 

    💡 Master Emotional Calm: Gain insights to  YOUR emotional “danger zones,” like feeling abandoned when text go unread or freezing when they say "Can we talk?"

    🏆Set boundaries & get  resolve conflict like a secure pro so that you can build emotional safety with your anxious/fearful or avoidant partner while staying 💯true to yourself.
     
    🌱 Break Free from the Anxious-Avoidant Dance: Exhausted by the push-pull of "will they, won't they"? Say goodbye to overanalysing texts or pushing partners away when they get too close. Gain tools to break the cycle and finally create mutual connection
     
    ⚡️Get Your Needs Met: Voice your needs without walking on eggshells, playing small in a way and express you needs so that your partner can hear. 
    .

AND HUGE BONUSES INCLUDED:

  • 💛 Reclaim Your Self-Worth -practical tools meet mindset shifts to help you start owning your worth. It’s like a crash course in being unapologetically YOU without losing yourself or your independence
 🔥 Deeper subconscious work to release the fears, doubts, and unspoken “rules” that keep you guarded, overthinking, or pushing love away so that you can become open to love.

 

 👩‍❤️‍👨 Feminine  & Masculine Energy:🔥 Step into your feminine energy, so he naturally serves in his masculine. No more over-functioning or taking charge just to keep things moving—embrace your softness, so he feels inspired to lead and support.

 

📈 AND so much more... 

 

 ⬇️

 

 
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BUNDLE 4

*THE VIP EXPERIENCE*

 

VIP1:1 Coaching Package 

(ONLY 03 Spots | Jan Start)| $1595  (use your coupon!)

Let me be your secret weapon for achieving bigger, faster breakthroughs in your secure love & attachment journey.

What you get 
  • 🤩Three 60-minute 1:1 Coaching Sessions to be used over 6 months. 
    🤫Personalised and completely tailored to tackle avoidant, fearful, or anxious patterns head-on, while creating a clear path with actionable steps to the connection and stability you’re craving.
    😍Customised Intimacy Plan
    We’ll deep-dive & map out the exact steps to create deeper intimacy and a stronger connection with your partner—or attract an emotionally available partner who meets your needs (this works for avoidants, too!)
BONUSES INCLUDED:
  • 💡 Pre-Session Prep
    Submit screenshots, text messages, and any extra details before each session so I can do my homework and come fully prepared to maximize our time together.
    🎯 Follow-Up Resources
    Get tailored tools, exercises, and action plans after every session to support your growth and ensure your transformation continues between calls.
    📂 Session Recordings
    Revisit every single insight, strategy, and action step with access to full session recordings whenever you need a refresh or extra inspiration.
    🌟 Priority Access to Q&A Events
    Continue your journey with VIP access to my exclusive Q&A events for ongoing support and guidance.
 
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Step Into Your Secure Era 

$The Best Value $

The Ultimate Secure Bundle: Get the  COMPLETE transformation: every course and rewrite your love and attachment story & step into the most loved, secure, self-assured version of you for 2026.

 Only 297 [SAVE 55%]

 

Ready to step into stable, consistent, secure love? This ultimate bundle gives you EVERYTHING you need to end the anxious-avoidance dance, heal attachment wounds, AND attract (and keep) the love you deserve.

 

WHAT YOU'LL GET
EFFORTLESS INTIMACY FORMULA [EIF] $47
Start to finish emotional safety with an avoidant partner

&

THE AVAILABILITY RADAR 👀 [AR]  $37
Availability vs avoidance decoded in minutes

&

SECURE ATTRACTION BLUEPRINT [SAB] $97
Attraction to commitment-Ready
 

SELF-ASSURANCE ACCELERATOR [SAA]  $97

Internal validation full toolkit

&

*NEW HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT INTENSIVE  $397
Anxious to secure attachment deep reset:
*RELEASES IN JANUARY* GET FIRST DIBS 

&

HUUUGE BONUSES...

💖 BONUS #1 The EXACT Things To Say And Do If Your Avoidant Partner Is Mean [Value $197]
🎁 BONUS #2 The 5-Minute Vulnerability Convo™ To Get Your Needs Met Fast [Value $147]
🛡️ BONUS #3 — The 11 Hidden Pitfalls That Blow Up Intimacy Without You Realising [Value $99]
📕BONUS #4 Affirmations & New Beliefs To Let Go of Seeking Reassurance [Value $197]
🧘🏼‍♀️BONUS #5 Your 20-Minute POWERFUL Meditation for Reassurance-Anxiety [Value $197]
👖BONUS #6 The Back-Pocket Laminate-Worthy  Avoidant or No Checklist:? (Spot It In Seconds)[Value $77]
🫢BONUS #7 18 Sneaky Questions to Reveal Emotional Availability (They’ll Never Suspect!) [Value $57]
💍Bonus #8 Commitment 101 The Basics Made Clear  [Value $197]
☺️BONUS #9: Stop the “what if he changes his mind?” spiral (perfect for AA)[Value $199]
🌍BONUS #10:  3 min breathwork to make commitment feel spacious, not suffocating (perfect for DA)[Value $199]
🏃🏼‍♂️‍➡️BONUS #11: 90 second ritual  when your heart wants closeness but your body wants to bolt. (perfect for FA)[Value $199]
🧘🏼BONUS #12 Regulation Toolkit Audio Library Short, punchy audios you can use the second your system flips into panic, overthinking, or shutdown [Value $297]
🌄BONUS #13 The 3-Minute Self-Trust Morning Rituals A 7-day morning ritual sequence that rewires your baseline for the day before your brain even wakes up enough to self-sabotage [Value $297]
🆘BONUS #14 The 6-Week Trigger SOS Tracker A tracker that maps your patterns with daily prompts so you actually see your progress instead of hoping for it.  [Value $147]
🦺BONUS #15 Lifetime Access to All Modules & Updates  [Value $497]
📈 AND so much more...

 

Total Value: $9539

 

TOTAL $674 ONLY $297 SAVE 55%

 
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Hi, I'm Shabana.

YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES COACH.

I'm your go-to girl for all things attachment styles, relationship transformation, and making your love life as secure and fulfilling as possible.

I've been navigating the complex world of attachment styles since 2016 and today I've helped 500+women transform their relationships and find secure love.

But it wasn't always like that:

I was avoidant into my 40s and then flipped to anxious-fearful in my marriage. We were stuck in the anxious-avoidant trap for 3 loooong years, walking on eggshells, and pushing down our needs (or demanding them so hard) we could barely breathe.

If I didn't have the tools, I'd be divorced 3 times already (true story).

Now, I can't wait to share my 7-Step Secure Way Method, powerful intimacy skills, and proven relationship insights and tools with you.

So that you get the love you deserve: the secure and safe love that makes you weak in the knees. 

You ready?

Let's go. xx

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